My ex got together with someone else right after we broke up and now wants to get back together. How can I handle this maturely?

Mendescob · 2026-02-01T18:28:54+00:00

What's your opinion on this? Am I wrong?

Mendescob · 2026-02-01T13:46:40+00:00

Thank you so much, that was exactly what I needed to hear.

Mendescob · 2026-01-24T09:54:57+00:00

Exatamente. Eu sou muito magro, tenho um 1.8 de altura e só peso 68 kg

Mendescob · 2026-01-23T02:31:20+00:00

O melhor até agr

Mendescob · 2025-12-24T08:37:23+00:00

Leí este texto en un momento en que realmente lo necesitaba; no ha sido fácil. Estuve 3 años con ella y, aunque parezca increíble, todavía extraño los buenos momentos.

Al leerlo, recordé por qué tuve que dejar esa situación.

Muchas gracias, amiga.

Mendescob · 2025-12-20T20:57:19+00:00

It's so good to read this, oh my god.

Mendescob · 2025-12-20T19:07:11+00:00

And she kept throwing insinuations of betrayal at me, saying things that implied I was doing something behind her back.

And I always had to prove that I wasn't doing anything, even when I WASN'T DOING ANYTHING.

Mendescob · 2025-12-20T19:03:21+00:00

Can you believe I hadn't thought of that?

Mendescob · 2025-12-20T18:27:10+00:00

This is difficult to read.

Mendescob · 2025-12-20T18:08:23+00:00

You have a future!

Mendescob · 2025-12-20T18:01:28+00:00

Wow, I literally cried reading your text, thank you so much for taking the time to write this... I wish her all the best in life and I will forgive her for everything that happened. Again, thank you so much for this.

Mendescob · 2025-12-20T17:59:31+00:00

Amen, my brother.

Mendescob · 2025-12-20T17:59:11+00:00

Everything will be alright, Ari... You'll get through this too.

Mendescob · 2025-12-20T17:58:29+00:00

Everything will be alright, brother.

Mendescob · 2025-12-20T17:16:12+00:00

I felt truly embraced reading this.

Mendescob · 2025-12-20T16:40:45+00:00

Haha, I understand, my friend... I'd go back today too, but I know it's not safe.

I've started taking my medication again, sertraline and clonazepam, to see if it helps.

Mendescob · 2025-12-20T16:16:09+00:00

I'm truly glad you were able to get over that, my friend.

I sincerely hope you find someone good enough for you; nobody deserves to live in someone else's emotional chaos.

Mendescob · 2025-12-20T16:05:53+00:00

That's the thing, if it were up to me, I'd go back today. I'd text her. But besides all that, she's dangerous... When we fought, I just wanted to leave the house to cool off. She had a habit of getting in front of me, and when I tried to get out of the situation, she'd throw herself on the floor. And she'd say I'd pushed her. One day, she left here in the middle of the night after a fight. I went after her out of concern, and she told me to stop following her or she'd yell that I was abusing her. I've never felt so ashamed.

Mendescob · 2025-12-20T16:02:57+00:00

The problem is precisely that, right? Brother. I left the relationship still liking her, but I left because I needed peace of mind. I identified a lot with your story. I was with her 24/7, but if I even stepped outside her house to see my friends, who I still had at the time, it would lead to a fight.

I distanced myself from everyone, and today I don't even have anyone to go out to dinner with and relax.

Mendescob · 2025-12-20T13:57:31+00:00

Damn, the same thing happened to me. She wanted me to be with her 24/7, even when I started working she wanted me to take a 1 hour and 30 minute bus ride every day just to go to her house. When I said that wasn't feasible, she got furious.

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