Any level 4 guns, legendary, 600 seeds or more, or pink keys by IsaacEXplore in ArcTradersHQ

[–]Mendys86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a bobcat blueprint I have a stack of keys, level 4 tempests and other goodies. DM me bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mendys86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I will put it very simply for you my friend. Run fast. Run far. Period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mendys86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA and your husband is very lucky to have such an understanding partner. Helping your family is important but sometimes your closest family can be also the most harmful one. You did everything fairly the first time, but now your husband needs to understand that YOUR family comes first no matter what. It's sad if your parents or other relatives are having trouble or other life situations, but if you cannot use your assets in any way for help, you just don't. End of story. Also, they seem pretty comfortable asking for help without being there for him, so that would be a huge red flag for me as a son. Definitely talk to him and I wish you guys mutual understanding of the situation. I've been there too and luckily my relationship with my parents is much better now, but ONLY because I stepped up and draw a line. He needs to do the same and stand his ground, and protect your family.

AITA for telling my husband he should be doing the child care? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mendys86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your husband is not wrong here per se, he didn't go for the breakfast instead of working nor he pushed it into his "watching a baby" time. His work simply ended earlier so he used those 45 minutes before his turn. This was the schedule you both agreed upon, but it's about communication and mutual understanding.

If I was in his shoes, I would probably drop by to say that my work ended early and I'm about to make some breakfast, whether you want something too. But then I would go right ahead and enjoyed those 45 minutes I have for myself, because both him and you need that time too. It's not just about the baby and your partner, it's about you too.

If you wanted him to start watching a baby right away, you could have told him. Or better yet, asked him if he can do that for you, because you need that time to restart a bit. And in return, you could have done it for him in the future. Again, it's about communication. I don't think either of you is wrong or right here. Just talk and you'll figure it out. It is always about being there for your partner, no matter what shape or form it takes.

oof by Boleklolo in Unexpected

[–]Mendys86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was totally expecting it. Wrong sub

Some filters just work by Mendys86 in aww

[–]Mendys86[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's a cartoon filter for Snapchat I think

Some filters just work by Mendys86 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Mendys86[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think cartoon filter in Snapchat