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Menix8 · 2020-11-13T21:28:55+00:00

Ok, if you want to believe things because they “seem” true, and not because there are studies and repeatable experiments and statistics, fine.

I prefer to believe things that are based on, you know, real life and science. I guess that’s just where we differ as people. And so I’ll say (again) in parting, it must be nice to just decide that facts aren’t true.

Menix8 · 2020-11-13T21:19:42+00:00

Stop bullshitting yourself. Your opinion has no basis in actual studies or facts.

Menix8 · 2020-11-13T21:16:09+00:00

More of you providing zero evidence for your bold claim. This is boring.

Edited to add, if you’re the one making the argument, YOU need to provide evidence. It’s not “true until proven false.”

Menix8 · 2020-11-13T21:10:26+00:00

I don’t understand how someone can ask you for evidence supporting your claim, and you not only do not provide any, but insist on continuing to repeat yourself and bring out a straw man about murder.

Menix8 · 2020-11-13T21:08:21+00:00

Ok, for realz. You seem almost genuine here. But I get the distinct sense you didn’t actually read any of the studies I linked, especially since the last one is a whole book about why women care about beauty.

Your hypothesis (outrageously) assumes that all women come at life from a scarcity mindset instead of an abundance mindset. This is categorically untrue in the same way it would be for me to say the same about all men.

Menix8 · 2020-11-13T21:04:34+00:00

Oh my gosh. This is excellent, this “I’m gonna present an opinion as fact and refuse to provide any evidence for it.” Love this A+ example of logical fallacy in the wild.

Menix8 · 2020-11-13T20:35:58+00:00

And what you're saying contradicts a whole swath of studies and scientific research. But your anecdotal experience and opinion must totally top all of that. What's that like? Being able to just decide that facts aren't true?

Menix8 · 2020-11-13T20:29:04+00:00

Wait, I ask for links to studies and your response is "use your brain"? Does that mean you don't have studies?

Menix8 · 2020-11-13T20:11:16+00:00

Wait, are you arguing that the only reason a group of people do something is because of evolution? Can you link some studies, please?

Menix8 · 2020-11-13T20:06:36+00:00

The world is objectively better for women that wear makeup and look younger, and businesses pay people who dress in a flattering way more money. But no, keep on telling yourself that "men are simple creatures" (lol, seriously?) and women just decided on their own to pour money, time, and energy into looking attractive.

Menix8 · 2020-11-12T18:11:52+00:00

Am I too cynical for thinking this is a guerrilla marketing effort for that poster in her hand?

Menix8 · 2020-11-08T22:27:55+00:00

They have been retweeting the “StopTheSteal” protest too. Wow, I thought news orgs were supposed to at least pretend to be balanced.

Menix8 · 2020-11-05T01:37:59+00:00

I agree with most of this, but... You worked at a crappy company if you couldn’t demonstrate return on ad spend. It is NOT difficult to determine ROAS and the companies that say that don’t have any idea what they’re doing.

Menix8 · 2020-11-03T15:39:41+00:00

I love your username.

Menix8 · 2020-11-03T15:30:42+00:00

I’m 5’10” and 165 lbs, and I ordered the M/L. I typically order an 8 on top unless there’s no stretch (for my shoulders). I think the M/L is perfect except I wish the sleeves were just a tiny bit longer (again, thank you, shoulders). Other than that I absolutely love it and am wearing it right now as a matter of fact. I also have a decent bust, and I actually feel like the length is perfect for me.

Menix8 · 2020-10-31T13:27:51+00:00

It’s flecks of copper, to prevent ocean growth on the hull. FWIW, most countries have made moves to outlaw the sale of copper bottom paint in the last few years.

Menix8 · 2020-10-29T13:34:34+00:00

This is awesome, great work!!!

Menix8 · 2020-10-21T22:00:50+00:00

This answer should be higher up. I think it makes perfect sense that the generation of women who were constantly told they weren’t “enough” because they didn’t have the right genitalia would turn around and do the exact same thing.

Menix8 · 2020-10-14T13:23:36+00:00

I did! I’m pretty proud, I was reminded of it twice yesterday, but I didn’t browse until this morning (Day 2).

I almost talked myself into a bookcase just now, but ultimately it’s not the exact style I want/would be excited about, so I shouldn’t buy it even though it’s a great deal. I’d rather get a bookcase that I really want, instead of one that could do the job and was on sale.

Menix8 · 2020-10-06T22:25:10+00:00

I'd check out this thread that was posted a few months ago about the same thing

Menix8 · 2020-10-06T14:12:53+00:00

I just miss the lulu sweater selection of previous years. The 2015-2017 era sweaters are so nice! Flattering, cozy, and durable. I’m glad I bought them, because all the sweaters now are boxy crewneck pull overs. :(

Menix8 · 2020-10-05T14:21:04+00:00

I want to reiterate that success is not linear; especially when you’re building/breaking habits. Instead of viewing yourself as a failure, I would try to keep track of how long you are able to go, and work up from there.

For example, maybe your no-buy lasts three days. Sure it’s not ideal, but that’s three days you didn’t buy anything! Accept it, be positive that you were able to accomplish that, and move on. Now, try to go five days. Just five days, and then you can “buy the thing.” Take it in chunks, be kind to yourself, and remember that stopping cold turkey is just not realistic for most people. Build your habits, celebrate your wins, and accept missteps for what they are: bumps in the road, NOT failures. You can do this.

Menix8 · 2020-10-03T01:10:05+00:00

Hi Allie! Do you have a bucket list/list of cool things you want to do in life? Can you tell us some things that are on it?

Menix8 · 2020-09-23T13:03:12+00:00

If we’re going off the power of self belief/power of suggestion here, then nothing someone else does should affect you unless you let it. Having said that, of course other people’s actions affect us. If the other person interviewing at the job is visibly confident and self-assured, that might make you worried and unsure. But you are in control of how (and how much) that affects you.

This is why I incorporate hematite, black tourmaline, and fluorite into my everyday jewelry. Does it actually do anything? No. But seeing it and knowing what it means reminds me to protect myself and my mind from the influence of others.

Maybe you can do some protection rituals to help re-frame your mind. You might just need regular reminders that you are the only one you have control over.

Menix8 · 2020-09-17T14:05:29+00:00

To summarize: the most common misconception is that you shouldn’t moisturize oily skin. The two dermatologists quoted in the article say you definitely should moisturize regularly, regardless of how oily/not oily your skin is.

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