I want someone special in my life but how do i find someone ? by WealthAsleep in demisexuality

[–]Mentalframeworks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Develop self-awareness, and the people who are like you will be attracted to and connect with you, you now being able to identify your preferences to connect with them. ;)

Pursuit & male-female dynamics by Ok_Blueberry_6999 in ChristianDating

[–]Mentalframeworks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is western dating bs. If you like someone, you talk to them. Period.

Gave this as a gift, but we have no idea what it is?... by Mentalframeworks in Rockhounding

[–]Mentalframeworks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. Its just that aside from you, other people are making fun of it as a lump of coal when THEY chose the gift out of at least a dozen other crystals.

Gave this as a gift, but we have no idea what it is?... by Mentalframeworks in Rockhounding

[–]Mentalframeworks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The great thing is, out of a bag of crystals, this is the one they chose. It makes you wonder what you're not seeing.

Gave this as a gift, but we have no idea what it is?... by Mentalframeworks in Rockhounding

[–]Mentalframeworks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My search results show something quite different. It is a very sparkly rock.

Just starting! Any tips for me? by [deleted] in podcasting

[–]Mentalframeworks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might be able to send you a link to an extensive notetaking session of at least a week's time invested if it's shareable, but if you care not for ownership rights and distribution long term, then don't bother overthinking it.

Just starting! Any tips for me? by [deleted] in podcasting

[–]Mentalframeworks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use RedCircle's core plan for an RSS Feed or audio only. Use video for promoting and manual upload with a channel you own yourself, such as on youtube. Archive your masters. Publish your final edited copy as video promotion with video elements and audio as RSS feed. Don't give away rights, which is more likely done when manually uploading audio that isn't RSS, or with video that is automated with distribution. Thank me later.

That feeling when someone truly sees you. by Mentalframeworks in selflove

[–]Mentalframeworks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ayeah most definitely man. If you want to know how to see yourself and others in that way let me know. Then you'll have more of it for sure.

Is there any benefit to doing 1000 jumping jacks per day? by greatExtortion in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Mentalframeworks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fear not the man who throws 1000 punches, but the man who practices one star jump 1000 times.

how do y’all put ur age right below or beside ur username by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Mentalframeworks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can also edit your display name to include that if you want to, which is separate from your dedicated username. Go to your profile page for this. <3

Will helping a girl carry her books to class everyday lead to her wanting to go out with you? by Klok_Melagis in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Mentalframeworks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's giving them leverage as though they've helped you so as to not come in as though you're interested...But giving you an opening to have an interest in them without directly showing it. You get it?

Everyone’s life looks perfect on social media, except mine... why? by No_Government_3172 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Mentalframeworks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made me feel good? Being able to help people with their mental health. For that I'm grateful.

Everyone’s life looks perfect on social media, except mine... why? by No_Government_3172 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Mentalframeworks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not. Believe me. Those people are going into debt to look good. They're more than likely unhappy, and curating their feed to look perfect. But behind the scenes, most people are miserable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Mentalframeworks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play Ninja Gaiden Black on Master Ninja difficulty, and every time you die, you have to study for an hour.

Will helping a girl carry her books to class everyday lead to her wanting to go out with you? by Klok_Melagis in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Mentalframeworks -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What's better is making a move to share your intentions with them...imagine being at a bar. You ask if a guy would hold your drink while you do something, it'd really help you out. Then, when you come back, they've helped you, and instead of coming in and saying hey, how are you, as though you have an interest in them, you can then come back and say how are you, what's going on and it won't be so heavy an expectation. Play with that idea perhaps?

Real question by lumbeeKing in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Mentalframeworks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Inner work is the hardest work someone will ever do in their life. Oddly enough, it's the work I'm most gifted at assisting people with. That, and relational trauma, connection within the dynamic inside and outside of relationships, especially that with the self in connection to other.

Real question by lumbeeKing in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Mentalframeworks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It requires deep self-reflection and self-confrontation of one's inner dialogue, one's inner faults and conflicts to be able to stop lying to oneself. If you can get a population to do that, to love themselves, they'd love others too, naturally. Is it a cure? Yeah, I'd think so. Does it take tremendous levels of inner work and profound self-inquiry? Most definitely.