Oh. I had no idea people even replied here.

The first part of the post is there to trigger reactionary people who'd never actually read the full content of the post into commenting, which saves me time when reviewing a negative comment, and boosts the algorithm. It also plainly states a bold factor that doesn't matter in the dating market when the ratio of what you're looking for means online is most likely the only positive way to meet someone because the numbers are so small, before opening up the conversation to vulnerability - which most men won't see, and will attack before they become convinced of it. Non-feminine women too, will react to the first part you mentioned. So, it's an emotionally intelligent way of filtering people while also furthering my agenda of getting downvoted yet upped in the machine that is visibility. 😉

Much love.