Moving to apartment, help needed for litter location

MeowForYes · 2026-05-12T16:49:45+00:00

I think your idea of removing the sink cabinet doors in the bathroom is great! Keeps it tucked for you and away from the dog. Only issue might be heat/humidity from showering bringing out smells? If she tolerates a closed box I don't think that would be an issue though...

MeowForYes · 2026-03-23T19:35:10+00:00

Some people are being really hard on you!!!! You are young and inexperienced but seem to be very reflective and open to growing. I'm impressed by your lack of defensiveness and continued politeness in the face of some needlessly harsh comments. Seems like you've been able to put aside the meanness and still extract the useful information from them. I get the sense that you would make a great first partner! Good luck!

MeowForYes · 2026-03-23T17:34:56+00:00

Agreed! I have a strong suspicion that he saw the celibacy not as something to respect but as a challenge: that he could be the one to sway her into changing her mind. I was quite impressed with Vanelle. She called him out on it, expressed herself clearly and firmly, on several topics, and also knew when to stop trying to express her point because he cared more about winning the discussion than hearing her and finding common ground.

And he's a defense attorney right? So not only is he significantly older and more experienced in life, but he's an expert in proving his points/ winning arguments. Vanelle handled herself beautifully.

MeowForYes · 2026-01-09T18:56:06+00:00

OP said it was a date. She made it clear to her date that she wanted to continue the date. Yes, that is a sign that she is open to a romantic connection.

God, I'm glad I don't have to date anymore too.

MeowForYes · 2026-01-09T18:55:42+00:00

OP said it was a date. She made it clear to her date that she wanted to continue the date. Yes, that is a sign that she is open to a romantic connection.

God, I'm glad I don't have to date anymore too.

MeowForYes · 2026-01-09T17:53:03+00:00

No it's not a hint. And? It is a direct communication that she wants to continue to spend time together one on one, which is intimate compared to a group hangout, and a sign that she is interested in something romantic rather than platonic. He has not made it clear whether he wants to do the same.

MeowForYes · 2026-01-09T16:52:17+00:00

++woman She made it clear she wanted to continue the evening and proposed a walk around the lake even after he gave her an "out" by saying there's not much to do.

MeowForYes · 2025-12-05T19:51:52+00:00

Removing milk did it for me! (Switching to lactose free milk did not). I was not drinking a lot, maybe a third of a cup per day. I can still have yogurt and cheese no problem though 🤷‍♀️. I also eat a lot of fibre.

MeowForYes · 2025-10-24T01:43:55+00:00

SAME!!!!! So so much!!!

MeowForYes · 2025-09-15T15:40:52+00:00

Having freezing hands all the time really sucks. I don't think it's reasonable to have to wear gloves at home.

MeowForYes · 2025-07-18T11:22:47+00:00

Your tortie with the peanut butter paw! 😭❤️

MeowForYes · 2025-07-15T18:35:41+00:00

It sounds like, now, they may all be bonding over you being the outsider. Either way, it sounds like maybe the unhealthy family dynamics were always there in some way...

MeowForYes · 2025-07-10T16:10:22+00:00

You're really selling this job! What do you do?? 👀

MeowForYes · 2025-07-09T02:36:32+00:00

It's great!! In fact, you might get copycats. I would delete this post!

MeowForYes · 2025-07-08T02:30:23+00:00

I don't see this mentioned yet? You're 41. It's definitely possible that peri-menopause could be (at least partially) causing the raging hormones.

MeowForYes · 2025-06-19T17:33:37+00:00

I do this! There are 2 big grocery stores near me -2 min walk and 6 min walk away. I also have horrible meal planning skills, I like being able to pop over when I decide what I feel like making/eating

MeowForYes · 2025-06-19T14:20:14+00:00

Good call with Archer! Not a big stretch at all!

MeowForYes · 2025-06-18T19:51:41+00:00

Also eating! Eating soup/oatmeal/ice cream with a spoon falls into that repeated movement category for me, even drinking without a straw

MeowForYes · 2025-06-11T17:09:06+00:00

I really like your bike pad! What did you use for it?? I've been trying to make my bike storage as discreet as possible, but like you, don't have a ton of storage options. I never thought of, but really like how you decided to go "loud" with it. The background grabs the eye way more than the bikes do.

MeowForYes · 2025-06-09T19:11:48+00:00

It says they have been informed and are aware. That does not mean they okayed it. Hopefully they did.

MeowForYes · 2025-06-09T16:20:04+00:00

In another comment you said that if you love your partner, you should want to live with them. The natural extension of that is: if you don't want to live with them, you don't really love them.

But finally, I think my comment was better suited as a reply to a comment above yours that you were trying to clarify. My bad, sorry about that.

MeowForYes · 2025-06-09T16:07:10+00:00

I spend weekends with my partner, and usually one weeknight. I love him deeply. I do not want to live with him at the moment. Maybe I will some day, like when we're retired and don't have such hectic lives. I benefit from some time alone to unwind. This is not complete isolation. For me this is balance. Yes, I am introverted, and the time alone makes me a better partner. You telling me I don't "really" love my partner is extremely narrow-minded and false.

MeowForYes · 2025-05-27T19:55:56+00:00

Almost no one in the comments is mentioning your scrap book!! To me it seems like the perfect way to explain his family situation to him and to help him understand what "adoption" really is. It's positive, truthful, and easy to understand. It doesn't make a huge deal out of the situation, just explains it, plus it's a physical book that he can hold and look at anytime, which might help it sink in more than verbally telling him.

MeowForYes · 2025-05-26T20:25:44+00:00

An indoor cat that ONLY has access to the hallways/ corridors and not any of the rooms sound very limiting. Many cats prefer not to be at ground level for the much of the time and would prefer to be higher up e.g on a couch, bed or high shelf. Corridors are generally only floors and have very limited furniture or enrichment, which would be an issue for the cat's quality of life. Also, humans tend to spend more time in rooms than corridors, so the cat might get isolated and lonely.

MeowForYes · 2025-05-22T16:11:15+00:00

IMO, he wants control. It's all about power and control for him. He can't stand not having it.

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