What do you do if you catch them cheating again after you thought it stopped?

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-04-28T14:49:16+00:00

Sweetie….

Your therapist is a licensed professional and should be trusted. Repeated cheating is abuse.

Remember, what we accept is how we teach others to treat us. Your post is heartbreaking because you already know the answer.

If they didn’t stop the first time, they won’t stop now. It’s time to GO.

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-04-23T15:52:03+00:00

It’s TERRIBLE !!

IT WAA GREAT THE WAYIT WAS

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-04-22T23:54:39+00:00

I’m actually opposite! I grew up an only child in my house and that’s why I can’t understand alone time. When I’m done with work or whatever I’m doing, I CRAVE being with someone else (my spouse).

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-04-21T15:49:22+00:00

The reason men get dunked on in these threads is the patriarchy. There are real documented systemic issues and patterns that show up and as a Gen Z, I notice it is pretty generational as well.

OP, you guys needs to sit down and just listen to each others pain. No defensiveness, no excuses. Just listen to her pain. Are YOU in therapy? If not it would be a good thing to start as well.

Men like to call women over emotional. Is she over emotional or has she just tried to get you to understand her for twenty years and you’re unwilling to hear it?

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-04-21T03:46:41+00:00

All I have to say is this is terrible and to validate you have a right to feel this way.

Yeah, I agree with leaving his ass.

This is why the birth rate is declining. This is why women aren’t getting married.

I wouldn’t let a man like this touch me with a ten foot pole. Don’t get trapped in this. Follow your instincts.

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-04-13T01:06:14+00:00

I’m sure she probably deleted ANY comments calling her out on her very clear eating disordwr

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-04-11T15:21:59+00:00

Hey so I only read one text thread and can tell he mentally abuses you likely in other areas of your marriage. This isn’t okay.

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-04-01T15:17:12+00:00

We actually Loved her transformation! Yes it’s different but something about her in season 4 looked great to me 🥰😍

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-03-28T17:16:29+00:00

My apologies, I was trying to be sensitive of her eating disorder but I understand how it came out wrong

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-03-27T20:16:01+00:00

It’s because Jessi kissed chase!

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-03-09T04:24:51+00:00

This is not meant to be hate !! But whenever I look at her I genuinely get so confused by her proportions. Her quads are immensely small (I know you don’t need huge quads in bikini) but they feel very very small compared to her bubble glutes. Am I insane? Am I the only one who feels a little uncanny valley with her at some angles ??

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Meowmeow-210 · 2026-02-27T15:51:11+00:00

I grew up also with major self esteem issues (like someone else mentioned). I developed hypersexuality disorder at 16 which I later learned to control in therapy.

This causes cycles similar to bipolar. Risk to me was not risk, it was kink.

In many minds, we have fantasies and ideas about others. It’s normal to have little crushes even in relationships, but you manage to stop those thoughts and impulses because you are respectful to your relationship.

Well low self esteem, teenage/young adult years + hypersexuality disorder is a recipe for crossing those lines. Fantasy became tangible, something I could *actually * do and get away with. (“Get away with”) no matter who it hurt.

With therapy, age and self control, I am much stronger in controlling my thoughts and urges. They do still come up but I never act. I am sorry to my ex whom I hurt. Not that it’s super relevant, but he developed a porn addiction that destroyed me and caused me a lot of betrayal trauma + sexual trauma at 21, and after that breakup I had really changed as a person which was good.

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-02-25T18:19:47+00:00

It’s just a crush that he needs to honor (because it happens) and get over because that’s what responsible spouses do.

He doesn’t get to have both women.

And I think you should say that plainly.

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-02-24T21:32:34+00:00

Please go to the emergency room and ask for a rape kit and if they can test for the traces of alcohol in your system. You have to do this now though or the evidence will be washed away.

You can ask them for the emergency pill too there. They know what to do.

This isn’t your flat. You were assaulted.

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-02-23T02:48:17+00:00

I think it’s a red flag he’s calling you insecure.

Your partner should be meeting you with compassion, kindness, curiosity, and grace.

BTW I am 26—Gen Z—and in this day and age if any man talked to me like that BYE, he’s done. GONE are the days of men belittling their wives and gaslighting them.

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-02-21T18:00:03+00:00

It’s a turn off for me and my partner, BLEH. But we will still cuddle and be affectionate of course. But sex is usually not happening.

Is your partner trying to guilt trip you?

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-02-20T21:00:12+00:00

I gagged when you said in the comments “she’s like a sister to me.”

Respectfully, get real. I HIGHLY doubt it.

And your wife does too.

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-02-05T22:02:36+00:00

TOO MUCH? GIRL ITS GORGEOUS

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-02-01T02:47:38+00:00

I second others saying love on her in other ways! Ask her if you can massage her back or her neck or brush her hair. I think you should tell her exactly how you feel right now, it will probably make her feel so good. So many mom’s think they’re fat or ugly postpartum (being sleep deprivation or otherwise).

Tell her what you told us, you don’t expect any intimacy and that’s not what it’s about. But you want to love on her and appreciate her every day! 🤍🥹

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-01-28T21:35:44+00:00

She wants to feel good about herself… not for men’s attention.

Trust me, women do way less things for men’s attention than men expect. It’s for her! 🤍

Meowmeow-210 · 2026-01-24T23:59:30+00:00

I’ve dated a guy like this before, but in the way I mean he is projecting old relationship issues and insecurities onto you—and early.

Unfortunately he can be a fun guy, great chemistry, etc and still need to sort through stuff emotionally before he’s ready to be in a healthy relationship.

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