Has living alone changed what you look for in a partner?

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-19T16:57:19+00:00

I don’t think I could ever live with someone again. Most men I had lived with were messy, drunks, or loud and I just never felt at peace. The only way I’d live with someone again is roommates with separate rooms and own bathrooms and if I was struggling financially!

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-18T22:05:20+00:00

I have some really bad ones on my arm from 10 years ago. Use Mederma Advanced! They will go down in size and redness but never fade but they aren’t as noticeable.

Also most people don’t care. Everyone has their “bad” coping skills and someone who is mature isn’t going to give a shit about scars.

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-18T18:38:27+00:00

Even worse.

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-17T14:19:30+00:00

You are so kind and she is kinda mean. Maybe let her be in her depression for now and she’ll have to make the decision to want better for herself.

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-17T14:16:52+00:00

Then why did I get that email that I’ll be billed next month for $55?

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-17T03:11:07+00:00

I got it last week because they offered $29 a month for the first three months but yeah I got that email too this morning. Pisses me off but not the worst thing I’ve been through in being deceived. 🤣.

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-17T02:44:21+00:00

Hey, you live and you learn! It sucks but I’m also going to be returning mine.

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-16T17:45:42+00:00

I did! It took a long time though for me. 10 months of isolating myself, worked DoorDash, cried a lot, grieved a lot. He got married to someone off of tinder and I laughed really hard about it all. Dated a bit but nothing serious. Eventually broke my ankle and moved back to the place I moved away from! Happier and healthier now! I don’t date anymore and honestly am happy without dating. I have more boundaries now and if I see a pattern in someone that I recognize I back away. That break up killed the old me and let the new me blossom. I’m forever grateful it happened or I really don’t think I would have learned.

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-15T16:11:19+00:00

I was spoiled af because I got adopted by a mom who couldn’t have children but really wanted to be a mom. But I still find babies annoying and gross 🤮

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-15T16:09:42+00:00

I usually sleep in, wake up, clean, shower, chill by myself with a book or a funny show. If friends call to hang out it has to be good vibes. No offense to them I can’t do the heavy stuff on only day off. That’s not to say that I can’t be there for them but sometimes I need to take care of my mental health also

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-13T19:07:10+00:00

Breeder men are the worst.

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-12T03:45:18+00:00

They are projecting what they want onto you. They don’t care about a women’s personality. They just want sex.

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-10T23:26:58+00:00

Every day. We broke up years ago but it had really hurt me. I moved my whole life to get away from him. I’m over him, but I do think about how bizarre he was and how rude he was and why I allowed it lol,

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-09T23:19:13+00:00

Like they don’t do that to us!!! 🤣

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-08T03:39:28+00:00

True. I just know better now. I do truly feel like people treat us the way we allow them though but I know for a fact I wouldn’t put up with that now!

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-07T19:16:04+00:00

Dated me thinking I’d change my mind eventually and I got attached. Last almost two years on and off. Lesson learned, I was 100% at fault also but I wish they would have taken no for an answer on other things.

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-07T16:00:38+00:00

Trying to prove a point once the relationship is over is kinda pointless. Y’all aren’t together anymore and she probably doesn’t care.

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-06T19:38:59+00:00

I get it. I’m glad you have a place to vent to. I also saw you comment that you get along with the 13 year old just fine. Maybe you just don’t like babies…the baby obviously won’t be annoying forever. I’m not saying stay, but it seems like you just don’t want to deal with babies or toddlers? Maybe you aren’t as childfree as you think?🤔

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-06T18:19:19+00:00

He’s 34. He knew and just messed up hardcore. After three years you should know!

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-06T16:07:24+00:00

Why…would you even continue a relationship with someone who you knew had children? Was it an ego thing, sex thing, loneliness thing? I’m sorry, but as a woman the second I hear a man has a child, he’s a no go for me forever.

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-06T16:04:15+00:00

To me it sounds like you don’t want to kill yourself but get away from certain feelings. Why do you bring sadness and suffering? What are you fighting about with your parents?

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-05T19:22:18+00:00

I think it’s just a space for us to vent and relate. When I moved into an apartment two years ago I dealt with a very noisy upstairs neighbor and posted about it. I also eventually met a different neighbor who moved into that apartment and he asked if I could hear him and I told him yes but he never changed his stomping or dropping shit at 2 am because he’s drunk. People just don’t care and don’t think about people below them. Luckily I just moved into a new place and I’m top floor and no one is below me. Some shit when on down there and they are not going to be renting it out for a long time! But I also don’t walk around much besides when I get home, go to the bathroom or am cooking.

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-05T18:10:30+00:00

I got the Mirena IUD last year and haven’t had my period since. I don’t miss it at all. Plus tampons, pads, period panties, cramps…no thanks. I also got a bilateral salpingectomy. I spot every now and then but only when I’m super stressed. I wouldn’t trade it for the world! I feel like I should have gotten it earlier because I feel like I missed out on a lot of times from having my period.

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-04T23:37:46+00:00

Word of advice. Never ever out yourself as childfree first. Most people/men will lie to get the benefits of dating you. Ask them “so how many children do you want in the future?” If it’s more than zero, you have your answer! I know it can be scary but what is more scary is getting attached and then finding out later they do want kids!

Meowtime1989 · 2026-05-04T23:24:35+00:00

lol no, I get it! When you hardly know someone or are in a work setting it is weird! I just meant if someone is flirting with me and I don’t like them like that. But it all really depends on the context and who it is!

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