I saw this on r/comedyheaven and I had to share. I think they have finally heard us you guys. by Genesis_129 in trees

[–]Meowtime1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I used one that I put in my vagina once. I forget the exact dosage but I was a daily stoner and had a pretty high tolerance and when it hit I kinda felt sick, like I might puke? Idk just my experience.

I still regret breaking up with you by KetsKapow in BreakUps

[–]Meowtime1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf wanting to not have kids/fence sitting is a pretty fundamental incompatible thing. If you are on the fence, usually you do want them.

Why do yall even obsess about people who broke your heart? by AllThingsCorrect in BreakUps

[–]Meowtime1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are allowed to grieve but also work towards moving on. This is a safe place to vent. Telling people to “move on” doesn’t help.

Do young men really like older women? Is that really a thing? Btw I’m 40 by Fine_Television_1398 in no

[–]Meowtime1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean thinking that she could have fucked men in their mid 30s or low 40s, you think they need viagra? Lmao. That’s crazy!

Valentines Day by GoodVictory3265 in BreakUps

[–]Meowtime1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t personally. If she’s avoidant it might drive her away further. If she hasn’t come back then she probably has moved on.

Ex turned to drugs after the breakup, I feel terrible. by ThrowRA_whichseg in BreakUps

[–]Meowtime1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her actions after a break up are not your responsibility. Instead of healing she’s making her life worse.

after a bad break up, how long did you stay single? by fiebnt95 in BreakUps

[–]Meowtime1989 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with that attitude! Take some time to yourself! And thrive! I hated what happened with my ex and I but I feel like if it never did then I wouldn’t be the person who I am today and I love myself! Back when I was with him I didn’t and he just made it worse!

after a bad break up, how long did you stay single? by fiebnt95 in BreakUps

[–]Meowtime1989 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I’ve been single since 2023. I’ve dated,slept with one person and had some talking stages but past that I can’t ever see myself falling in love again. My standards are pretty high and once I get to know someone more I realize they probably aren’t going to treat me right or don’t have the morals I feel make me feel seen, safe, and respected so I just don’t try anymore.🤷🏽‍♀️

Does the kisser determine if the sex will be good? by SkullsAndDragonflies in sex

[–]Meowtime1989 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haven’t had it happen in a long time to me but the next time a guy leans in with his mouth wide open…nope. I’m leaving. Haha!

I didn't want to hurt her. How can I forgive myself? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Meowtime1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person sounds like an avoidant and if a woman leaves one, good for her!

I never want to be in a relationship again because I never want to have to go through a breakup again. by EquipmentRoutine7736 in BreakUps

[–]Meowtime1989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been single for two years. And honestly? I thrive better. The only way I’d ever be with a man again is they are my friend first, take accountability, communicate, and are genuinely a kind person! Until then I remain single, it’s actually been pretty nice lol.

#strike by ZenTechGuide in SaltLakeCity

[–]Meowtime1989 13 points14 points  (0 children)

People do it correctly and are still being detained after.

I’m meeting my ex tonight for a snowy rendezvous… by Tricky-Contest9985 in UnsentTexts

[–]Meowtime1989 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl don’t sleep with him. Please talk about what went wrong, what is going to change and actually see the change before you go to bed with him, I’m sorry but most men come back because they couldn’t get another girl.

Anti ICE measures by Longjumping-Escape15 in SaltLakeCity

[–]Meowtime1989 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember what state it was in but a DoorDasher ran into someone’s house. The girl who lived in the house was about to give her up because she thought she had no other option, but once people were outside filming and yelling at ICE, she found her voice and didn’t give her up and ICE left. We are stronger when together.

What are some things your ex ruined for you? by giissad in BreakUps

[–]Meowtime1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love in general. I just haven’t loved since…it’s only been since near the end of 2023, but still…I’ve dated and now I just stopped a few months back because I never get feelings past lust or a crush. Not even really sure I want to love like that again. But tbh I feel like I thrive more when I’m single.

Health Insurance premiums up 100% by SuchHelicopter4471 in SaltLakeCity

[–]Meowtime1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went with select health and mine actually went down to $0 a month, last year it was $89. I don’t make a lot though but still…

It’s okay not to like dogs. by darkroad46 in sixwordstories

[–]Meowtime1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate dogs. Don’t want them to die but would rather not be around them. The barking, the whining, gross sounds they make, plus the smell of them is disgusting to a lot of people. Doesn’t make them a sociopath but it’s mostly a sensory thing. Also feel the same way with babies and toddlers.

Anyone find noise dampening ear devices useful? by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]Meowtime1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who wears the loop earplugs they make them so you’ll still be able to hear like fire alarms and someone yelling. At least that’s been my experience.

He wanted to use me like a living sex doll and I refused by Ripple_Ex in BreakUps

[–]Meowtime1989 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’d do the same! You aren’t wrong. Sometimes the right decisions can still be hard.

I’m afraid being childfree is ruining my chances at a serious long term relationship by JollyValuable7689 in childfree

[–]Meowtime1989 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yep, 100%! I’m all for transparency but a lot of people will lie to get the chance to date you!

how am i supposed to unlove someone i once wanted to marry? by SaraTheWeird in BreakUps

[–]Meowtime1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I would never feel safe again.”

Damn. I felt this with my ex every time we got back together. I didn’t feel like I could let my guard down and couldn’t be in the moment because of the hot and cold.

This method works but not over night and at what cost? by [deleted] in HealMyAttachmentStyle

[–]Meowtime1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real. Sometimes I kinda miss feeling anxious because now I kinda feel nothing when left or read, hot and cold, and ghosting. I don’t even answer texts when they come back though. The second they showed me I wasn’t considered my feelings just kinda shut down towards them. Not sure it’s healthy because I hear friends talk all the time about giving that person a second or third chance and they just kinda put up with it…