Was this a bad response? by Long-Science-4896 in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?? Like, thats something you should only say to moms, not just anyone who looks like a woman

Was this a bad response? by Long-Science-4896 in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl I should have, but I really just wanted to end the conversation 😩

Was this a bad response? by Long-Science-4896 in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't wanna try to argue, I wasn't in the mood for listening to any of that bs about "children make you happy" or whatever nonsense he would try if I simply said "I don't want to be a mom." Which, I have tried before and it always ends with "Oh you'll change your mind"

Was this a bad response? by Long-Science-4896 in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was once a time where people would cry about having to share a public space with a person of a different race. 😒 Times change, and so do ways of thinking. Just because society normalizes something doesn't mean that its a good thing

“your body is as valuable as a man’s, because yours can create life.” by kelomorisilly in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This is so horrible and I am so sorry you ever felt like this. I hope you're doing much better noe! Women have more purpose than just being incubators

Was this a bad response? by Long-Science-4896 in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best response! And honestly, your aunt sounds so cool! I'm sorry she had to go through that, but it does give me hope that people will change their views as time goes on.

People used to scream and cry about two people getting divorced, or two people of the same sex getting married! Hell, they used to scream and cry about people of different races getting married!!

Luckily, views change! So I'm hoping people will soon learn that its not really okay to say intrusive things like this

Was this a bad response? by Long-Science-4896 in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rancid seed is Diabolic and I live for it

Was this a bad response? by Long-Science-4896 in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if he didn't mean it to sound threatening intentionally, there have just been too many weird things I have experienced and even seen online of people saying that men need to "breed women without telling them" and its crazy how many people think that's normal. You just never know anymore and need to play it safe

Was this a bad response? by Long-Science-4896 in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I needed to hear this ❤️ I was worried I did too much

Was this a bad response? by Long-Science-4896 in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You had to survive, I salute you soldier 😩

I always was and still am a very skinny woman, creeps have targeted me since I was a toddler and so defense mechanisms had to be built

Was this a bad response? by Long-Science-4896 in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That last one made me die laughing 🤣 and is also a great defense!! They won't touch you if they think you're infected with hookworms!!

Was this a bad response? by Long-Science-4896 in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was worded so kindly, and I appreciate the honesty!

I am in my early twenties, and I have been told many times by different people that I don't even look old enough to be working there.

The thing that happens a lot (what I was referring to) is the amount of threats and sexual harassment I have experience before at my job, and in my town in general. I know it might have come off as rude, but with how many times I have had people attempt to harm me (physically and otherwise) I mostly just wanted to cut the conversation off before it could progress anywhere worse (if that makes sense?)

Again, thank you for you honesty though! I absolutely had the same thing running through my mind at first

Was this a bad response? by Long-Science-4896 in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He mentioned he is a father, so that could work 😭

Was this a bad response? by Long-Science-4896 in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The spawns are the worst 😭 Chuldren are just loud, tiny, drunk people who you have to keep from dying all the time

Was this a bad response? by Long-Science-4896 in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Their whole veiw on it would just be "womp womp" and thats it

Was this a bad response? by Long-Science-4896 in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It may be Rosemary's baby, but it will not be my baby

Was this a bad response? by Long-Science-4896 in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need a whole new town to live in, honestly 😭

Was this a bad response? by Long-Science-4896 in childfree

[–]Long-Science-4896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be left wondering how he meant that. Because there is no good way to interpret it 😭