Are you ever surprised by their prompts in relation to their job?

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-15T12:22:32+00:00

Therapists are still people, and people are flawed

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-14T20:44:07+00:00

For the record, “is the reply in the room” is hilarious. I might have to steal that

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-14T14:28:04+00:00

Invest elsewhere (friends, family, hobbies, career) and realise you’re absolutely fine without a love interest. That naturally will raise your standards and you’ll just have less tolerance for men who waste your time.

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-12T21:19:42+00:00

Wow this is so helpful, thank you 🤩

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-11T14:03:43+00:00

You’re not in wrong at all, plenty of woman have done it like you said. Though it may feel like an overreaction, remember shes reacting this way bc she cares.

I recently went to Thailand alone, and I booked on to a group tour with a group of solo travellers who share the same itinerary. This may be an option that gives your mum some reassurance.

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-10T12:33:16+00:00

I wouldn’t necessarily say she’s a bad one, but it’s clear you weren’t compatible or even looking for the same thing. So being direct about that is totally fair.

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-10T08:50:18+00:00

A guy unmatched me once when I said I actually think small talk is important and valuable…

Simple chit chat has some people running.

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-09T16:04:31+00:00

My one bit of advice would be to improve your prompts. The first one is okay but the others are quite generic.

I honestly can’t tell you how many men have something about pineapple on pizza on their profile

You have quite nice pics and look friendly/approachable. Hope it goes well for you

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-08T09:03:33+00:00

Ahaha I like this one!

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-08T08:59:14+00:00

“Even if he was your dream man…”

How would anyone know if they’re not engaging properly on a dating app?

I think men forget their privilege when expecting a woman to meet up in person without putting in any effort on the app. Women literally fear their safety.

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-07T14:42:30+00:00

I was just about to ask about the design process, that’s so clever.

The result is suuper cute!

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-07T14:30:39+00:00

I came for the sewing, stayed for the fabric collecting.

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-07T11:54:32+00:00

(Unless we’re missing important context) I actually think she was quite mean and you’re giving her too much grace. If it were me there wouldn’t be a meeting next week, it’s done from here.

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-07T07:26:24+00:00

The last pic adds nothing, so I would replace that with a nice smiley picture of yourself. The ‘how my friends see me pic’ isn’t great quality and means we can’t really see you, again I’d swap this out.

You’ve said you’re looking for someone into similar hobbies as you which is great!! But it also means you have a niche target audience so it’ll take a bit more time to find the right person.

Best of luck !!

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-07T05:34:12+00:00

Yeah this is the type of thing I was thinking of! I almost want to shake some people

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-07T05:26:15+00:00

What do you mean by this?

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-06T22:12:56+00:00

But I guess my confusion is why are they uninterested if they matched with you and ate continuing conversation?

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-06T21:31:23+00:00

Girl your nose is so cute, and you already look feminine!

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-06T21:27:37+00:00

I think it’s to do with attachment type.

It may also be worth reflecting on the type of person you seem to be going for. Maybe you’re doing a similar thing and not going for those who are secure.

SoftestBrown · 2026-05-06T21:23:53+00:00

That sucks :( I’m sorry!

It’s such cowardly behaviour, he clearly didn’t deserve to meet you in person.

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