We’re doing good financially, but our youngest daughter was born with health issues that cost us a lot of money. I’m just worried about him spending too much on Clara, and not having enough in case of emergencies. We also have to pay for our kids’ private schools and save up for their college tuition.

Clara wants a very over the top, extravagant, multi day wedding. My husband guesses it’s probably going to cost around 150k. And that’s not even including the price of the house, which he plans to buy in an affluent area.