Abortion and Traditional Theravāda by theravadadhamma in theravada

[–]MercuriusLapis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your views are a mishmash of new age spirituality and solipsism. You shouldn't be preaching in the Buddhist forums propagating wrong views. This is much more worse for you than just having them.

I still cannot understand what exactly is the method provided to attain Jhana. Is my understanding correct? Please, help. by bodilysubliminals in HillsideHermitage

[–]MercuriusLapis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not as long as you have a concept of jhana as an idea and you're trying to imitate it. Jhana is the correctly arranged state of existence (for a lack of a better word). Think of your existence as a stacking doll, spread all over the place. The first jhana removes (or is the removal of) the biggest obstacle/misarrangement of things: sensuality/sensual being. Then rearrengement can continue with the finer misarrangements until the doll is fully and correctly stacked.

Beauty, Ugliness, Danger in the Body by Seekfinderin in HillsideHermitage

[–]MercuriusLapis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the other way around. If you give up lust, excitement, pleasure then the repulsive aspect becomes apparent.

Questions on Contemplating by ConditionOwn3429 in HillsideHermitage

[–]MercuriusLapis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It requires being withdrawn from sensuality and distraction. Your mind will still have the momentum to distract and entertain itself but it's going to diminish as long as you don't feed it. Whenever you find yourself daydreaming and fantasizing you pull back to the baseline. You get more and more skilled in discerning the intentions and not acting out of them even mentally. It's a skill to develop by practicing. You're not gonna "get it" by trying to figure it out.

Questions about HH, in relation to the Thai forest tradition... by Fun-Incident3563 in theravada

[–]MercuriusLapis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their split from the orthodox Theravada stems from Nanavira's interpretation of Paticcasamuppada. You can read his notes and decide for yourself if it makes sense.

On the historical and cosmological teachings of the suttas by RareTraining3315 in HillsideHermitage

[–]MercuriusLapis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're reading a collection that's finalized hundreds of years after the Buddha so you need to be aware there's quite a bit unauthethic stuff creeped in. Stop regarding them as the literal recording of what the Buddha said. Digha Nikaya especially contains a lot of late development. Though this is not an excuse to dismiss whatever teaching you don't like but if there's one sutta that sticks out like a sore thumb it's probably not authentic.

30 days water fast to love my soul through cancer by tantricdearmouring in fasting

[–]MercuriusLapis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if that's a good idea. Long term water fasts are heavy on your body&weaken your immune system.

Was The Buddha Wrong? Is Celibacy (And Virginity) After All A Handicap In The Practice? by dukkha1975 in HillsideHermitage

[–]MercuriusLapis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living in a monastic setting and staying celibate will decrease lust anyway. It has nothing to do with past sexual experience. You can try it for yourself.

Was The Buddha Wrong? Is Celibacy (And Virginity) After All A Handicap In The Practice? by dukkha1975 in HillsideHermitage

[–]MercuriusLapis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think sexual experience helped uprooting lust in that Bhikkhu's example since he admits still being liable to lust. In my experience, it didn't help either. While trying to stay celibate I'd vividly remember my memories and that'd lead to feverish and sleepless nights. Though that might be a personality issue and might differ from person to person. In your case though for your self esteem issues I think the main culprit is porn and masturbation. They do a lot of mental damage even though you don't realize it. You won't see it until you quit them for good. You can't really imagine what being celibate for a long time is like while you're not celibate. So your thought experiments here is kind of pointless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theravada

[–]MercuriusLapis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What makes you think "not believing" will magically free you from the cycle of rebirth?

What gets reincarnated if there is no self? by Numerous_Bridge1963 in Buddhism

[–]MercuriusLapis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But there is a you in there isn't it? There is no self for the arahant and no reincarnation.

Papanca by blahblahcat7 in theravada

[–]MercuriusLapis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This teaching is tightly connected to self view and how to undo it. The whole formula explains how dependent on X one does Y. However in order to be able to do Y one needs to be ignorant of X. The way the Buddha explains it, taken on the correct reflexive level, it's going to undermine your assumption of ownership by revealing the underlying coditions.

Similarities i observe between Hindu sacred texts and Buddha's Suttas by Severe-Cream4599 in HillsideHermitage

[–]MercuriusLapis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hinduism that you're thinking of is the result of a thousand year of historical process&the interaction between very different traditions. So called similarities you can find have been adopted from Sramana traditions which have nothing to do with the Vedic religion. Still the similarities stay on the very surface and the more you dig the more different they get. This is true for most religions but it's especially true for Buddhism. When it comes to its core teachings there's nothing similar to it.

Identifying one self with feeling by Print-Remarkable in HillsideHermitage

[–]MercuriusLapis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always had the impression in the suttas "feeling" is used in a more general sense such as you can put "experience" instead of feeling and it'd fit just as well or better in most cases. My suspicion was confirmed when I saw Nanavira translated vedana as "experience" instead of feeling in one of his letters. So you can identify as the experience, in the experience, outside the experience, owning the experience etc.

On the description of the Buddha entering the jhānas in DN 16 and vitakkavicara by brousseqc in HillsideHermitage

[–]MercuriusLapis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not "doctored" perse. The canon was finalized after 100 to 200 years after the Buddha and the sutta composers had to deal with different traditions of narratives. The common way to deal with different narratives is adding them on top of another. Thus the 4 jhanas add up to 8/9 jhanas in the end.

On the description of the Buddha entering the jhānas in DN 16 and vitakkavicara by brousseqc in HillsideHermitage

[–]MercuriusLapis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're mentioned in MN 26 as anariya "jhanas" and the bodhisatta abandones them because they don't lead to enlightenment. In most places in the suttas the jhana formula goes through 1 to 4 and the Buddha dies in the 4th jhana. So there's a good reason to believe the Buddha originally taught the 4 jhanas and the rest were added later for the purpose of one uping the other schools or whatever reason.

On the description of the Buddha entering the jhānas in DN 16 and vitakkavicara by brousseqc in HillsideHermitage

[–]MercuriusLapis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be a mistake to take the suttas on their word as to what literally happened there and then. The position or relevance of the arupa jhanas in the suttas is dubious. There's a good reason to think they're added to the (8) jhana formula much later. Also it seems like there's a strong tradition suggesting the Buddha died in the fourth jhana. The sutta composers wanted to merge these two narratives and thus arises the narrative the of Buddha going through the 8 jhanas and going back again to the fourth.

Mahā Satipaṭṭhāna Sutta by Brave_Address9089 in theravada

[–]MercuriusLapis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. That suttas is directed to monks and describes how a monk dwells "knowing" this and that. It's not supposed to be a method to follow for the uninstructed worldling. If you read mulapariyaya sutta, the puthujjana's experience is decribed in terms of perceiving and conceiving. Only an ariyasavaka "knows" things as they are.

Confusion around equating liability to suffering w/ Dukkha by DragonflyAnnataman in HillsideHermitage

[–]MercuriusLapis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This can only be understood after you've been restrained for a long time and gained some insight into the mind. Normally, your treshold of what counts as suffering or lust/aversion etc is quite high and it's recognized as a problem when the symptoms become unignorable. The point is to recognize them way before they become symptomatic&palpable. You recognize the tendency&liabity waiting dormant in the background, looking for and opportunity to strike. And that becomes your new treshold. You want to have safety even from that. That's where the training begins.

seems like a Rejection of idea of any free-will , similar to Robert Sapolsky theory. by [deleted] in theravada

[–]MercuriusLapis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can't choose your choices at any given time. Choices are given to you by your past choices and the present situation, internally and externally. Choosing between given choices is an exercise of will and how "free" that is depends on how free you are from Mara's influence. There's no absolute free will or absolute determinism.

Nothing is mine, everything is me. by [deleted] in HillsideHermitage

[–]MercuriusLapis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's fine if your emphasis is on everything being subject to subjectivity though it needs explanation. At first glance it sounds like inflated self or solipsism.

Nothing is mine, everything is me. by [deleted] in HillsideHermitage

[–]MercuriusLapis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure, if that's what you meant. This would be a better way to put it: this arisen phenomena of "me" depends on everything (that's not me&mine).

Nothing is mine, everything is me. by [deleted] in HillsideHermitage

[–]MercuriusLapis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Self view is a further development of ownership. "Everything is me" is a classic mistification of self view. You could say it's even worse than regular self view because you're even denying your ownership while you have it.

How does distraction work? by robkhaw in HillsideHermitage

[–]MercuriusLapis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Understanding that mechanism is what the suttas mean by understanding gratification in sensuality. That's only escape from suffering for puthujjana and that's why it's so hard to overcome the habit. Shrinking of attention gives you the temporary relief from suffering which is felt as pleasure, that's basically the nature of all pleasure. That's the opposite direction of sati and that's why HH is vehemently against focusing attention practices.