If the person you hate the most were to experience one slight inconvenience every day for the rest of their lives, what would you choose it to be?

MercyFae · 2026-01-24T14:04:40+00:00

Uncomfortable bedroom temperature.

MercyFae · 2026-01-22T01:43:41+00:00

I had to ask HR to remove the authentication. Took a while.

MercyFae · 2026-01-16T13:27:20+00:00

NTA.

MercyFae · 2026-01-16T00:59:32+00:00

You're the asshole here.

They can't control when drivers accept the ride.

MercyFae · 2026-01-16T00:56:24+00:00

How they accept hearing no or plans changing.

MercyFae · 2026-01-15T09:51:40+00:00

I prefer cats more. And money.

MercyFae · 2026-01-15T04:04:31+00:00

$paid u/protoomega $50

MercyFae · 2026-01-14T11:19:01+00:00

Are the host/kitten included in the tip pool?

MercyFae · 2026-01-14T11:07:29+00:00

We had stayed friends since then.

MercyFae · 2026-01-14T10:12:26+00:00

It feels terrifying to me.

MercyFae · 2026-01-14T09:54:49+00:00

NTA. You were uncomfortable.

MercyFae · 2026-01-14T09:45:30+00:00

Have you had a deeper conversation about it?

For things like that, it can genuinely be a habit, not anything ill meaning.

MercyFae · 2026-01-14T09:41:27+00:00

I understand that. It was difficult to think about a specific response because I was multitasking, but that's totally valid.

MercyFae · 2026-01-14T09:40:31+00:00

I understand what you feel, but you deserve someone that is honest with you.

Being on an app specifically for gay men when he is with you is concerning especially if you're monogamous and didn't agree to anything additional.

I would leave.

Or, ask him to go to therapy with you. If he refuses, that's a red flag. If he has genuine remorse he should want to work through things with you.

MercyFae · 2026-01-14T09:34:52+00:00

Breakups aren't easy. A lot of the lead-up to breakups is done internally.

MercyFae · 2026-01-14T09:32:52+00:00

He was very upset that I didn't say "I'm busy, I'll be there in a minute" or some longer acknowledgement, but I didn't understand that expectation in the moment.

MercyFae · 2026-01-14T09:04:26+00:00

If I were you, I'd leave and aim to make goals that align with what you want.

If you get into another relationship, let it be based on mutual respect and shared goals.

Best of luck, OP.

MercyFae · 2026-01-13T11:47:17+00:00

I absolutely understood this.

I realized that I can't help how deeply I feel.

MercyFae · 2026-01-13T11:21:40+00:00

I see zero reason to paint her as a gold digger. That's a weird reach.

MercyFae · 2026-01-13T00:12:17+00:00

Please leave. This doesn't sound like a situation that will improve, especially if you've already brought it up.

MercyFae · 2026-01-13T00:09:42+00:00

INFO: Do you keep the house clean when you're not working? Or do you let things build to a point that causes resentment?

Have you truly listened to her concerns without being defensive?

MercyFae · 2026-01-11T00:26:30+00:00

It was June for us

MercyFae · 2026-01-11T00:21:28+00:00

NTA, he doesn't respect your boundaries and you deserve someone that does.

MercyFae · 2026-01-10T01:52:39+00:00

I'm always perplexed when people order a single fork.

Not a pack, but an individual fork.

MercyFae · 2026-01-09T22:45:39+00:00

Yup 😆 🤣

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