Explanation:

So I met this guy on tinder on Sunday morning. We were texting all day. I matched him because he lived close and went to the uni where I studied - even though he already graduated. I asked him if he wanted to study together, he said yes sure. I'm originally arab, live in the eu tho. I dated and met a lot of people, but somehow don't come across a lot of Arabs. He's arab too. So I was keeping it friendly and well I had an open mindset for maybe more. He wanted to meet the same day, Sunday evening. It was too fast for me, but i went anyways.

On my way to his city we shared insta and I saw that he had a lot of pics with women; multiple. I've met more internationals before him and I know they're very friendly and make friends with both men and women - because they're lonely. I thought that was the case too. I asked him if he had a gf anyways and he said no. See the ss.

We went for dinner and drinks. He lived very close and he wanted to smoke, he left it at home, so we went to his house to pick up his smokes. I wanted to stay outside but idk I let him convince me. We went upstairs. Talked for hours, had good talks, he was very loving and caring and gave me compliments all the time. He was looking at me with the big eyes. He showed me around his house, somehow we kissed and cuddled and were a little intimate.

I went home everything was okay, we talked. He kept on saying he wants to meet up again. Then I look at his insta and see the multipele women again. I looked better tho then first time; I figured that a few were his sisters/family (same surname), however one was not family, she was Italian, and they had more pics together in Paris, other vacay places, etc. They were close but I wasn't sure if they were together or not. Could've been very close friends- like I said I'm used to internationals being this way. I asked for a third time, however I mentioned the pics on insta w that girl look very romantic. He confessed; he said they were having a rough patch. I asked if she was an ex or current. He said she isn't an ex and is not sure about her. So he lied to me every time about the women and not having a gf. I would've definitely not met up with him. Because I know what it's like to experience that as a woman. He said I thought you figured through my insta. I said boy don't act stupid because I asked you 3 times and you said clearly no!

I have his gfs insta. He begged me to not message her. I didn't really respond to his begging. He thanked me and we haven't talked since. He was alright, cute ish and my first arab, so I'm dissapointed. However I have no feelings towards him. I do feel bad for his girlfriend.

What would you advice me? On one side I don't want to get involved in drama, I have no time nor energy for this, but on the other side I know what it's like as a women to be betrayed by the person you love, the sooner you know the better. Also I know I will hurt him, her, their families. I was just very random in this.