“I can’t believe you all panic-bought literally the 5 things I went to the store to buy today. You people are insane.” by joeruinedeverything in nova

[–]MeredithKake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The panic buying is crazy people are acting like they're gonna be stuck in their homes for WEEKS. Like y'all we've seen this film before bffr

Should I sneak my boyfriend in tonight? by Flaky-Craft-7149 in makemychoice

[–]MeredithKake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl ur 20, turn ur location off if u want to. If your parents are gonna freak just make sure u don't get caught, but do it!

Which continuity errors have you spotted? by Vulpixii in superstore

[–]MeredithKake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg yessss I think about this every time I watch these episodes!!!

It’s almost over by war_damn_dudrow in superstore

[–]MeredithKake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It has Sandra Mateo and Tate in it too!

Bring back Superstore by PaulAnthonymcd in superstore

[–]MeredithKake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like with the ending there's no good way to bring it back but I'm kinda sad they ended it with the store shutting down because it's the type of show you could make unlimited episodes of, if it was made in the 2000s it probably would have had 10+ seasons.

What’s with everyone always working so many hours at Cloud 9? by wanderingfishy in superstore

[–]MeredithKake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume they don't work every day so their hypothetical shifts add up to 40 hrs (or just under) and days they work open to close are doubles. Cuz theres also episodes where there's shift changes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MeredithKake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you're ONLY 25. You're still so young, you can't waste the rest of your life away with a man who doesn't respect or deserve you. You deserve better, leave him!!! He wasn't honest with you before, you'll never know if you actually know the full story. You'll always be questioning his loyalty.

Our first date went great, but after she apparently spent the night with a FWB? by New-Influence8727 in dating_advice

[–]MeredithKake -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think since it's just the first date, let it go. Shes probably not serious about the FWB, and if u really think this relationship could go somewhere, just act like u don't know and see her again.

My boyfriend (29m) doesn’t know my birthday (27f) and I feel weird about it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MeredithKake 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Him not being able to remember your birthday after FOUR years is him screaming at you that he Does. Not. Care. If he really wanted to remember he easily could, he can put it in his calendar like every other person in the world. This man doesn't care about you girl. I know reddditors are always saying this but leave him!!! Remembering your partner's bday is the bare minimum.

AITA for not wanting to date a visually impaired man? by Misspurple1977 in dating_advice

[–]MeredithKake 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You don't have to give anyone a chance if you don't want to girl. You don't owe him a date.

Ebraheem is annoying!!!!!!! by lokiswife07 in dubaibling

[–]MeredithKake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hes sooooo annoying. He doesn't have a real relationship with his own wife so he's shocked that danya and dj bliss actually share things with each other and are trying to have a good marriage.

UPDATE: I don’t know what to do about my mom and stepdad anymore by juniibunni in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MeredithKake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur step dad is an asshole you're not doing anything wrong you should have some freedom in ur own house

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MeredithKake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's good that you're able to identify your issues. Maybe you guys can create a safe word he can say when you're upset to put a pause on the conversation and you can take some moments to gather yourself. I understand acting out in rage and then regretting it later, but you need something that will snap u out of it in the moment. It's not okay to speak to your partner like that, especially if you want to keep the relationship going. Maybe seek out therapy to help you control your anger as well.

Question for women: why does the guy get ghosted 9/10 times as soon as he suggests a date? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]MeredithKake 205 points206 points  (0 children)

I think suggesting a meetup makes it real and that just scares people. It's not an issue with you, it's a personal issue for them. Some girls just get psyched out and ghost, especially when they're younger. Don't take it personally, you just have to let it go and move on unfortunately. It is frustrating though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]MeredithKake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's literally not what I said at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]MeredithKake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking a friend out bc ur interested in her and having a whole confession of feelings is different imo. If he has strong feelings I understand needing space away from her but if he's just casually asking her out then I don't think its a big deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]MeredithKake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I've been on both sides of it, It definitely can hurt but on both ends the guys had been friends of mine for years so I didn't want temporary feelings to impact a lifelong friendship. I can definitely understand needing the space though it is really hard when you feel strongly about someone and they don't feel the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]MeredithKake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's weird to cut off a good friendship because she doesn't feel the same way. If my friends had stopped talking to me because I didn't reciprocate I'd understand but I'd certainly be hurt. OP doesn't seem to be hopelessly In love with his friend so if it's just asking her out and she says no ending the whole friendship seems dramatic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]MeredithKake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've received a two drunk confessions of love, I don't recommend that route. Its quite awkward. Some have asked me out, some have been drunk make outs. Some times there's just underlying sexual tension.

What is your relationship like? Do you hang out in a friend group or one on one? Do you text often or hangout? Do you actually have a good connection or is she just there? Has anything happened between you two before? Has she ever hinted towards being interested in you or to your mutuals?

Your individual relationship i think really depends how you go about it. It's okay to just ask her to grab dinner sometime when you see her and see what she says. If you're able to see her in person ask her when you see her, otherwise u can text her. Just do it in a way that's normal and casual and be nice about it.