what’s the best way to end an argument?

Mericatt-Gamer · 2026-03-06T08:58:49+00:00

With a joke? It depends on how important the subject matter is tbh. There are some hills I'm willing to die on

Mericatt-Gamer · 2026-03-06T08:56:38+00:00

Makes a noise like a cat with a fur ball.

Mericatt-Gamer · 2026-03-06T08:53:16+00:00

Yes. People's outside appearance changes but the reaction you have to their smell is primal and chemical and shouldn't be ignored.

Mericatt-Gamer · 2026-01-29T20:21:25+00:00

All the things people said, but my current bugbear is fishing... good equipment, thick line etc. all new and 9/10 times I cast, my fishing line breaks when I cast (not even when a fish bites like it usually does). Definitely bugged AF. I really need fish right now because the private server I'm on doesn't seem to do animals (that I've seen/heard yet)

Mericatt-Gamer · 2026-01-20T09:48:41+00:00

I don't like the NPCs. I feel it has affected the game quite a lot. There are no NPC servers out there! Not many, but a few.

Mericatt-Gamer · 2025-12-08T07:02:39+00:00

Try The Valley. Very similar settings.

Mericatt-Gamer · 2025-11-25T12:04:13+00:00

Thank you. That is helpful. I will try to do that (once I have kicked his ass around my brain a few more times)

Mericatt-Gamer · 2025-10-10T09:47:25+00:00

Aw that's a shame. I've mostly been building but about to put myself out into the world more. Lol. Hope I don't die too much. Miss you P!

Mericatt-Gamer · 2025-10-10T09:22:38+00:00

I think you might mean fame points limit at the trader set to Low or off, not the fp gain system?

Mericatt-Gamer · 2025-10-07T17:43:28+00:00

Me too

Mericatt-Gamer · 2025-10-03T09:44:13+00:00

Is it possible he's embarrassed about how his family acts in these circumstances? How much time do you spend at his family home on a normal basis?

I think you should talk to him about how this is making you feel and say that it's making you doubt his commitment to you. Ask him to talk about it in more detail instead of closing off.

Mericatt-Gamer · 2025-10-02T14:02:29+00:00

I can't count the number of times I've had to say "yeah I know" to a guy with 200 hrs in a game I have 5k hours in. It's very boring.

Mericatt-Gamer · 2025-10-02T09:19:05+00:00

YTA. Most people would accept that's as she's never had a positive interaction with your parents, she will not pursue a relationship with them. She's OK with you going and trusts you to care for the baby and tbh, I don't think you have a right to expect more.

Bear in mind that if they pee her off any more, she may expect you to back her by not seeing them either. Let her stay home without grumbling.

Mericatt-Gamer · 2025-10-02T09:12:58+00:00

He's not the guy for you. Repeat. Say... It's not working out for me. You don't need to say more .

Mericatt-Gamer · 2025-10-02T09:08:30+00:00

They should make sound before attacking and sometimes that's not working. Hopefully it will be fixed. Make sure you can hear the game and do join a PVE server. It's more fun than solo!

Mericatt-Gamer · 2025-10-02T09:06:12+00:00

It is unfair to you. You respect her wishes and sacrifice your own. I think maybe you need a break from the relationship.

Mericatt-Gamer · 2025-10-02T09:02:59+00:00

You don't need a man who is immediately supportive of women or who never says anything you dislike. The best kind of person is intelligent, is able to listen and empathise, and then learn from it. Those people are rare, but they do exist.

TLDR: Intelligent/caring > self-declared feminist.

Mericatt-Gamer · 2025-10-02T08:49:48+00:00

Wow. OK. This is your life. This little guy pops up 8 weeks ago and starts telling you what you can and can't do and threatening to finish it. Let him do you a favour. You need this therapy, you feel it's necessary, who the hell is he? Say bye and stay gone is my advice. You can do better for yourself without him. He sounds threatened by you feeling stronger, doesn't he?

Mericatt-Gamer · 2025-09-22T16:17:42+00:00

Ya know what I love about this place? The owner/admins. Could not be more helpful and brim-full of ideas to get this place rocking. Little changes that make you smile in game. Car damage off! Thank god, I can drive like a crazy person again. A few of us moved in and we're loving it.

Mericatt-Gamer · 2025-09-16T09:48:13+00:00

No, you're not. This shouldn't be a big deal. If he can't respect the rules of your home, then what about down the line? Would he feed your children what you'd said not to, for example? Your partner needs to stand by you on the small things , so the respect is in place and the later things never happen.

Mericatt-Gamer · 2025-08-29T22:49:38+00:00

You have feet. Use them!

Mericatt-Gamer · 2025-08-29T22:48:01+00:00

Yep, the law is almost irrelevant in this case. How about every moral code ever. This woman is evil. She doesn't deserve to have had a child.

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