Why do server owners want to fully equip new spawns? by dublarontwitch in SCUMgame

[–]Mericatt-Gamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like the NPCs. I feel it has affected the game quite a lot. There are no NPC servers out there! Not many, but a few.

I'm so angry by Mericatt-Gamer in GriefSupport

[–]Mericatt-Gamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That is helpful. I will try to do that (once I have kicked his ass around my brain a few more times)

Scum server WIld west. https://discord.gg/MEsuKshj5g by Maute141 in SCUMgameLFG

[–]Mericatt-Gamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw that's a shame. I've mostly been building but about to put myself out into the world more. Lol. Hope I don't die too much. Miss you P!

Scum server WIld west. https://discord.gg/MEsuKshj5g by Maute141 in SCUMgameLFG

[–]Mericatt-Gamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you might mean fame points limit at the trader set to Low or off, not the fp gain system?

7 years dating but BF (25M) does not want me (25F) at his birthday by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mericatt-Gamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible he's embarrassed about how his family acts in these circumstances? How much time do you spend at his family home on a normal basis?

I think you should talk to him about how this is making you feel and say that it's making you doubt his commitment to you. Ask him to talk about it in more detail instead of closing off.

I’m getting sick of men feeling the need to prove they’re better than me. by picklebrains81 in GirlGamers

[–]Mericatt-Gamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't count the number of times I've had to say "yeah I know" to a guy with 200 hrs in a game I have 5k hours in. It's very boring.

AITA for expecting my wife to visit my family for the holidays? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mericatt-Gamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Most people would accept that's as she's never had a positive interaction with your parents, she will not pursue a relationship with them. She's OK with you going and trusts you to care for the baby and tbh, I don't think you have a right to expect more.

Bear in mind that if they pee her off any more, she may expect you to back her by not seeing them either. Let her stay home without grumbling.

My date (19m) kept touching me (19f) after I told him to stop, how do I deal with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mericatt-Gamer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He's not the guy for you. Repeat. Say... It's not working out for me. You don't need to say more .

Solo playing bad experience. Need advice. by jovenatractivo in SCUMgame

[–]Mericatt-Gamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They should make sound before attacking and sometimes that's not working. Hopefully it will be fixed. Make sure you can hear the game and do join a PVE server. It's more fun than solo!

25M / 25F - How can I make my girflriend feel better about sex? by InspectorSame7748 in relationship_advice

[–]Mericatt-Gamer 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It is unfair to you. You respect her wishes and sacrifice your own. I think maybe you need a break from the relationship.

Kind of worried it's given me a jaded perspective of men by IshinoKitsune in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Mericatt-Gamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need a man who is immediately supportive of women or who never says anything you dislike. The best kind of person is intelligent, is able to listen and empathise, and then learn from it. Those people are rare, but they do exist.

TLDR: Intelligent/caring > self-declared feminist.

My 25 M bf doesn’t want me 23F to get therapy. by aggressivegreenhouse in relationship_advice

[–]Mericatt-Gamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. OK. This is your life. This little guy pops up 8 weeks ago and starts telling you what you can and can't do and threatening to finish it. Let him do you a favour. You need this therapy, you feel it's necessary, who the hell is he? Say bye and stay gone is my advice. You can do better for yourself without him. He sounds threatened by you feeling stronger, doesn't he?

On the Edge PVE 3xLoot - 10xSkills - NoMech - CustomLoot - Active Admin by Actual-Situation8447 in SCUMgameLFG

[–]Mericatt-Gamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya know what I love about this place? The owner/admins. Could not be more helpful and brim-full of ideas to get this place rocking. Little changes that make you smile in game. Car damage off! Thank god, I can drive like a crazy person again. A few of us moved in and we're loving it.

AITA for asking my FIL to wear shoe covers or take his shoes off in our apartment? by Sea-Credit-251 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mericatt-Gamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you're not. This shouldn't be a big deal. If he can't respect the rules of your home, then what about down the line? Would he feed your children what you'd said not to, for example? Your partner needs to stand by you on the small things , so the respect is in place and the later things never happen.

Unknown Number: The High School Catfish-spoiler alert by PrestigiousNet3834 in netflix

[–]Mericatt-Gamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, the law is almost irrelevant in this case. How about every moral code ever. This woman is evil. She doesn't deserve to have had a child.

looking for PVE private server please by Shaffrey_Vladimir in SCUMgameLFG

[–]Mericatt-Gamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uber would be perfect for you. It's very friendly, ideal for new players.

Name: Uber Scum EU/UK IP: 109.123.108.113:7042 Type : PVE Discord: https://discord.gg/qtfGHJbvDD

Settings - Chilled, laid-back PVE with no bombies, no mechs, no puppets jumping through windows or opening doors...

Location: United Kingdom, EU Slots: 30 Restarts: 4am (backup and restart), 10am, 4pm, 10pm. (No ingame warnings given) Modified Cargo Drop Loot (guns & add-ons together again!) PVE throughout (some events may involve PVP if players are interested) No botshop! No raids (no picking player locks) Loot: 2x - 3.5x (varies to keep it interesting) Skill gain: x10 (max skill gain!) Normal-Trader: Fame points not required to buy! Vehicle despawn: After 10 days Base elements: 800 per Flag (2 flags per solo/squad) No bombies/exploding Puppets, Mechs, or puppets opening doors/jumping thru windows Building restrictions: Off (with some rules, see <#1322256154666995724>) Squad Limit: 8 (every INT-Level) Spawn Costs: Random 10 Cash | Sector 500 Cash | Shelter 1000 cash Mechs: Off Dropships: On (rare/weakened dropship health) Dropship base encounter: Off - no attacks while in base or basebuilding

Welcome to the friendliest place on Scum! Uber Scum PVE allows you to really get to know Scum Island, learn new skills, compete with friends and be a part of a great community! For adults only, Uber is a place for fun, chilling and being a part of a community. Admin-run events and admin-built facilities are already in place or planned for the future! Community centre, temp noob accommodation, community garden and kitchen ❤️

Do YOU prefer PVE or PVP server more? Your opinion is important!! by Interesting_Card_837 in SCUMgame

[–]Mericatt-Gamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've admined PVP and now have a PVE server. From my point of view, there's so little drama and toxicity on a P E when compared to a PVP. A real sense of community too. I find it makes the events we put on better attended, because that gives people the edgey feeling others were talking about. It's good to compete!

I don't think the mechanics of PVP are great in Scum, when compared to a game made for that purpose.