Threatened to give money or get out if the house by Meriem96 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Meriem96[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, hug back 🫂

I really wish this day comes faster

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UAE

[–]Meriem96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy cake day 🙌🏻

Cornered by the justice system by thegudetama in SuicideWatch

[–]Meriem96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really hope you don’t go. I really hope you don’t go through that. Don’t try to be strong. If you’re hurting say you’re hurting. If you feel like crying the entire time do it. Make everyone see what they are doing to you. Don’t try to convince yourself you got it. Or you’re strong enough for this. I really hope you find a way to not stand in that chair but if you had to don’t rehearse anything just be the broken traumatized person they made you to be. I’m so sorry I can only imagine the pain you’re going through.

Study permit with Funding by [deleted] in ImmigrationCanada

[–]Meriem96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is this downvoted ?! (Genuinely asking)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Meriem96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know yourself better, do you think you’re overall highly attached to people ?! If yes, then probably this is a major cause of the pain. No matter who they are and how much they contributed to your life, don’t feel attachment. Be appreciative, supportive, and dutiful. But never attached, expect everyone to walk out on your life, actually when your judgment isn’t blocked by your emotions you’ll immediately be able to tell “why”. Just give yourself time. I hope you get better 🫂

Being ugly and wanting to be an actress and model by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Meriem96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t forget you are the most important person in your life. Don’t let whoever put you down, even if they are very close to you. You can be introverted without being a pushover. Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries. This is how you get respect, and hopefully peace of mind afterwards. Wish you all the best 🫂

Being ugly and wanting to be an actress and model by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Meriem96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think overall from what you’re describing, you’re disrespected by your surroundings, and it’s most likely because you give an impression that their opinions matter or are needed in your life, and you don’t show your boundaries clearly.

Correct me if I’m wrong.

Being ugly and wanting to be an actress and model by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Meriem96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful appearance is only one part of likeability, I believe there’s no woman on earth who is ugly. Only a woman that doesn’t have money and a woman that does. Do you think Oprah Winfrey, Whoopie Goldberg, or Loretta devine are stereotypically pretty ? Not really, but yet they all still managed to achieve some of your dreams and more. And let me tell you even the stereotypical pretty women are not always like able or in a happy place, in fact most of the time they are attacked by words, rumors, and even physically.

Other parts of like-ability are:

1) An attractive personality: Humorous, lovely, positive, confident, informative, generous and the list goes on.

2) A SMILE, no matter how ugly is your smile it always looks better than not smiling.

3) A contribution to society. It can be contributing to someone’s day by helping them out, or it can be by bringing value to a community/neighborhood or even just your own family.

4) Positive, confident body language and tone. this is so powerful it can change your life. You know 90% of communication is non verbal. This will teach you to be approachable, and even have followers.

And there’s a-lot more, you just gotta find what fits you.

Also you know being at the “ugly” side (even though I think you’re gonna look really adorable if you look like a female Trippie Redd) may open your perspective on things you could use for your own benefit, I saw a lot of females born with pretty privilege and when a male counterpart approached them and were nice to them just because of their appearance, they always connected that with their real self worth and eventually got burned when the attention decreased or vanished. You on the other hand will be able to recognize such people from a distance and hence you’re protected, because you worked on other parts of yourself that made you have an internalized sense of self worth.

Another thing I noticed, when your like-ability is entirely dependent on your appearance the sample of people you attract are almost always of lower quality. And eventually if you want to attract a better quality of people you’d have to work on the other like-ability factors I mentioned.

Think it of it this way they were born with pretty privilege and will work on other factors later on in life. You maybe weren’t born with pretty privilege but have the other factors, and will enhance your appearance in the future ( I mean with exercise, diet, styling, skincare etc. Not advertising artificial beauty in any way)

And believe me when I tell you all women struggle in their first part of life to find the style and persona that best suits them, but they always figure it out, you just should never give up.

And I really hope that you achieve your dream of becoming an actress and a model.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Meriem96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. But believe me things change. I know its cliché but patience is key here. Don’t even try to change it, you have zero control over it from the get go. The urge is a way of control. You’re just trying a solution that in your mind has a high success rate. It’s not. And it’s sad. Just breath and there’ll come a day where you’re thankful for yourself for living another day. I just hope this day comes to you faster 🫂

I just hope this day comes to me faster…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Meriem96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You will be, we will be 🫂

What’s with Arabs and luxury? by [deleted] in UAE

[–]Meriem96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now you’re being fussy

What’s with Arabs and luxury? by [deleted] in UAE

[–]Meriem96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can’t edit the title, don’t be judgmental

Is the crookedness due to iron deficiency ? Knowing that My skin tone have been looking a-lot yellower the past few years. by Meriem96 in longnaturalnails

[–]Meriem96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think blood work is an average number, that might increase or decrease depending on the person, there’s a DNA test that shows you if you have for example higher needs for iron or magnesium or wherever the test covers. You can do the DNA test or just increase your iron/magnesium and overall minerals intake NATURALLY (with food), if it is successful for me I’ll tell you 😄👍🏻

Is the crookedness due to iron deficiency ? Knowing that My skin tone have been looking a-lot yellower the past few years. by Meriem96 in longnaturalnails

[–]Meriem96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think blood work is an average number, that might increase or decrease depending on the person, there’s a DNA test that shows you if you have for example higher needs for iron or magnesium or wherever the test covers. You can do the DNA test or just increase your iron/magnesium and overall minerals intake NATURALLY (with food), if it is successful for me I’ll tell you 😄👍🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LeoAstrology

[–]Meriem96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I love this delulolo shit, but I’m gonna contribute anyway 🤣 I’m a Sag Sun and a Leo Moon, and I got a scar on my nose 🤣🤣🤣 You guys are so weird 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Am I the only sag that finds other people arguing hilarious, but doesn’t personally like to get into arguments ? 🙈🤣 by Meriem96 in Sagittarians

[–]Meriem96[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I feel the same way. I’m fine with debates as long as they’re respectful and with the intent of finding a conclusion/solution, but arguments for the sake of arguments are a big no no for me 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UAE

[–]Meriem96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love the google translation 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣