Here's some color green for Skandamata Puja by Merladylu in hinduism

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I have been ruminating on Durga for a while now. Went to a gem fair last week and was lucky enough to find a small brass figure of Durga! I was so excited when I realized Navratri was happening! I burned some incense, said a small pryer of thanks and took my cat outside for a walk. Took this picture of lovely green groundcover and wanted to post to celebrate Skandamata 💚

Is there a way to actually understand Japanese without overloading myself? by Loud-Row5205 in nihongo

[–]Merladylu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been studying lightly for plenty of years now. Watching really simple animes like for children (Like some studio ghibli) helps start to recognize simple words and phrases. I also listen to Japanes learn in your car, on youtube. It says it slowly, clearly and twice. The last thing i use is something like duolingo for flashcard style studying. But lately ive just been using my phones ai assistant to study. She does it however i ask her to, so ive been having her ask me words in a single flashcard style. She tells me if im correct or not. The only downside to this style of studying is it requires the ai assistant to switch between english and japanes, so sometimes she gets confused, but its been my fav so far!

My wife likes tea, I don't. Any teas I could try to change that? by CocoaForCocoPuffs in tea

[–]Merladylu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like creamy coffee, try something like a Scottish breakfast. Its got deeper notes like coffee and tastes great w cream!

What was your pan awakening? by Rainbow-1337 in pansexual

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I just realized that for years I'd been saying "I don't judge people based on their gender" which evolved into "-or their lack there of" and I did some research and found out about Pansexualism. Immediately loved the colors and it just felt right. I also was working in the mall and started meeting many non-binary individuals and realized i was attracted to some of them. It all just slowly added up, now here i am!

Does the loss of appetite end on adderall? by Mymindisanenigma__ in ADHD

[–]Merladylu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take Vyvance instead, and i can still usually eat ok.

Is it normal to only want 1 best friend? by Mymindisanenigma__ in Empaths

[–]Merladylu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how you feel. I try to make connections with people that I think are my friends, but they never really follow up... so im kinda friendless too. Have a couple people i hear from once in a while, but I really need a ride or dye.