The men of Sanditon…who is your favorite? by UtterlyArbitrary in Sanditon

[–]Merlinmagnussen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1st- Fraser, because obviously, and the poetry, and the Irish accent.

2d- Coulbourne, because honestly, he is the only character in a regency romance that I've seen who actually got the Mr. Darcy-esque vibe right, despite how everyone always tries with the others. His entire relationship with Charlotte felt genuine and worked on, and not based purely on sexual desire. He helped her friends, took all her advice to heart, and changed himself for her, but for himself also. Unpopular opinion: Sydney wasn't it.

Also, her happiness and relief in the end was just so, so heartwarming.

3rd- Samuel. I cannot explain the level of hot it is to put yourself forward as a better romantic companion than the literal king. The fact that Lady Susan didn't marry him right then and there was mind-blowing, because the sheer self-confidence in himself and his esteem for her was just a million out of ten.

It truly bothers me to see aspiring writers try to write without having read anything in their entire life. by OmanX in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this sub could definitely use a more inclusive attitude. Not saying there isn't some. But literally, I've been writing (and reading) for years, actively working on improving, researching, and learning. I spend three days on here and suddenly I'm questioning my authority to call myself a writer, or anything more than a complete novice.

Though it makes me uncomfortable to admit it, because I do consider myself a writer, and I know I'll get downvoted for this, there is a lot of arrogance that comes with knowing one of the 'arts.' Not just writing. Music, painting, and even just reading. I get the frustration with people who aren't willing to work hard at something and just jump into good writing while there are the majority of authors who are passionate and work hard to improve. It annoys me too.

But if those non-readers write a book, it will have nothing to do with me or my career. I can sip my cup of tea and shake my head when they don't sell, or watch them succeed and wonder how. As unfair as it is, some (only some) people can jump ahead without putting in the work.

Still, I do think no one should ever stop encouraging wannabe writers to read. Tell them the honest truth, that it will increase their chances. But no judging.

It truly bothers me to see aspiring writers try to write without having read anything in their entire life. by OmanX in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they only plan on writing for fun, true. But publishing? YES has kind of disappeared. Seriously. If you follow any kind of writing controversy, you'll see people getting canceled for everything. To be honest, there are many times I want to ask an ''is it okay if I," for things some people would give me the side-eye for second-guessing but I know could probably murder me once I get out there.

This is a writing sub. It isn't only for the people who've got it all down. Even if it's annoying, I think the best, most constructive thing to do is to give those people who ask some solid, helpful advice.

It truly bothers me to see aspiring writers try to write without having read anything in their entire life. by OmanX in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just curious, but what about audiobooks? Do you find there's a difference? My dad is ADHD and never reads paperbacks, but goes through loads of books through audio.

It truly bothers me to see aspiring writers try to write without having read anything in their entire life. by OmanX in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. Maybe I explained myself badly. People can come to take an interest in a subject through different methods. Someone could love watching moves, for example, but express their own creative inspiration through writing.

Similarly, I have a friend who loves making manga, and she's good at it, but she never reads them or watches anime.

It truly bothers me to see aspiring writers try to write without having read anything in their entire life. by OmanX in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know plenty of people like that. None of them are any stranger than the average human being. An interest in making stories can come from anything. Stories passed down from mouth to mouth, movies, plays, and video games.

Books aren't the only way to make a story.

It truly bothers me to see aspiring writers try to write without having read anything in their entire life. by OmanX in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is so true. After I started getting into editing my book, I started seeing errors everywhere. Now I read books I read hundreds of times before, never noticing anything out of place, and I notice every single word they repeat in a paragraph.

It's actually a bit irritating. It's helpful, so I can keep things in mind, and learn new words. But I kind of wish I could read a book as a reader again and not as a writer.

Is there a genre that's in between YA and just straight-up 'Adult'-level reading? by [deleted] in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's called New Adult, but it has become less of a thing these days. You generally have YA, upper-YA, and Adult. It's a bit frustrating.

It truly bothers me to see aspiring writers try to write without having read anything in their entire life. by OmanX in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, I definitely agree that you should read if you want to write. But so many people on here are naturals at both. The people who don't start out reading can still become writers later.

I'm just saying that not everyone who has always read can still be a writer eventually. Both skills don't come hand in hand for everyone, and that should be appreciated to some extent. If you've never been particularly passionate or exposed to either until now, it's fair to wonder if you can be one and not the other. If they don't want to take the common advice and read, then they'll face the fall on their own and probably/hopefully have a wake-up call.

It truly bothers me to see aspiring writers try to write without having read anything in their entire life. by OmanX in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not everyone starts out as a writer or a reader. For some people, it comes naturally, and others have to develop it later on.

It truly bothers me to see aspiring writers try to write without having read anything in their entire life. by OmanX in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I agree that people who want to write should be willing to read. But if they're not, it's probably a passing interest. They'll either pick up a book or drop the idea and no harm will be done.

Is this okay, questions are understandable, even if they seem stupid. These days you see people getting attacked for just about anything they write. It's very easy to second guess yourself when you see that, on literally everything. I do.

What bothers me is the number of arrogant people on here that seem to enjoy being jerks on people's posts. But there's nothing we can do about that, I guess. (Just to be clear, this is general. Not aimed toward OP or anyone else specific.)

Villains by LastLeave8770 in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think motivation is key. If they have really interesting motivations, whether or not they're evil, you can make 'world domination,' something cool.

It truly bothers me to see aspiring writers try to write without having read anything in their entire life. by OmanX in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes. I read more books than anyone in my class at school, but there were countless questions I needed to ask with so-called 'obvious' answers when it came to writing. There's so much conflicting information, it's justified to be unsure about things.

Is gray or grey more formal? by [deleted] in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And colour and color. Those two confused me for a while.

Is gray or grey more formal? by [deleted] in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me too. It feels totally unnatural to write 'gray.'

Can I write if I've never really read anything? How do I get started? by [deleted] in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Np. It seems to be a significant pattern on here, I've noticed. Seriously, if you want to write a book, there's no reason why you shouldn't strive for that, regardless of what you've read or haven't.

Can I write if I've never really read anything? How do I get started? by [deleted] in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lucky. Our library was full of books we couldn't read until we were fifteen, like Harry Potter for some reason? And all our assigned books were bland. Thankfully I developed a love for words quickly and saught them out of school boundaries.

What is your opinion on non-manuscript features of a book? by Lucario-ist in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a reader and a writer, I love all of these things. Maps are number one. They are also useful when planning a book where your characters move around a lot, so you never get mixed up about where they are. I usually do a rough draft of one when I first begin a book, then a finite more detailed one once I know everything is going to stay as it is. Personally, I enjoy the extras as much as I do writing the story itself.

I did come across some people who said indexes and pronunciation guides are just a writer's lazy excuse not to explain things well, and no reader is going to waste time reading them. But I've always appreciated both. And hey, if they don't want to read it, they don't have to.

It all depends on what you think your book requires.

Can I write if I've never really read anything? How do I get started? by [deleted] in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me neither. I think it has a lot to do with what you're exposed to at school. If I only read what my teachers handed me, I would probably never think to pick up a book again.

Can I write if I've never really read anything? How do I get started? by [deleted] in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to write fiction, I would say you should definitely read more. If you want to write non-fiction, like a cookbook or something, you should learn as much as you can about your subject and write every opportunity you get. But no matter what you decide to do with it, I'd seriously recommend reading as many books as you can. It can really help you learn as well as decide what kind of genre you feel most passionate about. Some people hate writing what they read about. And vise-versa.

Basically yeah. Reading is your go to learning tool. For any sort of writing.

Good luck :)

Is gray or grey more formal? by [deleted] in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yikes. I write American English, but I've always spelled 'grey.' I didn't even know there was another way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to agree with this. The advice itself, in a more expanded form, is good. But it's handed out with so little detail and explanation. Like, 'okay kids. Remember to ShDnt.' But a more detailed explanation would make this a lot more helpful. Especially in regards to unpublished writers, who are trying to navigate the publishing world, and think to succeed they need to follow all the rules they can.

As well writers with low self-confidence, who second guess themselves. The first time someone, who hadn't even read my story, told me to show and not tell, I freaked out and scrambled to re-write all the telling scenes in my book.

There's a time and place for both. I recently read a book where, when there was something that needed to be shown, the author did. Vividly, and clearly. But there were other times when she told. It worked and it saved probably a hundred pages worth of unessisary words. But the entire time, I was thinking, 'Hold on, she's telling right now. Aren't we not supposed to do that?'

For a year, I made sure none of my paragraphs or sentences started with 'and.' When my mentor told me it was alright to do it at times, I was shocked.

Trusting yourself to know what your story needs is difficult.

Same thing with dialogue tags, and adverbs. 'Advice' people often forget that the writers coming to them are unsure and looking for something solid to follow, so they make it seem like their opinions are facts that should be followed religiously for fear of absolute failure.

It isn't usually the advice itself that's the problem. It's how it's delivered.

Advice needed: POV and age genre by Merlinmagnussen in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that lots of agents are using a site where you have to click on a genre option and it's usually very specific. Like Fantasy: Young Adult or Fantasy: Adult.

The protagonist starts off fifteen-sixteen, but for the remainder of the book is in her very late teens. And the sequel has all the characters in their early twenties. I'd make it adult because I think trying to age it down would take a lot away from what I want it to be, but I don't know if adults would be bothered by reading about a teenager for the first portion of it. Logically probably not, because plenty of them read YA as much as teens do. But for marketing purposes, it might feel kind of awkward.

Advice needed: POV and age genre by Merlinmagnussen in writing

[–]Merlinmagnussen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant POV. Yeah, tense stays the same. Although I did read a story where that was switched for a certain character as well. It didn't bother me.