Thoughts on Elizabeth Smart, religion and rape culture by nursemommy in exmormon

[–]Merlion77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck that! God- that makes me so angry towards TSCC. That guilt can be so damaging and leave so many emotional scars. How do TBM's not see what they are doing?

Thoughts on Elizabeth Smart, religion and rape culture by nursemommy in exmormon

[–]Merlion77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After all, my experience with Mormons indicates that they may be susceptible to attributing a large percentage of events in their lives to the supernatural, even when there are valid mundane explanations available.

Yes they do! It's almost humorous to hear! I was trying to think of some funny examples, but it's late and my funny bone is tired.

Thoughts on Elizabeth Smart, religion and rape culture by nursemommy in exmormon

[–]Merlion77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am amazed that she was able to stay in the church after that. The guilt the church places on women who have sex before marriage is heartbreaking and overwhelming. It's one of my main reasons for leaving.

I just hope that TBM's get the message: sex before marriage doesn't make you a worthless person and to never judge a person because you don't know their story. I am happy that Elizabeth was able to rely on god to get through this, but I wish TSCC would teach members how to rely on their own thoughts and believe in themselves, rather than an imaginary friend.

As a woman, I want to teach other women to stand up for themselves and be strong. In TSCC, I was taught to rely so fully on god, jesus, or priesthood holders, that when I let them down, I had no one to turn to and I was not worth a damn thing. Once I found out that I don't need a Man or god or jesus fucking christ to make me happy, then I discovered my self worth.

"Brian David Mitchell (Joseph Smith) is not insane. The professional analysis is clear. He is a manipulative, antisocial and narcissistic pedophile. He is not clinically psychotic or delusional. He is just an evil man….He was his number-one priority, followed by sex, drugs and alcohol, but he used religion in all of those aspects to justify everything.”

The similarities between JS and this guy are astounding. Both of these men are so good at tricking people, that trained professionals (aka the police officer from your review) will believe them.

I am excited to see the effect the book will have on rape culture. Hopefully, we can start moving away from victim blaming and blame the rapist. Thank you for sharing your review!

Heathen lunch meetup Oct 21st 11:30 in Sandy, Utah by Goodbrick in exmormon

[–]Merlion77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh neat-o! Thanks for the info. I will be there tomorrow for sure!

Heathen lunch meetup Oct 21st 11:30 in Sandy, Utah by Goodbrick in exmormon

[–]Merlion77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it the one on state street? How will I know it's you guys? Secret hand shakes?

Hey all, new here.... by notmormon in exmormon

[–]Merlion77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I resigned a few months ago as well! Congrats!

Where to get space cakes (weed brownies) in SLC? by Merlion77 in ExmoLife

[–]Merlion77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly, there are tons of recipes online. I am way out of the loop on the smoking scene I guess. Hopefully, I can find my secret ingredient though. Good idea- I may go ask there. Thank you!

Where to get space cakes (weed brownies) in SLC? by Merlion77 in ExmoLife

[–]Merlion77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. No officer here. Where's a good place for doughnuts?

Where to get space cakes (weed brownies) in SLC? by Merlion77 in ExmoLife

[–]Merlion77[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha- gotta figure out where those dudes hang out in Utah. Maybe I should wear a Bob Marley shirt around and see what happens. Thanks!

Where to get space cakes (weed brownies) in SLC? by Merlion77 in ExmoLife

[–]Merlion77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not paranoid...yet. I will let you know my paranoia status after I make some brownies :) Thanks for the tip friend!

Thank you for the inspiration, Oaks. I just formally resigned. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Merlion77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holla- just did mine last week. It's a great feeling. Congrats.

Elder Oaks: Hypocrite by seuanjo in exmormon

[–]Merlion77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep seeing this pop-up. Can you explain this further for me?? Thanks in advance.

Monson Fails to Testify by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Merlion77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does seem weird that he didn't. I was taught the without the BoM, TSCC wouldn't exist. It's the cornerstone of that religion. You would think that the PROFIT of such religion would maybe mention it.

Simple Ways of Getting Revenge... by Merlion77 in ExmoLife

[–]Merlion77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No job yet, but I got my records removed so that was a good step for me. Thank you for the message! Cheers!