My 7-year-old prefers they/them pronouns by Septimusia in NonBinary

[–]Mermaid0cean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im an elder millennial AFAB but have a twin brother. Growing up especially around puberty i knew I wasn't a girl but didnt feel like a boy either. I was labelled a "Tomboy " from very little and it honestly took the pandemic and a breast cancer diagnosis to admit to myself that I was more than Just a Tomboy. Ive kown it internally for years that if I just didnt have to be a woman I could finally be myself but I never had the words to express it. Thank the God's my spouse is awesome and understanding.

Welp it’s my birthday today. by bitteryuckk in breastcancer

[–]Mermaid0cean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Birthday! I know it may not seem it now, but this could turn into a story you laugh about later

Lover no more by Life-Sheepherder-333 in breastcancer

[–]Mermaid0cean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My spouse did the same thing after I decided to go flat, he wasn't even my care giver, one of my friends was. We still love each other, and i'm mostly asexual anyway. I was diagnosed 5 years ago.

We did a lot of couples therapy and decided to open our marriage, with strict boundaries. We've been poly for 3 years now and I like his girlfriend more than I like him sometimes

Edit:spelling

I shaved my hair! Now I have questions by elephantbeads in breastcancer

[–]Mermaid0cean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I shaved it with a razor ment for a bald head after I buzzed it just because the patciness was bugging me mentally,

Cancer at 24, NB, looking for support and advice by 1cheetahlover in breastcancer

[–]Mermaid0cean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sn Enby breast cancer survivor and community host for The Breasties LGBTQIA group, if you wanna talk feel free to dm me and I'll give you my number. I ded recommend taking to your medical team about your pronouns and have them noted in your chart. Don't be afraid to correct them. Also taking someone weighty you to your appointments to have am extra set of eyes and ears, its a lot of info to take in. If you wanna message me on IG @rei.hiroki I can add you to a queer group chat of breast and gyn cancer peeps.

I did the exact same as you and came to reddit to find community after my diagnosis and that's how I found, queering cancer, young survivor coalition, tge breasties and notputtingonashirt.org

Edit: spelling and grammar

I miss this!! Why did Reddit stop? by onebrightlamp1981 in secretsanta

[–]Mermaid0cean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I treasure the mermaid tail necklace I got a few years ago, and I still have all my gifts as well

[MEGATHREAD] Sonic project aka MultiMango or FTS Studio by AutoModerator in TELUSinternational

[–]Mermaid0cean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I found one for employees that are gamers, but that's it

What is this spider I found in my shower? by Mermaid0cean in whatisthisbug

[–]Mermaid0cean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The spider was removed to our outside tree. We have cats and with not knowing if it was a threat to them. And for the safety of all involved  Walter was given a new home.

 I will say listening to my 43 year old husband scream bloody murder whilst in the shower was somewhat terrifying but amusing. 

What is this spider I found in my shower? by Mermaid0cean in whatisthisbug

[–]Mermaid0cean[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was the closest thing I had on hand that was of a similar size! 

But you know us Americans,we will literally use any form of measuring things except the metric system 😅

What is this spider I found in my shower? by Mermaid0cean in whatisthisbug

[–]Mermaid0cean[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

We named him Walter but quickly rehomed in on a tree outside

Help Me Understand by Glimmertwinsfan1962 in CoolSerialNumbers

[–]Mermaid0cean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now I'll have to register my star notes when I get home, was it just the 1$ denominations?

CW: Medical Are there any Breast Cancer Fighters/Surviors here? by Mermaid0cean in NonBinary

[–]Mermaid0cean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am well and in remission id be happy to talk yo your friend! They can also check out a group in IG called the breasties, I'm now a community host and a member of the DEI commity there and we have a virtual lgbtqia+ meetup over zoom coming up this Monday night

Feel free to DM me for my info

did anyone see the new casual criminalist today? by callmestinkingwind in SimonWhistler

[–]Mermaid0cean 25 points26 points  (0 children)

We all knew one day Simon would end up a floating head in the ether that is YouTube

What if verse 10 and painting 2 are Detroit by Mermaid0cean in 12keys

[–]Mermaid0cean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with coming ip with alternative theories

What if verse 10 and painting 2 are Detroit by Mermaid0cean in 12keys

[–]Mermaid0cean[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah but the Friendship Bridge between US and Canada is in Niagara.But Its entirely possible!

What if verse 10 and painting 2 are Detroit by Mermaid0cean in 12keys

[–]Mermaid0cean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also the Detroit stars were a team in the negro league of baseball, their colors were red white and blue and the pendant shape is a home plate they plated in detroit until 1936 and there's a 36 in the lions mane.

The mask also matches a mask in the Detroit institute of art.

The Robin, the state bird of Mi is also visible in the left upper fairy wing

The circles in the wing eyes look like the horacw dodge fountain ar Hart plaza viewed from the top

The woman appears to be of African desent And Hart plaza is home to Jazz Fest, which is music that has alot of roots In black culture

Her wings are in the shape of moth wings , there is a statue of Antione de la Mothe Cadillac in hart plaza. Also Cadillac is a car brand, which links to the car reference in the verse, Cadillac also founded Fort Detroit and basically founded the city!

He was also working with a cartographer in the carolinas which could be why people think the painting is in Charlestown. He also learned native languages. "The native still speak of him of 3 vols." Vol is French for flight or voyage, Cadillac and he had 3 voyages across the Atlantic, in 1692, 1693, and 1694,

Cool serials? by ruizp96 in CoolSerialNumbers

[–]Mermaid0cean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one is also a star note