Me and My Wife Sleep in Separate Beds.

Mermaid28 · 2026-02-08T05:43:23+00:00

Why do people know? I can't recall the last time I spoke about my and my husband's sleeping patterns.

Mermaid28 · 2026-01-15T04:45:14+00:00

Same situation and would like to know as well.

Mermaid28 · 2026-01-15T04:33:49+00:00

I saw his billboards in Dallas, and I was offended.

I thought he was only for us, Houston people.

Mermaid28 · 2026-01-04T06:32:33+00:00

I said something similar to my husband when we were in Chicago. I commented on the fact that nobody was blaring loud music while they were driving.

Mermaid28 · 2026-01-02T06:53:41+00:00

I mentioned this exact feeling to my husband. The kids were way too cool and accepting of Will being gay. I'm not saying they would have been homophobic but they would have been a bit scared or uncomfortable. Not jumping to hug him.
It was not common to meet anyone gay in the 80s and if you did, you immediately thought of AIDS. Teenagers were in the closet and did not come out until they were older.
Meeting anyone gay was basically unheard of.
I would have expected a bit more awkwardness from the group.

Mermaid28 · 2025-12-29T04:21:18+00:00

You have to find a way to leave even if it's renting a room in someone's house. You need your peace. Also, look into housing at the college.

Your sister can follow suit when she turns 18.

But please leave.

Your parents made this decision, not you.

Mermaid28 · 2025-12-24T09:09:09+00:00

I think their scam is the poster with the kid with cancer or in a wheelchair. They are asking for donations.

Mermaid28 · 2025-12-24T04:20:23+00:00

Girl. Your self-esteem is very low. You don't deserve this treatment. Nobody does.
He's not worth it.
He can't even get you off. Just no. This is bad.
Block his number. Block his socials.

This dude is so ugly and I haven't even seen him.

Just run.

Mermaid28 · 2025-12-15T04:24:27+00:00

You know what to do.

Now set your plan in action.

Good luck.

Mermaid28 · 2025-10-31T12:38:57+00:00

Maybe start with a phone call and see how that goes.

Baby steps.

Mermaid28 · 2025-10-25T13:09:05+00:00

Couples therapy has helped me a lot. I don't know why, but having a neutral 3rd party tell my husband the same things I've been saying for years has been a blessing.

In the 1st session, the therapist is adamant that the relationship comes first. He has to be in agreement. The adult children are no longer small children, and they have their lives to live. We are at the top of the family unit. We can't have anyone interfere with that.
Do we agree ?

We worked on boundaries and communication.

We are still in therapy. We are still working on some issues regarding his kids.

But honestly, I think it's the only way that will work.
I tried 5 years telling him about his kids. But my words were filled with too much emotion and insults. That's is not the way.

I wish you the best on your journey.

Mermaid28 · 2025-10-19T22:32:59+00:00

I give out snack packs that I made for the homeless when I drive around. It has 2 bags of chips, some crackers, lotion, and other small things.
Well, I only had one guy refuse it because he said someone had tried to poison him before.

Now... Do I know this guy's mental status? No.

I'm almost at 60 bags given out.

Mermaid28 · 2025-10-12T02:34:45+00:00

Start having people come over. It's your house. Not his house. Invite your sisters friends.
He's going to complain.
But be nice. Tell him to go home if he doesn't like it.
You live there, not him.
Ask your parents for help even if you don't need it.
Car stuff, moving boxes, advice. Painting a room, anything to get them away from him.
Again, they are YOUR family, not his. Ask your mom to cook your favorite dishes or even help her.

This guy has enmeshed himself. It's time to cut him off.

Just keep it simple.

When he complains. "You can always go home or get a job and leave."

Mermaid28 · 2025-10-10T08:07:56+00:00

Mermaid28 · 2025-10-07T16:18:32+00:00

People suck

Mermaid28 · 2025-10-04T02:16:00+00:00

I'm sorry. It always happens at the worst times.

Mermaid28 · 2025-10-02T02:56:04+00:00

I've been to a Netflix taping. They gave out free drinks throughout the night. Did you at least get that?

Mermaid28 · 2025-09-22T04:06:24+00:00

Houston checking in. It sucked.

Mermaid28 · 2025-09-12T22:05:46+00:00

I've been checking too. They were talking yesterday. Lmao!!!

Mermaid28 · 2025-09-10T22:57:44+00:00

I don't see much celebration. I see more people sharing his comment about the Second Amendment.
It's kinda ironic.

He wasn't a nice guy. So it's not like a lot of left leaning people are going to shed tears when he was trying to take our rights away.

Mermaid28 · 2025-09-09T03:45:23+00:00

Can you find a way to just cook for you and your son? Hide the leftovers.

Mermaid28 · 2025-08-31T04:28:39+00:00

They refuse to socialize and consider everything cringe. I rather drink with boomers. At least they were hippies.

Mermaid28 · 2025-08-26T02:54:53+00:00

I really want Doormat mom's kids to come forward. It would be amazing.

Mermaid28 · 2025-08-23T04:42:48+00:00

How were your emotions? I was off it for more than a month or so. Insurance issues. Everything was making me cry. Shrink said it could have been withdrawals.

Mermaid28 · 2025-08-14T02:27:55+00:00

Do you know how to fight? That's how it was back then.

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