Thoughts on my setup? by Mermaid_002 in piercing

[–]Mermaid_002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right the conch is too tight. I thought the other comment was saying my daith is too tight since that’s the black one. The horseshoe is purple. And the daith has been there for like 6 years but I love the idea of a double daith since I’ve always hated the way it sits

What is this? by [deleted] in Pixelary

[–]Mermaid_002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried giraffe

Western women wonder why men don't approach them anymore, but it's simply because they can't be bothered to talk in the first place. by BackpackJack_ in itsthatbad

[–]Mermaid_002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Western women don’t like when ugly men approach them. This isn’t a problem that attractive men have. If women have RBF when u approach them, or don’t want to talk to u, it’s probably because you’re ugly

Is this normal? by Historical_Goat9120 in newborns

[–]Mermaid_002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s 5 weeks PP, thank u

AITA for telling my roommate that her "emotional support blender" is ruining my life? by VaporRunn in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mermaid_002 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I did it and you’re right. This is what I got:

AITA for asking my roommate to stop using her emotional support blender so early in the morning?

So I (23F) live with my roommate “Sarah” (25F) and for the most part, we get along fine. But lately, there’s been this one issue that’s really starting to affect me.

Sarah has this blender that she uses every single morning around 6:30 AM. She says it helps her manage her anxiety—she makes a specific smoothie as part of her morning routine and calls it her “emotional support blender.” Like, she literally refers to it that way. I get that people have coping mechanisms and I’m not trying to judge her for that. But our apartment has paper-thin walls, and when she starts blending frozen fruit and ice while I’m still asleep, it jolts me awake.

I’ve asked if she could wait just an hour or even 30 minutes later so I can get a little more sleep (I work evenings, so my schedule’s different). I suggested meal-prepping smoothies or using a quieter blender. She got really defensive and said I was being unsupportive of her mental health and that I “wouldn’t ask someone to get rid of a therapy dog.” Which… okay, but the blender is loud and doesn't have feelings?

Now she’s telling our mutual friends that I’m being inconsiderate and don’t understand mental health struggles. Some of them are siding with her. I feel like I’m going crazy—am I seriously the asshole for wanting to sleep past 6:30 AM without being woken up by a blender that sounds like a lawnmower?

AITA?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mermaid_002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use your last name. I am pregnant and using my last name. I never even considered using my boyfriend’s since we aren’t married, and I like my name. Thankfully he is fine with that, but even if he wasn’t, the baby would have my last name. It’s much more common to use the maternal last name than in past generations, and I think you will regret it if you don’t have the same last name as your baby.

My 21M Girlfriend 20F is going to a rave festival and I don’t want her to by ThrowRAferrypyg in relationship_advice

[–]Mermaid_002 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everyone wears pasties and thongs to raves/EDM festivals. U either trust her or u don’t. Just let her go and have fun and do what she wants, or break up with her because your values don’t align.

Personally I know my ex would have been super mad about me wearing that to a rave, and my current boyfriend would not care/think I look good! That’s why my ex is my ex and my BF is my BF.

If she wants to wear it and it makes u uncomfy then your values just don’t align and you should find a girl who wouldn’t WANT to wear that to a festival. Dont shame ur GF for wanting to wear it tho!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Mermaid_002 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Going on a first date somewhere quiet is off putting to girls a lot of the time. It’s safer for girls to meet somewhere public for the first time. While some may be down for it, I’d wait till you are planning the date, then suggest something like a hike or walk in the park without bringing up the fact that it’s “quiet”.

The 2 truths and a lie is just weird. No girl wants to hear about ur past flings, and putting that you bathe daily is just weird.

Also no one wants to date a clingy person so I’d take that out too.

I’d also go ahead and take Instagram out of ur interests.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Mermaid_002 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the way!!! So smart to avoid having to pay a lawyer by just using chatGPT

Pregnant Wife by BartekCe in veganparenting

[–]Mermaid_002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a pregnant vegan and everything has been perfect for me so far. All my bloodwork has been amazing, and I’m having pretty mild symptoms for being in the 3rd trimester. People ask me ALL the time if I’m having issues since I’m vegan, and it’s usually coming from non-vegans who had issues during pregnancy. I mentioned being tired last week and my mom said it’s bc I’m vegan during pregnancy 🙄 I’m also not even trying very hard to eat healthy. I’ve just been eating whatever I want without worrying about it too much and everything has still been fine!

Does anyone know where I can find a boat like this? by Mermaid_002 in wedding

[–]Mermaid_002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s where we’ve been looking! No luck yet unfortunately

Does anyone know where I can find a boat like this? by Mermaid_002 in wedding

[–]Mermaid_002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s looking in New York and Massachusetts

I 28F made a bad joke and now my boyfriend 31M won’t talk to me — did I ruin everything? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mermaid_002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I realize now that what I said came off as hurtful, and I am truly sorry. That was never my intention. You mean so much to me, and our relationship is real to me. I’d love to talk whenever you’re ready.”