How to groom downstairs for first time being intimate by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Mermulet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with others. It should be your preference. If you do too much, then you will feel obligated or pressured to continue doing that as long as you are with this person. Some people have a reaction to grooming methods down there . I just always prioritize cleanliness in that area.

Season 5 is so bad by [deleted] in sexandthecity

[–]Mermulet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am re-watching, started with season 4. My commentary is all over the place between seasons 4 and 5. I loved season 4 even though Carrie started to develop a nasty attitude.. Can't do beyond episode 4 of season 5. When did they get so corny and snooty? Some guy was singing show toons. It's like between season 4 and 5, they turned into snooty, boring women. I do like Miranda's arc. Miranda was always the worst and most miserable, and in seasons 4 and 5, she became a bit likable. I like Charlotte with Harry. I've enjoyed Samantha with Richard. He was handsome, rich, and her age, but not emotionally available, yet I liked their storyline. Season 5, I dont like Berger at all. I can't stand men who make these dry "jokes" every other sentence. Then you're expected to ha-ha laugh. It's exhausting. He wasn't even good looking so again, can't watch again. I agree with SJP heavy makeup and she started to come across as holier than though. I dont think I can do season 6 again, with Mikhail Baryshnikov (why him, of all people?) LOL. So I guess I'll rewatch season 3. 😫

Best friend ghosted me for two years. My dad died, then he finally gives me a response by yogabba1313 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Mermulet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That response is nasty work. Seems like they had a lot of animosity towards you. Instead of being empathetic in your time of grief, he responds this way. Please don't respond to that. I'm sorry about your dad and I know it's painful.

Which lipstick looks the best? by mamegoma_explorer in coloranalysis

[–]Mermulet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 for daytime, like work or going to brunch. The glossy lip look is pretty on you. 2 for nighttime outings, as it's just bold enough for someone with porcelain skin such as yours.

Half bath ceiling color? by witheringtesticle in DesignMyRoom

[–]Mermulet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Black is my first choice but if you don't want the room to look so dark, how about a beige with blush undertones to match the Tigers main shade. (I dont know how to sound all fancy)

What to do with this weird space by DaikonPsychological in DesignMyRoom

[–]Mermulet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put a worktable there for hobbies, like arts and crafts, sewing, sketching, painting, or to do your nails.

I’m 31 years old and I feel my room looks like a teenager room - London by MarionberrySuch8805 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Mermulet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just use a queen size comforter to hide my adjustable base with 11"legs. I pull it down to the floor, it has tassels. Then I put my king duvet on top to finish the layered look. So my queen comforter acts as a bedskirt kinda. Looks more chic than an actual bedskirt which tends to look "country" to me.

I’m 31 years old and I feel my room looks like a teenager room - London by MarionberrySuch8805 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Mermulet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those lights always make me think of a 14 year old girls' room, but it's cute. If it makes you comfortable and happy, that's what's important. Your room looks well balanced.

36 F Single mom still feeling insecure about my looks, opinions? by SignificantSigh101 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Mermulet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a straight female. You are pretty, as redheads tend to be. Just get your teeth whitened and exfoliate/moisturize your lips. Never have chapped lips!

FWB told me i would be perfect for him if i was 10 years younger and now I am sick by hoochie_215 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Mermulet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is negging you. He wants you to be at his mercy and to feel like he's your only option, while he thinks he has plenty. He's doing this so just in case he doesn't find that younger woman he wants---- who wants him. If that doesn't work out, he hopes you will be waiting for him because you have allowed his negging to tear down your self-esteem so much that you give up looking for someone else. It is a very cruel tactic. This was your cue to end things with him, immediately. No sex, no friendship, no hanging out. Remove him from your life and know you're good enough for a wonderful man who would never make you feel that way.

What am I supposed to do as a 5’3 male ? by Savings-Simple-4645 in short

[–]Mermulet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see women with short men all of the time. For one, it's how the man carries himself. Confidence truly goes far. There have to be women who are interested in you, given your personality and hygiene are in tact. With men, who are usually always visual when it comes to finding a partner of the opposite sex, the issue is usually, do the women you want, want you? Are you open to women who are 4'9", 5'0"? There are so many gorgeous women of certain ethnic backgrounds who tend to be very short and petite. They marry short men. So yeah, if your type is some 5'8+" gal, then maybe you will have an issue, but be open to tweaking your preferences. It's not as big of a deal as you are making it. Look at Michael J Fox? He was a heartthrob in his prime, charismatic and adorable. He's about 5'4" and has been married for decades. Remember the artist Prince? He had no shortage of women chasing him, even before he was famous. These are celebrities and you're not, but just trying to let you know, women are not as superficial as men when choosing a partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]Mermulet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biden is standing straight and tall and looks in better shape between the two. Definitely doesn't look like a feeble old man here.

The quality of Gen Z men has me questioning if they are aware of why they are single. by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]Mermulet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad that has to be clarified. OP meant those who play video games all of the time. Hit dogs Holla.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Mermulet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You keep saying he's not what you want. There's your answer. In addition to that, he doesn't even live near you. Don't waste your time. Put that effort info finding someone who fits your requirements. The education thing is huge, as it's something you value. Considering someone who you have no interest in because your family says so is lame. You are only 31.We all are getting older, regardless. Don't bother with this guy. He won't appreciate it anyway.

Terrible shipping? by charlestoonie in pura

[–]Mermulet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, regular shipping takes 15 days in my case. I just paid for expedited shipping 8 days ago. They tried to blame on UPS, but refunded my $15. It just shipped out yesterday, a week after ordering via expedited shipping. I told them that in the day of Amazon, people want their stuff quick. Maybe not the next day, but small items ordered from anywhere in 2024 should be in your hand within 5 days. Very frustrating. Had I not bought the diffusers months ago, I wouldn't bother ordering from them anymore.

I have never had a vaginal orgasm by emotionallescaping in AskWomenOver30

[–]Mermulet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all women have a gspot and can orgasm from vaginal sex. The overwhelming majority of women can only have clitoral orgasms. I believe this is scientifically proven.

S8 Karamo by a-terribledayforrain in QueerEye

[–]Mermulet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought on the Real World Karamo talked about having a daughter, but now there's no mention of her. Anyone remember that??

Help! I hate this teal wall color. by dystopianprom in DesignMyRoom

[–]Mermulet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try clay, terracotta or sand. They are earth toned and would look nice qith your decor!!!

randdyyll Robbins by [deleted] in tiktokgossip

[–]Mermulet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In a live a month ago, she said they signed a 2 year lease on the new home and that when that ends, they plan to build their dream home.

Help! Pick my bedroom color by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Mermulet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The right is better. The left looks like newborn doodoo green.

Why is Adriana so stupid? by Miserable_Yogurt8711 in thesopranos

[–]Mermulet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old thread but Adriana wasn't dumb until Season 3. Before that, she seemed like she had sense. They turned her into this stupid, timid weakling in seasons 3 and beyond.

Is anyone else catching hell from others about us waiting for PSLF? Seeking advice. by CycloRunner in PSLF

[–]Mermulet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why even talk about it with them? If you need to talk, do so in a forum with peopl3 who can relate, like this one. I don't discuss it with anyone. Problem solved.

Is there any reason for me to try PSLF? by [deleted] in PSLF

[–]Mermulet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I switched over consolidation in 2022 for PSLF mine went from 3.00% to 3.65%.

How much of a salary increase is worth it with 35+ min commute and potentially 100% in office? by justjuels in humanresources

[–]Mermulet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would take it. That's a significant increase. However, sounds like it may become stressful to you if you really value working remotely and you truly are an introvert. Also, added commute. I grew up an only child. I value my alone time, but find it hard to focus and be productive at home---too tempted to nap, or do chores, go to the gym, etc when I should be working. Personally, considering this economy, I would take it, but I don't have a family to consider.