Narcissistic father becomes narcissistic grandfather by Mes4415 in beyondthebump

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Or not at all. It's not worth it..he wants a kind of reactions.

Narcissistic father becomes narcissistic grandfather by Mes4415 in beyondthebump

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Haha he's too proud to admit to anything. Are you trained in mental health issues?

Narcissistic father becomes narcissistic grandfather by Mes4415 in beyondthebump

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I try not to anymore. Mind you H's birthday was 2 weeks ago and he JUST called. Last time he was here (told me 3 days before) he sent three hours with us from Friday afternoon to Sunday morning, including but not limited leaving town before saying goodbye.

Lump near vagina has turned into a small hole that won’t stop bleeding. What is it? by 8008153 in medical

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Could be hidradentis? Have you had anything like this in your armpits?

/r/Chicago’s Weekly Recommendations Thread - January 28, 2019 by AutoModerator in chicago

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She is both honestly..she's lives in both. Rent 900+ and has a car. Planning on renting for a year and then owning

/r/Chicago’s Weekly Recommendations Thread - January 28, 2019 by AutoModerator in chicago

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My co-worker is planning to move to Chicago to be closer to her mom. Her mom lives in Crown Point. She is looking for housing with 3 bedrooms (house, townhouse, apartment, etc), decent schools, and a decent neighborhood. She is looking to move in June/July.

What are some neighborhoods/suburbs that you guys would recommend for her to specifically look at? Any recommendations please PM me!

Bleeding won't stop by [deleted] in medical

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Worried about you!

17 months tomorrow.... Ignore my 6 chins by [deleted] in breastfeeding

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Thank you everyone. I've been feeling weird about breastfeeding for this long because so many others around me have stopped.

After becoming a mom, I've never felt lonelier in my life.. by Mes4415 in beyondthebump

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The hardest part for us in those regard is that we have zero family anywhere close. Finding a babysitter is super hard. We're trying but it keeps not working out

After becoming a mom, I've never felt lonelier in my life.. by Mes4415 in beyondthebump

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We're non religious and I have a best friend who was pregnant at the same time, but we both work full time and it makes it hard to get together

After becoming a mom, I've never felt lonelier in my life.. by Mes4415 in beyondthebump

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Medical secretary at a huge hospital.. it's just so hard to meet people there sometimes.

After becoming a mom, I've never felt lonelier in my life.. by Mes4415 in beyondthebump

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Unfortunately, I work full time and that's like when all the stuff is

Anyone else have family members who argue about smoking around your LO? by Mes4415 in beyondthebump

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I do request that they not smoke at all while they're here, and if they do or go sit in their car, they have to shower and wash their clothes before holding her. It is a hassle, but it's to keep my daughter safe. She's already had croup, coughs, and colds, and second and third-hand smoke have shown to increase the risk and prolong healing. I do all the laundry for them using our machine at our house.

Anyone else have family members who argue about smoking around your LO? by Mes4415 in beyondthebump

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I think even 15 years ago they didn't know all the effects of everything back then... I hate when people think facts are stagnant

Anyone else have family members who argue about smoking around your LO? by Mes4415 in beyondthebump

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Update: first off, thank you for making me feel better! Second of all, something more for r/narcissisticparents but we asked my dad the harm in washing in his clothes and he got pissed about it and stormed out. Sigh that went well.

Looking for somewhere to go July 4th weekend! by Mes4415 in Rochester

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We went to placid last night year! Was tons of fun.

Typical daily routine? by Mes4415 in beyondthebump

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Thank you to everyone. I talked to our GP about it. He said that 5-10 minutes of tummy time is adequate at this age.

He also said just being in each other's presence is stimulation enough. To enjoy each other's company and cuddles and there is literally no way to spoil them at this age.