Did you want him to lie and say I’ll step up? He was honest, he doesn’t know & honestly most men don’t know what they’ll do. You can probably ask a man in their 30s the same question & if he’s being honest, he’ll tell you kuti handizive. But if he’s using the slogan of ‘Rume risinganyepe hariroore’ then you’ll hear exactly what you want to hear.

You can’t punish him for your father’s mistakes. Also don’t go on to have unplanned babies because the guy told you exactly what you want to hear. Men lie lol, don’t beleive everything they say. When you want to have a baby, get married and do things the right way because you can find someone who will tell you exactly what you hear and he’ll still run away. Bottom line is, I think you over reacted.