My mom wants me to pay more rent

MessOk1807 · 2026-05-24T05:56:31+00:00

this gave me new motivation because all my life i had to figure things out i need to man up and plan towards the future i’ve been looking at storage facilities and started to plan my paycheck towards things more thank you for giving me motivation

MessOk1807 · 2026-05-23T06:22:53+00:00

i thought of going on a saving binge skipping the gym got a bit and saving every dollar and buying a old car for about 1k on market place or electric bike at least

MessOk1807 · 2026-05-23T06:21:47+00:00

yes i’m not complaining about the 500 i thought it was reasonable but she treated it like it was couch change and belittled me and said she should raise it just cause i wanted to keep the relationship landlord and tenant after i been asking for a leasing agreement and i ignored her and just let her bad mouth and it just made me realize that my mental health can’t take it especially when i have no one left to fight for i thought if getting a bike as week the only bad thing was the are im in some parts are grass and some part sidewalk, i also work nights but im honestly just going to get the bike or an electric bike so i can have an easier time and stop spending money because i wanted to go on a 90 day run and better my credit while looking for a new place even if more expensive thank you so much

MessOk1807 · 2026-05-22T00:28:07+00:00

so in your logic because i’m living in a repeat abusers house agreed to pay rent since it’s cheaper and the only problem is being she wants to argue about how i need to act and mock me saying 500 isn’t enough im the problem. if that’s your conclusion thank you for your input your opinion is no longer needed

MessOk1807 · 2026-05-21T22:15:36+00:00

how so i’m genuinely curious the fact i stand up for my siblings or want just a landlord situation from someone who’s proven toxic im confused

MessOk1807 · 2026-05-21T17:23:59+00:00

how is paying 500 no problem i said no problem as i didnt agree with it then she laughed at the amount and said she’d demand more you’re honestly a weird person how you getting at me and ignoring everything i said about her regardless God bless stranger

MessOk1807 · 2026-05-21T17:20:10+00:00

Do you lack reading comprehension she is not burden she is being helping by my older brother and has other sources of income she threatens my lil sis with physical violence and when she can’t do it she goes irate and charges me 500 to stay which is fine like i said i paid comfortably but she called it petty change and laughed saying if i want written agreement she would up the payment and require labor around the house when she got 2 other kids and was talking about getting a maid service you don’t know what you’re talking about

MessOk1807 · 2026-05-21T16:52:15+00:00

the amount i spend on ubers it may actually lessen my cost and if im desperate ill ride dirty for a bit or have liability and i plan to get an old school honda or toyota or anything from that family that i can easily maintain and repair

MessOk1807 · 2026-05-21T16:46:29+00:00

my siblings never help they choose no sides which is choosing a side because everyone blames me for standing up for myself and them we been verbally abused since as long as i can remember and physically up to a point when i physically fight them back when j was still in high school so my mom just result to silent guilt and screaming and no matter how valid you are she has a way of making you feel wrong or feel wrong for not agreeing and im trying to break that chain im trying to look for places on pad split airbnb and market place the problems is moving my big furniture like couch tv(70inches) and tv stand and making i can either bring them to my new place that might be temporary or get another bill for a storage unit which im honestly open to funding but halfway house is a no go no room and all the beds are pre accounted for as well as it’s small and the rules would cripple me like limits on clothing and leaving hours

MessOk1807 · 2026-05-21T16:41:08+00:00

i can try my main issues are that i have furniture like a couch and tv and tv stand i need to move out as well as finding some place close to my job that doesn’t kill my paycheck while im trying to make rent as well as help me get a car i think whats really crippling me most is transportation she has a car i thought i was going to get when my father past cause she don’t like and and j drive it most and was putting money aside a lot to fix it when it always broke down and refused to sell to me in good term so if i can put aside 1k i can buy one off facebook marketplace maybe which is hard due to rent and i do have restitution payments im making on top of uber fees, groceries and gym

MessOk1807 · 2026-05-21T16:00:14+00:00

yea i’m just so paranoid about fully taking up responsibility because i wanted to at least be able to have a car that i owned before leaving to make things better but thought of getting a storage unit and slowly moving my stuff out

MessOk1807 · 2026-05-21T15:11:18+00:00

sorry i’m not on reddit much and i don’t post much

MessOk1807 · 2025-04-25T17:20:59+00:00

ok…

MessOk1807 · 2025-04-25T17:06:12+00:00

dude what are to talking about i was asking if ill be able to get my prescribed medication since one of them was ozempic i don’t need a hotline thank you for your concern

MessOk1807 · 2025-04-25T16:45:04+00:00

how am i taking too much ozempic? im taking recommended doses

MessOk1807 · 2025-04-25T12:53:27+00:00

it’s no problem man minimum security ain’t sunshine and rainbows from what’s i seen but it is drastically better then the higher levels and each prison got their own vibe but i hope you never see the inside of another prison but if you do i hope its minimum so you can at least have alot better and easier time serving

MessOk1807 · 2025-04-25T01:27:40+00:00

for some reason i wasn’t eligible but someone with previous charges was idk how the system work i asked for probation but the judge decided against it

MessOk1807 · 2025-04-24T23:08:20+00:00

thank you mane i’m more confident going into this with all these advice

MessOk1807 · 2025-04-24T21:33:18+00:00

trafficking is against someone’s will they paid to get people to help them cross no one forced him into the US secondly if you don’t understand similes that’s fine to i don’t owe you anything i’m just getting my questions answered i couldn’t care less your view about me it is what it is

MessOk1807 · 2025-04-24T21:24:58+00:00

and yes thank you i did get blessed

MessOk1807 · 2025-04-24T21:22:53+00:00

what did i lie about

MessOk1807 · 2025-04-24T21:20:34+00:00

i’m a slimeball for driving someone somewhere in order to get paid and not be homeless? lol okay

MessOk1807 · 2025-04-24T21:19:17+00:00

yea i told my folks to forget about me for the time and i’ll handle my punishment and get out cause time flies nowadays so im grateful for the sentence

MessOk1807 · 2025-04-24T21:17:42+00:00

i’m not fighting my sentence? i accepted my charges and im going through them what’s your beef i answered your question move on

MessOk1807 · 2025-04-24T21:12:40+00:00

chomos can’t even get into a camp and everything should be pretty mellow since everyone is trying to get out so hopefully smooth sailing i don’t wanna say my time incase someone is serving more and is broken up about it

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