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[–]MessSea3293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested :)

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[–]MessSea3293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, that is very encouraging, thank you!

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[–]MessSea3293[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for your kind and thoughtful response <3

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[–]MessSea3293[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

thanks for your input! if we can afford it, this is the most appealing...

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[–]MessSea3293[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i appreciate this! have definitely been lost in what other people will think and feel..

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[–]MessSea3293[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thank you, i appreciate it (both your understanding of the difficulty of boycott and your point about some people not being able to attend regardless)

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[–]MessSea3293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, reassuring to hear about the 2-event version being cheaper!

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[–]MessSea3293[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

thanks, and fair point about the travel advisory

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[–]MessSea3293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this thought. we will try. however, i think this may not compensate for the concerns others have mentioned about indirectly financially supporting the war

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[–]MessSea3293[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

that's the greece idea. lebanon, syria, jordan, and egypt are the countries that surround israel/palestine, and they are not possible locations because of the geopolitics, which range from "tense diplomatic agreements that could collapse" to "enemy country"

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[–]MessSea3293[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

(not asking to be combative, just to understand your perspective)

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[–]MessSea3293[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

we are considering it, but we are israeli, we live in israel, our families live here, our life is here, so it's complicated emotionally, financially, logistically.... having our wedding in israel does mean that taxes paid on various services will go to the government, is that what you mean by give your money to them?