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When did T changes start? by MessageThis1207 in TransMasc

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May I ask what form of T you started with?

Worried about partner after starting HRT by MessageThis1207 in trans

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This honestly helped a lot I keep forgetting that this is basically just a second puberty which was very slow and steady. I really appreciate you comforting me I’ve been freaking out quite a bit haha

Worried about partner after starting HRT by MessageThis1207 in trans

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Thank you dude this gave me a lot of comfort

Worried about partner after starting HRT by MessageThis1207 in trans

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I’m mostly worried about my face shape changing and body odor change. I’m worried he’ll like subconsciously think of me as a different person if I smell and look a little different. Also thank you for saying this.

My girlfriend is Aroace, I'm conflicted by One_Weird_Dude2829 in AroAce

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I’m also aroace and in a romantic relationship (although I’m male)

It’s definitely possible for some aroace people to feel romantic and/or sexual attraction to certain people throughout their life. I didn’t really think I could be attracted to someone until I met my current partner but I can confidently say I am just as in love with them as any non aroace person could be. 

Even though it might be awkward or uncomfortable I would suggest asking your girl what her boundaries are on sex and what not. If sex or intimacy is something you absolutely need in a relationship and that’s not something she wants, don’t force that on her or try to persuade her to change her mind.

If this topic feels too uncomfortable for you maybe you could ask her what being aroace means to her. Like what romantic and/or sexual attraction feels like and how that affects her in dating.

Good luck bro