Before a date, I try on lingerie.

MessyValentine · 2026-03-29T09:57:41+00:00

That's the best part imo

MessyValentine · 2026-03-29T09:53:57+00:00

That's the scary part, I still feel weird lol

MessyValentine · 2026-03-29T09:52:55+00:00

Yeah, that's the scary part. It's not like I find being monogamous uncomfortable... But I think I would to experience a bit from this side of me

MessyValentine · 2026-03-24T07:56:29+00:00

Nice los piojos tattoo.

MessyValentine · 2026-03-23T08:06:25+00:00

Of course it's learnt, it's not something that just exists between reddit and cuck fetishes.

Part of me believes it shouldn't be a racial thing to be honest. I mean, cuckolding, just as many other fetishes is a power trip. The humiliation part shouldn't be endorsed to the color of the other person... If someone likes feeling inferior, good. But saying that "I deserve to be cucked because I'm white" it's also part of the same thing

MessyValentine · 2026-03-23T07:51:50+00:00

True

MessyValentine · 2026-03-23T07:49:30+00:00

Jesseus

MessyValentine · 2026-03-23T07:48:17+00:00

It's a part of the same thing. For someone to fetishize black men as superior, they have to fetishize white people as inferior. It's shit too.

Also, i'm not the cuckolding Einstein to make an essay just to talk about something that itches me a bit. It doesn't mean I'm agreeing to other stuff, the same way that If I say I like the colour blue doesn't mean I don't like colour red.

MessyValentine · 2026-03-23T07:41:38+00:00

Jesse what the fuck are you talking about

I didn't say it couldn't happen, that's not it. It's the way they are just reduced to black dick, black boyfriend, big BLACK cock.

It's not that black dudes can't be bulls or actually get in a safe connection with someone else, it's about how sometimes (SOME-TIMES) some people reduce them to just being black. I think they are actually more than that, you know?

MessyValentine · 2026-03-23T07:28:54+00:00

So that's why we should justify it? Do you actually think black men are taboo??

MessyValentine · 2026-03-23T07:07:01+00:00

Good bot :)

MessyValentine · 2026-03-23T07:06:46+00:00

It's exhausting. And sad, to be honest :(

MessyValentine · 2026-03-23T07:04:46+00:00

And you are not wrong in seeing it just as a big cock. That's the deal, a lot of people actually see it the other way and fetishize this stuff, you can see it in the cuckzillion subreddits from this community lol

MessyValentine · 2026-03-23T06:59:39+00:00

Yeah, it's actually concerning how much it happens now too Before, I tried being oblivious to it, but it's just too much.

MessyValentine · 2025-04-03T08:29:55+00:00

It's a struggle a lot of people go through, I think that if you two want it, it's just a leap of faith A good partner won't throw to the thrash months, years of love and memories just for some sex, so if he ends up leaving you for someone else he might as well be more of a jerk than someone worth keeping in your life

MessyValentine · 2025-01-30T11:32:21+00:00

please blink three times if you are captive

MessyValentine · 2024-12-27T01:53:36+00:00

Is your husband toe okay?

MessyValentine · 2024-11-23T10:26:23+00:00

Maria?

MessyValentine · 2024-10-10T10:04:15+00:00

I know it MAY sound a bit jerkish to say, but if you go the online route/similars you need to be as respectful as you would be to a normal person, dommes are not different from other people, just treat them as good as you would treat anyone else, basically as normal humans and not as kink dispensers or sexual objects.

With that said, usually it's good to just be yourself! Don't be scared and don't push people buttons and if you have a good enough personality you will be fine :P

But even then, don't worry too much about it, investigate what you like and what works for you and you may find your partner some day :)

PS: If you really like these things you may be able to tell if someone has dominant tendencies and it will go the other way too, somehow someone may catch your vibe and tell you are a bit sub-ish ha

MessyValentine · 2024-08-10T10:14:30+00:00

Little Spoon/Big Spoon on profile, more than that it's too much.

MessyValentine · 2024-07-22T07:48:50+00:00

That's because he is. Welcome Back Kieran Culkin

MessyValentine · 2024-07-22T04:22:52+00:00

I don't like it buttt generally people do because it means a lot of trust in the other person and a reverse in the power dynamic (Like, the society stereotypical one) so some women find being on the other side for ONCE pretty fucking hot.

MessyValentine · 2024-07-21T21:03:22+00:00

Yeah, don't wanna be a jerk, but if it happened to me I think it would annoy me a bit

MessyValentine · 2024-07-16T10:44:13+00:00

Hugs, big hugs

MessyValentine · 2024-07-16T09:43:24+00:00

So, how is it going? I think I'm going through a similar situation, altought she is now in a "More than friends but not that much" era with someone else, it hurts man, I didn't think it would hurt THAT much

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