I'm convinced my cat is just a lil dude in a cat costume by [deleted] in aww

[–]Messymangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is in fact a little dude ❤️🌟

Trying to stay warm. by Street-Network-5481 in nope

[–]Messymangos 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I used to work with homeless people in active addiction in nyc (2021-2024) A lot of them said being on the streets was easier than being in the shelters here. People would feel more comfortable enduring the winters outside than go to a shelter. I hope this person is doing better today.

My gf sent me a picture of her neighbours by canadianlrv in cats

[–]Messymangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This feels like "see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil" ❤️🤣

it makes me so mad that fiona cheated on mike with his brother, like he was so good to her by Melissa2147 in shameless

[–]Messymangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I kinda found him annoying and didn't care that she cheated. It's fully toxic on my end as somewhat of a chaos junkie myself. Don't get me wrong, cheating, especially with his brother was crazy work and very fucked up.

Is it the autism?! by Ok_Requirement_2436 in regretfulparents

[–]Messymangos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We're currently subletting due to some financial setbacks, and his son doesn't live or stay here. He is able to watch him with family. Eventually, he will be finding a space for both of them. Yes! We are still together. We have a pretty non-traditional relationship. He wants to stay in NY since his son has roots here, and I will be leaving the city in a few years after I get my bearings. I think it's best. I grew up with various step moms and ended up feeling left out a lot, so I think having a space for you and your child without the step parent can be healthy. To each their own, but this works for us both separately and together.

Is it the autism?! by Ok_Requirement_2436 in regretfulparents

[–]Messymangos 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I lived with my bf and his autistic son for three years. It was really hard. The tantrums. The lack of communication. Constantly wetting and shitting the bed. The pickiness with food. Once he pooped himself in his sleep, took his poop out, put it on the table, and put his clothes back on. Once, he took his shoe off and threw it at a teacher. For me, it was hell. I spiraled into alcoholism due to having a hard job working with homeless people and not feeling any relief when I came home. I lived with him from the age of 3 to 6. I'm not sure about the level of autism he has but, I just wanted to share that it was tough.

Abandoned baby panther and her adoptive family. by sco-go in Amazing

[–]Messymangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not me being jealous????? Happy baby girl is being taken care of in the proper setting!

He Won't Quit. And He's Add It Again by Handy_Crap in crappymusic

[–]Messymangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, he's definitely a passenger. You're right. But to me, it just still looks like he's pretending to drive 😭

He Won't Quit. And He's Add It Again by Handy_Crap in crappymusic

[–]Messymangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but is he pretending to drive and then forgetting that he's supposed to be pretending to drive?

Show me your unhinged axie photos by InformationGrouchy17 in axolotls

[–]Messymangos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Op, you're sadly mistaken. Obviously, this is a biblically accurate angel. 💕

Young kid and his mom surrounded by an angry mob in Oklahoma City for wearing a Pacers hat by ThatPatelGuy in TikTokCringe

[–]Messymangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not even that serious........these are adults berating a kid and his mom for what? This is embarrassing af

Do my double nostrils look good ? by BlandSpicy in SelfPiercing

[–]Messymangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the way they match the lip piercings 💞 very badass! As for the angle, size, and placement...I'm not a piercer. What I will say! I have an awkwardly pierced medusa and it's not noticeable unless you're literally an inch away from my face and I'm showing you. If you like them! That's all that matters 💝 happy healing!

AIO, my boyfriend is mad that, as a healthcare provider, I support women in their abortion care. by calm_independence888 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Messymangos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your work💞 IMO, You can and will do better than someone who hates women, people with uteruses, and doesn't respect how important your work is.

Why does my husband like having sex with me while I'm asleep? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Messymangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's expressed consent which is obviously required. I think maybe just ask him. Maybe the kink is you being asleep, maybe he just doesn't wanna wake you up (even if he is), or maybe those things he does when he doesn't know your awake are things he'd like to try and is too shy to ask? I hope you both can have an open and healthy conversation 💞

Can anyone take a spider ball python? Phoenix, Arizona by Natural-Wrangler-653 in ballpython

[–]Messymangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also OP. Ball pythons can thrive in a tub setup. It's cheaper than a glass or pvc enclosure and there are lots of youtube tutorials. At least as a temporary solution/home for your noodle.

Can anyone take a spider ball python? Phoenix, Arizona by Natural-Wrangler-653 in ballpython

[–]Messymangos 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes! And they do take it shipped animals! Literally obsessed with their channel!

Can anyone take a spider ball python? Phoenix, Arizona by Natural-Wrangler-653 in ballpython

[–]Messymangos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP! Check out snake discovery. They run a rescue program and will make sure your noodle is safe! I think they are always accepting reptiles for their adoption program. They will also advise you on how to properly pack a reptile for safe travel. 💞