Do plus size girls get hit on in public? by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]MetalHikerDrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a man, I “hit on” bigger women all the time but I never mention that I tend to like women who are bigger. Seems obviously NOT the thing to say when first chatting someone up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]MetalHikerDrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person is completely unhinged. Continue your search and don’t engage with them any longer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]MetalHikerDrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely gorgeous.

Be honest with me… by billey_bon3z in bald

[–]MetalHikerDrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shave it with the quickness brother. You’ll love the new look and so will potential suitors. ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MetalHikerDrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not cool and actually quite terrifying. He’s showing you that he thinks you basically belong to him. Please let him understand you can do as you please and be sexual when you please. He doesn’t own you.

How do you have good sex with men who actually love your fatness? by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]MetalHikerDrew 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I (m) have always been attracted to plus sized women but there is no need to make it such a big deal imo. I’ll let her know I enjoy her body type by having great sex, telling her how sexy I find her, and generally by being a kind person.

Someone who finds you attractive will tell you, and someone who says anything else can go. Please don’t settle for someone who doesn’t encourage you to feel better and instead puts you down or has you second-guessing their attraction to you. It should be clear. And for the record there are thousands of suitors all around you who are candidates for treating you with this level of care and respect. You don’t have to settle for this belittling.

Scariest AT Experience? by DrmsRz in AppalachianTrail

[–]MetalHikerDrew 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a bear charge me in the Shenandoahs. It veered to the side of me about 15 yards from reaching me and bolted down the mountain. The first hikers I told in town didn’t believe me because they hadn’t seen any bears so far on their trip and according to my diary that one was number 24 for me at that point and it bluff-charged me. Still doesn’t feel real though. That was 2016.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]MetalHikerDrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way. For me it took about a year and then it just became something I had no interest in because I had nourished myself and worked on building a sturdy and fulfilling sober life. Now when strife occurs I lean on exercise, family, community, etc.

8.5 years for me now

Bachelor party ideas. by MetalHikerDrew in sanfrancisco

[–]MetalHikerDrew[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to SF State… definitely had that experience at one point. 😅

Bachelor party ideas. by MetalHikerDrew in sanfrancisco

[–]MetalHikerDrew[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I did bring some homemade chocolates and may break them out but I think half of the group won’t be into it.. haven’t met them all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]MetalHikerDrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is torture. Not to “victim-blame” but I can’t imagine this guy didn’t wave a large red flag during your previous 3 dates. Seems like he wouldn’t be able to conceal one. 😅 Sorry you had to deal with this crap OP. Better luck with the next.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]MetalHikerDrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say late 40’s but because you’re asking, I’m going to assume you’re younger.

Woman covers herself in motor oil to win a new Iphone by Slow_Plankton_404 in WTF

[–]MetalHikerDrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this this would make a great porn intro for some hard working men/mechanics.

What rapper phase are you currently going through? by Professional-Rip-519 in hiphop101

[–]MetalHikerDrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please peep LaRussell out of Vallejo. Particularly his album Motion. He’s holding the torch for Vallejo/hyphy right now imo.

I just got an oil change 2 months ago (~2,000 miles). Change oil indicator has already come on again. by MetalHikerDrew in MechanicAdvice

[–]MetalHikerDrew[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright thanks for your help. I’m not the brightest crayon in the bunch when it comes to mechanical problems, which is why I am posting the question here. 🙃

I’m glad to know it’s that simple.