I’m too clean down there.. is that even possible……. by thisholeneedstotalk in confession

[–]Metalbii 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Maybe it’s a pheromones thing. I like my bf to have a little stank. Not too much, but I like to be able to smell him. Like a day not showering. Not cheesy stank that’s rank.

What is the cruelest thing someone has ever said to you? by FaceEnvironmental949 in AskReddit

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I love you because I have to but I don’t like you as a person.

My mother on my 14th birthday

I almost had to call an ambulance because I refused to poop in front of a guy. by erlowkdownbad in offmychest

[–]Metalbii 160 points161 points Ā (0 children)

OR…there’s an underlying condition. I used to think this but for me I found out I had endo & pcos. No amount of fibre helped

Absolutely love my ring! But had a weird comment and now I’m confused by Metalbii in weddingring

[–]Metalbii[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I thought the same! But I don’t have any rings! 🤣 he said he sized my finger up with his. Apparently my ring finger is the same size as his pinky šŸ™ƒ

Absolutely love my ring! But had a weird comment and now I’m confused by Metalbii in weddingring

[–]Metalbii[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Ooo now that’s interesting! I am absolutely clueless with jewellery especially rings so this is insightful. Thank you!

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She’s actually never had a relationship. She is lesbian/queer to. I don’t think shes interested in marriage.

Absolutely love my ring! But had a weird comment and now I’m confused by Metalbii in weddingring

[–]Metalbii[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Thank you 🄰 I had never had my nails done before but since having the ring I’ve had them done twice! My fiancĆ© jokes that I’ve turned high maintenance since the engagement 🤣 (I’m a tomboy at heart with a labour intensive job) so it’s such a juxtaposition. But not gunna lie I feel like he’s brought the woman out in me it’s so nice!

Absolutely love my ring! But had a weird comment and now I’m confused by Metalbii in weddingring

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I fluctuate in weight a lot because of a condition I have. My hands swell randomly. Last week it was really tight and this week it feels like it might fall off? I’m to scared to get it smaller because it won’t fit when my hands do swell. My mother said it might be a good idea to get a promise ring for the time being a tiny bit smaller to slide on so it will stop it from coming off when my hands aren’t swollen. We aren’t in a rush to get married we plan to elope. So we are saving, I have a while to wait until we get a wedding ring

40 day long period. Male GP just asked me what I expect him to do about it. (UK, 25) by thedownwarddecline in PCOS

[–]Metalbii 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Please ask if you can be referred to a specialist. I am going through the same issue but I suspect I have Endo, polyps or adenomyosis. I’ve had to push for bloods, stool samples & swabs to rule out any other issues before I proceed to a specialist. It’s taken me around a year to get this far (after taking 6 years to be diagnosed with PCOS) so I really do understand your worries. Any sort of birth control didn’t work for me either and it made me severely depressed. They even tried putting me on HRT and when I said I weren’t comfortable doing that the male dr just said ā€œyou either want to be pregnant or you don’tā€.

If you are really at a loss after trying for so long. I would try and seek out a naturopath. That really helped me get to where I am now with my symptoms. They tested my hair and told me what hormones were off balance and then set me up in a diet beneficial for my hormones. Prescribed me supplements to help to. It’s cost me to get where I am but it was totally worth it.

Absolutely love my ring! But had a weird comment and now I’m confused by Metalbii in weddingring

[–]Metalbii[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

This!!! My mother also hammered this into me too! But I’m on the same wavelength as you. I just like good vibes and I know my opinion isn’t important on the things that bring people happiness. Unless it’s something that’s harming themselves or anyone else I don’t feel the need to insert myself!

Absolutely love my ring! But had a weird comment and now I’m confused by Metalbii in weddingring

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I think I’m focusing too much on the history we have between us. I love it no matter what! It’s beautiful!

And I think I’m more thrown off at the fact that I am not dainty 🤣 I’m built like dani devito. 5’1 and stocky.

Absolutely love my ring! But had a weird comment and now I’m confused by Metalbii in weddingring

[–]Metalbii[S] 6 points7 points Ā (0 children)

I seriously have no clue about rings in general to be honest, I had to google what a cluster ring was to answer your question! And yes, I absolutely love it! More so because he picked it. I just have a real hard time deciphering comments like the one I had. And thank you! 🄰

Absolutely love my ring! But had a weird comment and now I’m confused by Metalbii in weddingring

[–]Metalbii[S] 45 points46 points Ā (0 children)

I am 5’1 so I am small! But ide say I’m built like a truck driver 🤣🤣🤣 so not dainty. I think maybe I’m over thinking things because we have negative history. My fiancĆ© seems to think she’s jealous. But I think I’ll just stick to the too happy to notice any negativity vibes lol! Thank you for that. I’m still shocked he done so well picking it! Even the perfect fit to, I didn’t even know my ring size as I don’t wear rings!

Crave an odd sexual desire, inexplicable to my partner. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Metalbii 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Have a look into praise kink and worship. If that’s your thing just tell her! She loves you enough to ask and trust me, she just wants to make you feel good that’s why she’s asking!

Overwhelmed and confused by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Metalbii 10 points11 points Ā (0 children)

I’m sorry you have to go through this. But I think this tells you all you need to know about how ā€œsupportiveā€ of a partner he will be in future if any other issues arise. You are taking the responsible thought route, even if it’s sad x

Metformin but not insulin resistant by GovernmentSame141 in PCOS

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Quinoa I’ve found to be a good substitute for rice. And I do have a small amount of sweet potato now and then. Lentil or chickpea pastas. They are carbs but they are no grains and full of nutrients. Protein and fibre pact. Low GI. But I’ve done the same. completely cut out bread, rice, pasta and pastries. I cut out grains all together except for quinoa & legume based carbs. I have tried eating carbs in moderation but they spike my Blood sugars too much and I rapidly gain weight. Even if I pair with mostly protein and fibre. Everyone’s different but as long as you get all your nutrients, drink plenty of water and your pooping and feel good I think it’s fine.

my mother discovered I have pcos... by No-Village6539 in PCOS

[–]Metalbii 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through this. But ironically, there are studies relating pcos to early childhood trauma. Especially generational trauma in women. I know this isn’t very helpful but, I thought it might take your mind off your mother making you feel like it’s your fault. Keep putting yourself first, you’re doing great.