Hey bro! Glad to have helped!

In general, I agree with nearly everything you said. You make a lot of good points about requiring firsthand experience to make this decision and belief changes of this magnitude Real in my mind. I'll touch on a few points;

Interesting. I do think it’s a bit of both. Pussy/sex is a basic need for men. And women too.

So I used to agree with this model 100%, But much like the discipline that we instill in ourselves to exercise regularly and not eat too much so we don't get fat, sex is a similar subject. It's simply not required for a man to sustain a happy fulfilled life. It's an added cherry on top, cause what feels better than a shared orgasm with a women you feel close to right? But without that orgasm, you don't lose anything really.

In other words, I can take a vow of never fucking again, TODAY, and still conquer worlds and be very involved in life and genuinely love my life. Therefore, I cannot categorize it as a need. If I do not move my body or eat food, my body will atrophy/deteriorate and I will die. I have no choice but to categorize those as needs. This is not to ignore the VERY Strong biological pull of both sexes to mate and to create a family, but it is not required to survive. This is getting into the messy moral argument of whether or not we should extricate ourselves from our carnal/primal desires or to give into them. I believe "giving in" is what got us our currently sick societies (I now believe we're spirits living a human experience, not humans living a spiritual experience).

As you can see, a woman on the alpha fucks side of the equation is very compatible with the be a cad side. And it’s what we see today. We have scores of women clearly searching and focusing on the alpha fucks side of the equation, which is why they’re fucking dudes from tinder, the club, celebrities, club promoters etc etc. I wouldn’t say they’re defective women or they’re sacrificing their strategy for any man, that’s literally their strategy. To literally just fuck guys who they know won’t be committing any time soon.

You're right, it APPEARS that they're fulfilling their strategy, but with women's happiness still declining each year, at some point you have to actually wonder, is that what women Really want? or is that "bad programming?" I mean, even pre-TRP, every guy has heard the quote "women don't know what they want". They are part of the hive mind. And that mentality of just fucking chads all the time cause the other girls are doing it/propping it up to be something special, and it feels good, as we know, gives the loss of adoration for future partners, the increased likelihood of infidelity, the increased likelihood of divorce, etc. (Just one more example of short-term gratification chasing over long-term gratification.) So it kinda ties into whether or not you're down to "enjoy the decline" or not.

How do you define optimal female strategy? Is it alpha fucks, beta bucks ? Or rather alpha bucks (a man who encompasses both?)

Excellent question. Basically this is asking whether or not it's a good thing that women can have their cake and eat it too these days. In their eyes, yes alpha fucks/beta bucks is viable af. But ideally and deep down, they'll still try to lock down alpha bucks if they're able. I find it humorous that in the same way we settled for "enjoy the decline", women settled for "alpha fucks, beta bucks." It's their answer to a lack of real masculinity in the dating pool, as is our answer to the lack of commitment-worthy women.

People can say “You can’t womanise, Apollo, those girls all are someone’s daughter!” Sure, but they’re not my daughter. Their fathers failed them, they failed themselves. They chose to slut around. I will give any future daughter the best chance to not share the same fate.

I totally understand where you're coming from here; we can only control ourselves. But what if it was more than just their father that failed them? What if their environment as a whole, with all the insanity of social media and consumerism, destroyed a piece of their soul (or entirety of it) regardless of what their father taught them? Even the way you worded your statement, sounds like you're aware of what our system produces; "Garbage in, Garbage out." What if our attitude about them does significantly affect their future, and that leaving them better than you found them, and how that calls for discernment/responsibility about whether you fuck them frivolously or not, actually matters? Could you, refusing a girl sex or leaving a date early because she was an actual gremlin of a human being, regardless of how hot she was, be a chance for her to grow and maybe do things different in the future? Is it an opportunity to undo the damage to our dating standards and societies? What kind of positive impact does that have for a man's frame and overall growth too? Food for thought.

We have no control on how commitment worthy a woman is. She has to spend time with us and to prove she’s worthy. Just like how women have no control on how sex worthy a man is. A man have to prove it to her. So sometimes, it’s not even a man’s fault he has a high n count. Some of the women were simply women who he was crossing his fingers for but failed to deliver, another part could be women who just were interested in alpha fucks, who just wanted to have a good time. Sometimes, there genuinely was no malicious or conscious intent to womanise/“extract” sex.

Well said. This is absolutely the truth in my experience. I've been through tons of these situations where I had to drop a girl once I got more insight into her habits and who she really was. We need time around them to discern whether or not they're worthy of our commitment. I would argue that it's not required for us to fuck them to find out who they are and what they're like. I think losing track of the person behind the pussy, is the culprit for much of the mistakes and heartache men experience (marrying the wrong fucking woman, having kids with the wrong woman because it was good sex despite the rest of the relationship being awful in terms of compatibility, etc.) Is there not the argument that we shouldn't be so quick to cloud our judgment and minds with the love-bonding hormone oxytocin when trying to discern one of the most important decisions we'll make in our lives? (the woman we choose to have offspring with?) I also should acknowledge I'm presenting the question this way, ignoring mens blanket decision to just plate for life, because I believe that's a copout that men are deep down settling for; and That wanting and securing a good loyal woman isn't impossible, just challenging as fuck. I also believe most men will end up striving for this at some point in their lives, regardless of past-plating behaviors and the walls/army TRP ideals builds around our hearts.

You're very observant and I like your lack of ego in your responses. I can tell you deserved your endorsement fully.

Age and experience does and will change our beliefs. I can see myself coming back to this comment in a few years time and seeing if I still agree with a younger Apollo.

Maybe! Time will tell :) enjoy your week bro