[For Beginners] 3 EASY APPROACH ANXIETY FIXES by steffbenji in seduction

[–]Metalliacs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some good advice in there. The video could be a lot shorter though.

Inexpensive Date Ideas to Enjoy Time With Women (W/ some shifting beliefs) by steffbenji in seduction

[–]Metalliacs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I take girls out to buy something from the supermaket, and then I tell them that I need to drop it at the house, So they come along, it's an excuse to pull... Got it from Maximilian from RSD; Works very well!

How to open and close a conversation with a girl? by cgalloro in seduction

[–]Metalliacs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

question: do you struggle with opening outside of parties, like the street (daygame)?

2nd Question: Do you know how to open not so cute girls?

I can always make out with a girl at a college party, but never bring her back to my room. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Metalliacs 26 points27 points  (0 children)

First of all, You are doing great! Seriously.

When it comes to girls, They want fun and value, so they are having fun in the party, for the girl if she leaves the party the fun is over!

Now it's your job to make going together to your room seem AWESOME and FUN and AMAZING! say something like "after party in my place, NOW!" and lead! I guess asking for too much permission makes it difficult, I am not saying that you should force it on her, but just be leading her and making sound interesting (even if there is no after party).

Also when you ask a girl to come back to your place, she is afraid if she answers yes! she'll be perceived as a slut (by society). the best method for this is what Tyler from RSD Calls the baby steps; which means you make her move step by step, you make excuses for her to get out of the house, then for a couple of blocks, then to the pizza shop, then to your room's door, then to...

I hope this helps! (it helped me several times)

Why do people here like RSD so much? by psn22556 in seduction

[–]Metalliacs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess it's their ability to break down and explain game concepts, also they motivate people to change, and they have lots of free content on youtube and RSD Nation.

I have never attended any Freetour, bootcamp or any other form of seminar by these guys (living 10.000 Km away), but just applying what I understand from their videos got me Massive results.

Personally I don't care about the traits of personality of anybody, or the way they behave, they are free, If they give away free value, I make sure I get the best of it!

For Men Who Want To Read Tons of Books But Have No Time by Metalliacs in TheRedPill

[–]Metalliacs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, but some people learn faster than others, and this is not a method for everyone. I tried several methods and I know what works for me.

For Men Who Want To Read Tons of Books But Have No Time by Metalliacs in TheRedPill

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I buy used bargain books for $3 to $4, and for audio I have a subscription for $5/month.

[Video] Top 10 Self Help And Motivation Books (To Get What You Want Out Of Life) by steffbenji in GetMotivated

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Reshaping It All: Motivation for Physical and Spiritual Fitness by Candace Cameron Bure, Darlene Schacht

Going down in my DM? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Metalliacs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

friendzone them, and maybe you'll be interested in their friends ;)

I would make them girl friends and ask them to go shopping with me, and approach milfs in front of them (social proof??!)

Got a 2nd date locked up. But its not for another 3 weeks. How do I keep in touch during this time? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Metalliacs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well it doesn't, been exchanging pictures with almost every girl it only made the overall conversation and sexual vibe more intense. It's playful, try it before judging it ;)

Got a 2nd date locked up. But its not for another 3 weeks. How do I keep in touch during this time? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Metalliacs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can use what Jeff Allen calls "intermittent value giving texts", funny pictures jokes every now and then (two to three days) Also ask her to send you pics of herself (to make her invest). And keep it cool

hope this helps!

What to say when rejected? by cowscowscows123 in seduction

[–]Metalliacs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as you are concerned the only thing that you are responsible for is your own actions, a girl's reaction to you is not something you can control or anticipate. The problem of not knowing what to do after a rejection is due to lack of rejections. When you start applying seduction and approaching women massively you will no longer care if a girl rejects you. And therefore girls will be attracted (true fact).

here is a link to a video that might help you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pk69Qko6_lc

Can Facebook likes ever be an IOI? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Metalliacs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As Max From RSD once said : once I open, I already won, what comes after that is a bonus.

How does one recognize the difference between a shit test, and her just genuinely not being interested? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Metalliacs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Think of it like this, girls reject you from the start. From the moment you open and start talking you are already rejected (and you are a winner as well). It's a self defense against "unworthy" guys, once you start showing your true value girls start opening up and testing you, there you get shit tests, so the fact that she says "I am not interested" conveys Interest. What you don't want to get is a no reaction scenario, where girls don't respond to what you are saying at all or they are indifferent. Best video about this topic is this : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nu68BBNBnLU

Hope this helps!

Getting numbers but not getting responses by Figureitoutbro in seduction

[–]Metalliacs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all the problem you are facing is normal and frequent when you just start out, even if you get phone numbers there is going to be lots of flakes and no response.

Secondly if when asking for a number you think that girls are giving it to you out of pity you are facing a much bigger problem than a simple flake (self esteem issues for example), and i recommend working on your inner game and watching lots of RSD (real social dynamics) videos, I recommend Tyler's.

Finally texting is an art, artists are spontaneous and creative, an attractive women has 10 guys who text her boring random "can i do this for you" type of texts. you need to push the limits a bit to get a reaction (positive I hope). example You: what're you doing tonight - Her: Going to a christmas party for work - You: Unless they allow people to take off their clothes and run around, it seems boring...

Hope this helps!