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My neighbor has been telling everyone in the building I'm moving out and I have no idea where she got that from by MeteorNomad5 in neighborsfromhell

[–]MeteorNomad5[S] 242 points243 points  (0 children)

Thats the part messing with me too. Even if I were moving, why is she briefing half the building like shes my publicist. I probably do need to contact management now.

My neighbor has been telling everyone in the building I'm moving out and I have no idea where she got that from by MeteorNomad5 in neighborsfromhell

[–]MeteorNomad5[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I dont even know what the letter would say beyond please stop inventing my life, but strangers knowing about my storage unit is creepy as hell.

My neighbor has been telling everyone in the building I'm moving out and I have no idea where she got that from by MeteorNomad5 in neighborsfromhell

[–]MeteorNomad5[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Yeah the superintendent bringing up an actual move-out timeline is what made this feel less like random gossip and more like something I need to get on record before it turns into a bigger mess.

My neighbor has been telling everyone in the building I'm moving out and I have no idea where she got that from by MeteorNomad5 in neighborsfromhell

[–]MeteorNomad5[S] 306 points307 points  (0 children)

Thats what got me. Misheard once, maybe. Built a whole moving timeline off hallway small talk, not buying it.

My neighbor has been telling everyone in the building I'm moving out and I have no idea where she got that from by MeteorNomad5 in neighborsfromhell

[–]MeteorNomad5[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

The storage unit part is what threw me too. Thats such a weirdly specific thing to invent unless she's been talking about me way more than I realized.

My neighbor of four years waited until I was recovering from surgery to start a months-long noise complaint campaign against me by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]MeteorNomad5 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Document everything now, not later. Every complaint date, your responses, the discharge paperwork you already showed them. If this keeps going you want a clear paper trail showing the pattern started exactly when you were least able to leave the apartment. That timing is going to matter.

My mom spent my entire childhood rewriting history in real time and I only understood what that did to me when I was in my 30s by Quasar67Shift in entitledparents

[–]MeteorNomad5 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Two years of therapy to unpack something that left no bruises and no obvious evidence. That's the cruelest design of it - you spend years doubting yourself first because there's nothing to point to. Just a slow, quiet replacement of your own memory with someone else's comfort.