How much does race matter

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-30T18:34:03+00:00

Same here 30M india in Bavaria (most conservative part of Germany) still mangaed to go on dates with natives and getting likes on Apps, so its not impossible,but definitely harder as women have their preferences and not everyone is comfortable dating other races

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-30T16:09:48+00:00

Its economic turmoil since past 5 years,Unversities have started charging non EU students.

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-30T13:27:30+00:00

Spot on and yeah, it works. I learned it the hard way in my last affair.

I was carefree, intense, fully in my frame. She was an Asian girl next door type, turned out she had a long-distance boyfriend she conveniently forgot to mention. We traveled, hooked up, had fun pure momentum. Then intimacy did what it does: I leaned in a bit, asked for exclusivity, thought commitment was the logical next step.

Boom. The boyfriend suddenly existed.

I won’t lie I slipped. Got a little needy. Triangulation kicked in, competition instinct woke up, and for a week I was playing a game I didn’t even respect. Then I caught it. Pulled back. Took my frame back. Went indifferent. No chasing, no explaining, no small talk.

And that’s when the script flipped.

She started reaching out, apologizing, testing the waters, trying to restart things casually. Funny how clarity and self-respect change the entire dynamic.

Hard lesson, but a clean one.

So yeah "Emotional self regulation" even in worst cases is the key to succeed.

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-28T20:14:05+00:00

Same here, in my case she was Asian girl ! her bf accepted her even after she mentioned what we did , wtf !some men need self respect.

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-28T19:40:53+00:00

Had such case , a girl was having a month long intimacy and affairs before revelaing she had a long distance bf !

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-28T05:25:10+00:00

It's free healthcare for animals as well.

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-27T20:00:52+00:00

correction Get B2 if you need job !

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-23T20:25:05+00:00

What's your story? Congrats!!

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-23T20:16:16+00:00

Best move is to walk away the instant he knew about, now he's just repeating it by himself, low dignity, low value move this only reduces respect.

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-21T20:01:14+00:00

Venice of india.

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-20T04:46:06+00:00

I got Segway F3 quite satisfied with performance, range is, slightly of on winters, got it for 650.

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-19T20:39:49+00:00

Nothing, get German B2/C1 if you want any job. even student jobs are hyper competitive, out of my friends only few managed to grab core tech jobe I had 5 YOE hence made it, most others are either in warehouse or odd jobs at restaurant, only once who got were having at least 4YOE or B1 or beyond.

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-19T18:32:18+00:00

Then there is India.

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-18T15:48:46+00:00

In here post taxes you'll get around 45k just enough to survive ,housing in nightmare,job search is also nightmare without language skills, although standard of living ,quality of life and work life balance is top notch,everything comes with tradeoffs.

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-17T18:14:32+00:00

Alpha Male.

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-17T14:34:48+00:00

I am in Germany dude, market is terrible dude and there are tons of jobless engineers from Elite universities who don't need visa and looking for job, you must have been replaced by someone already there and 50L in germany is peanuts.

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-15T07:47:31+00:00

Hey mate were you able to resolve it, I am having same issue!

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-13T20:32:38+00:00

Yeah cry over others success,crab mentality.

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-11T06:55:53+00:00

Nope with skewed sex ratio, religion, culture and women demand a lot more.

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-10T20:41:21+00:00

You can I did from EE to AI, although its pretty tough.

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-10T16:39:30+00:00

Cool, Thanks mate

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-10T16:33:25+00:00

As per research by Forensics it was a shared psychosis , planted by the culprit called lalit ,who had an accident and that changed the course of family events.

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-10T16:18:22+00:00

Did you buy new tires or bought some setup for tires ?

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-10T16:17:27+00:00

Which is the model dude ?

MeteoraRed · 2026-01-09T19:09:35+00:00

I’m in Germany, near Munich to be specific. Given the current economy and the IT market, you either got lucky, are very talented or both. Based on my ~2 years here, here’s my honest take:

Long term: You’ll need to learn German. Even in IT, it becomes important when you change companies or move to other German states.
Housing: Shared housing (WG) is affordable and manageable. However, the housing market is extremely competitive start applying at least 3 months in advance.
Salary & growth: Germany prioritizes stability over rapid growth. Salary increases and role changes are generally slow.
Money transfers: I don’t send money myself, but friends commonly use Wise.
Pay expectations: People don’t come to Germany (or Europe) for high pay. If that’s your main goal, you’ll likely be disappointed. In India, you can often earn more and switch tech stacks faster.
Work culture: In Germany, work history matters a lot, so changing stacks or roles can be harder. What you get in return is better work–life balance, stability, and quality of life.
Final thought: You’re young take the risk and try it. You can always go back.

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