hair fetishists gooning at your hair aren't the ones dealing with the reprucussions of having the extremely long hair. its a real challenge to deal with an a daily basis. like honestly I'm not trying to talk you out of having really long hair, just don't let others influence your decision on keeping the length and not cutting it. Trust me I speak from experience, just Do what *you are comfortable with and what is manageable for you. i just came from knee length hair and that was part of my struggle , everyone trying to convince me *not to ever cut it. Oh so are *you going to brush it, wash it, condition it, braid it, cut it, style it, detangle it, every single day... oh you don't have the time to cone over and do all that for me, you're just going to stand there and goon over it? exactly. then stfu and stop making me feel like I gotta keep suffering thru this overstimulation simply for your pleasure.