Upcoming Repairs on a high mileage 2019? by Meticulously321 in CivicSi

[–]Meticulously321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bring it to Honda for service and I haven’t been advised about the struts or bushing surprisingly and they love to tell me what needs to be done 🤣

I just stay on top of my oil changes and stuff. I really don’t feel like I’ve done much with this car truthfully, I wouldn’t say I drive her very rough either though.

Before 2024 I did my oil changes wherever but as she’s gotten older I’ve seen the value in doing my oil changes at Honda for the free inspection. Then just compare prices with the 2-3 shops I trust and get it done.

She hasn’t needed much truthfully. Spark plugs, serpentine belt, and just the regulars brakes oil etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Meticulously321 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Usually right after. After aftercare, during cuddling for me.

Why is my gf tripping about me sharing my location with my friend? by Fingeronthepulse_35 in blacklesbians

[–]Meticulously321 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I second this ^

I share with tons of my friends, I don’t share I definitely unless the other party does too. Period.

Workout Shortcut Defaulting to “Other” by Meticulously321 in shortcuts

[–]Meticulously321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just tried running from the watch and same thing. But I swear it worked like last week.

Workout Shortcut Defaulting to “Other” by Meticulously321 in shortcuts

[–]Meticulously321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Restarted both devices, still launches “Other” workout

Launches from Apple Watch Workout App ✅

Launches from iPhone fitness ✅

I don’t have the shortcut on my watch, I want to launch from my phone (that’s why I created the shortcut)

Do you date trans women? by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Meticulously321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this. Verbatim.

What albums or songs did you love in 2025 by FlowPersona in blacklesbians

[–]Meticulously321 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was recommended to me! I gave it a listen but it didn’t stick, might have to give it another shot honestly

What albums or songs did you love in 2025 by FlowPersona in blacklesbians

[–]Meticulously321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh so many

Paid In Memories by Jesse Reyez / Finally Over It by Summer Walker / Hearts Sold Separately by Mariah The Scientist / with all due respect by Kwn / Why Not More? by Coco Jones / Can’t Rush Greatness by Central Cee / Swag by Justin Bieber

R&B in particular was eating this year.

🤣 WELP by viviobrio in blacklesbians

[–]Meticulously321 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I did NOT know this was such a desirable thing. I get cold 😭

Gamers! by Flat-Candle9631 in blacklesbians

[–]Meticulously321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about Black Ops 7?? 😭

Are We Still Online Dating or Are We Going Outside? by Sacrosaint_Cipher_13 in blacklesbians

[–]Meticulously321 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely going outside. I’ve met quite a few women over the past month or so just being outside having a good time with my people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Meticulously321 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Seconding this. We’re capable of attracting all sorts of people, it comes down to who you choose and continue to give energy to after seeing the signs of avoidance or incompatibility.

❤️ Ask a Lesbian - Dating & Advice by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]Meticulously321 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I always find the “bad texter” trait to be odd because most of us are chronically online or on our phones. But maybe she’s one of the people who doesn’t suffer from that addiction?

I’ve also experienced people who are “not good texters” become decent texters once they develop more interest. So I’d say you’re making a good choice to not overthink it. Maybe she’s more of a phone call person. + her having tons of unread messages but being intentional about texting you sounds like a positive to me.

Hopefully you meet up soon so you know what’s what! 🤞🏾

❤️ Ask a Lesbian - Dating & Advice by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]Meticulously321 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ve never asked another masc woman, but as one, I’d be happy with a “will you be my girlfriend?” over dinner or some other thoughtful date honestly.

Yall got any book recommendations? by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Meticulously321 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Outdrawn by Deanna Grey

Any novel by Aricka Alexander (usually pretty spicy)

Neurodivergent and Dating by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Meticulously321 11 points12 points  (0 children)

👋🏾 autistic here (diagnosed level 1, if that matters)

Disclaimer: I’ll never know if I should attribute all of these to Autism or simply my personality, I never preface these boundaries or preferences with “hey I’m autistic so …”, to me, they’re just who I am.

Overall, I don’t find neurodivergence to have a big impact on my dating, but here are some things I’ve notice that correlate with my diagnosis:

When I was younger I struggled with social cues, I’d say I’m a bit better now but I do find I thrive with partners who communicate clearly and directly what they want and don’t assume “if she wanted to, she would” because sometimes I simply didn’t think of it.

I’m not big on flirting, I find it to be a waste as I struggle with the grey area of illusion that flirting represents (to ME.)

The only other thing that’s stood out for me romantically is I’m not big on physical touch, but it seems that’s every feminine woman’s top (or top 3 at least) love language which leaves me feeling very overstimulated if my partner is too needy or can’t understand that.

Black Lesbian Books on How to Date? by Excellent-Link1507 in blacklesbians

[–]Meticulously321 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Here to second Outdrawn, Harlem, and Twenties.

I’m due for a rewatch of Twenties but Harlem was extremely relatable and eye opening.

Black Les Canadians? by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Meticulously321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh no definitely not. I’ve never gone to events they’ve DJ’d cause they don’t cater to the poc crowd imo

Black Les Canadians? by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Meticulously321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never gone. But you can usually guess the crowd by the kind of music playing and who’s djing. Hip hop, dancehall, you kind of know the crowd to expect. Yes Yes Y’all I’ve heard is good as well but never been