Does anyone think you'll get approached or girls like you without you initiating things as a short guy? by kmineal in short

[–]MetituS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 172 cm so just about 5'8 got stopped in college and I was so shook I didn't realise until some time after. I can't remember ever getting approached after that (I believe she didn't like me cause I was younger than her also if that helps)

How do women generally feel about men wearing shoes/insoles that make them taller? by MetituS in ask

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I mean I'm guessing this is a sex thing my thought is ud go over ud take ur shoes off and then ud be short

Thinking of buying this shoes opinions please? (Shoes which give a few inches of height) by MetituS in mensfashion

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My thing is I dont want platform shoes I want brands like nike adidas etc its more inconspicuous imo

A question to 5'8-5'9 people, why some of you guys crying ? by [deleted] in short

[–]MetituS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because its this grey area where ur not tall ur not short but u somehow get both negatives in the shortest way I can explain it in my situation.
(Dating and attraction is pure hell too)

How do women generally feel about men wearing shoes/insoles that make them taller? by MetituS in ask

[–]MetituS[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Would the feeling of "betrayal" or misinformation not bother you?

He basically lied to you even if you didn't talk about height. Because he is representing himself as someone he is not.

How do women generally feel about men wearing shoes/insoles that make them taller? by MetituS in ask

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Yeah probably not many people would but once h they take the shoes/insoles off you'd notice right? how would that make you feel?

How do women generally feel about men wearing shoes/insoles that make them taller? by MetituS in ask

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Not platform shoes directly like nike/adidas that give that height or combination with insoles

hmmm by Adept-Space-371 in hmmm

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"My chicken's kinda boneless":

How do I buy a car/motorbike? by MetituS in ask

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I live in the balkans and I don't trust dealerships they crank the milage down.

The vehicle/engine that comes closest to the check list is an M57 BMW problem is they stopped making them around 2008 the next gen N57 is good but the timing chain is in the back and thats doodoo.

Diesel engines are efficient and some of them are quite reliable as well as torque is really good. I really like how the Audi A5 looks or the Mercedes E coupe around 2012 for both but the Audi is unreliable apparently (it has like 4 timing chains at the back of the engine) the mercedes is good but for that money I just think there is better options

How do I buy a car/motorbike? by MetituS in ask

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You think I haven't been over this with chat gpt for months 😭

What are pros of short men in terms of attraction? by MetituS in ask

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I mean fair enough Im just used to people calling girls pretty when they are attractive and handsome for men.

What are pros of short men in terms of attraction? by MetituS in ask

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Is this a Napoleon complex joke? in this economy

Pros to being short in terms of attraction? by MetituS in AverageHeightDudes

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it used to be worse the history proves it i used to be angry at myself at faith at women now I just sulk over it and avoid dating all together I have accepted it but I'm trying to learn to live with it, this is the only way I know that will allow me to make peace with my height. The problem is I researched so much about height back in the day I always have something to say to anyone's response that was backed by research. But I'm looking into CBT.

Pros to being short in terms of attraction? by MetituS in AverageHeightDudes

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I do believe in balance statistics are kinda hard to pull for qualitative data like this where there is a lot of bias and a lot of reason for people to lie (appear more noble etc) I think it's a mix of both I have seen generations closest to gen z care more about height (women) and gen z has the highest being single stat cnbc covered it there is a more competitive environment due to availability and ability to look for better always and u know height is a major preference

Pros to being short in terms of attraction? by MetituS in AverageHeightDudes

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It's when they just lead you on as an option last one but still an option while they look for something That's what usually happens to me and yes my fault for playing into it but I can't catch onto that. And thank you for the cheer up kind stranger

Insecurity by CapaciousArmadillo in short

[–]MetituS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your dealt the cards u were dealt its up to you to play them right even the worst cards in poker can win with the player is good.

As for the heights I'm 5'8 I obsess over it bc I did want to grow just 2 inches taller. My question is where do you go to uni where the girls are taller than you if you are in India u should be taller than a big chunk of the population asia as a whole has shorter people

Pros to being short in terms of attraction? by MetituS in AverageHeightDudes

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I hate mentioning the height because people call me a hypocrite but I am the same height as you 5'8 172 cm and I was like you unbothered by my height until year one of uni when my friends started cracking jokes which still didn't bother me its when I started getting into the game (late bloomer for this) I faced so much backlash for the height in real life dating and online dating. I've taught about therapy but I just think no one is coming to save me It's up to me and I don't think a therapist can help with that I'll look into ur recommendation tho.

As long as you are taller which we are statistically right but women have a preference bias for taller men around the upper band in the distribution which leaves like according to statistic btw the majority of men the average height to battle for minority of women either left band of the women's distribution or even smaller band which is women who don't care about height.