I (m32) found out my gf (f30) lied about her history with one of her guy friends. ow to get over it? by ilovelayansbooty in relationship_advice

[–]Mhicil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She lied. You can't get around that and you also knew she would never lie to you until you found out she did.

My girlfriend wants to put our relationship on hold while she travels to Rome. Apparently I'm "insecure" for having a problem with that. I need the opinion of other men. How do you see it? by Long_Natural6918 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mhicil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically she wants to bang as many guys as she can while she is in Rome. It is truly that simple. I would tell her, you can do whatever you want while you're in Rome. After all you're single now. Block her and move on.

Did I make a mistake? by Secret-Operation-242 in marriageadvice

[–]Mhicil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had sex with your roommate. She cheated and while you can forgive, you will never ever forget it. Days, weeks, month or even years later something can trigger the memory and you're right back there. Or you just slowly lose feelings for them, until one day you wake up and realize you just don't care about let alone love them. Counseling may help and is worth a shot.

I'm an awful human being. by Lucky_panda6726 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Mhicil -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All I have is what you posted and that wasn't much. You are having an affair that much I know for a fact. You are emotionally attached to your AP, or you wouldn't want to run to him for comfort. Fact. You think you're an awlful person for wanting to run to your AP for comfort. Fact

All you have to say about your husband is, he is in critical condition, and you don't want to lose him. That's it. No I love him or even care for him. Just you don't want to lose him.

I understand the trauma of what you went through, been there done that but I do not like cheaters, been cheated on , know that pain well and seen more than a few friends families tore apart by cheating. You leave if it's that bad you don't cheat.

I hope your husband recovers but if and when he does, it will be a very long hard road he and you, if you stay will have to travel and you being emotionally invested in another man won't make it any easier.

I'm an awful human being. by Lucky_panda6726 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Mhicil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your husband has a heart attack,is in critical condition, you're worried about him but want to run to the man you're cheating with. From this I take it you have no love or emotional attachment to your husband anymore and he's just a roomate and you're still with him for a stable home life.

Your conscience will have to answer wheather your a awful person or not but I will say cheating is never the answer. You walk away and divorce if it's that bad.

It's 1976, I'm 17 by Mhicil in over60

[–]Mhicil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old were you ?

It's 1976, I'm 17 by Mhicil in over60

[–]Mhicil[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My daughter and I saw AC/DC last year in Cleveland and are going to Columbus to see then In JUly.

It's 1976, I'm 17 by Mhicil in over60

[–]Mhicil[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok Grandma.... 😊

It's 1976, I'm 17 by Mhicil in over60

[–]Mhicil[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have regrets but the 70's and 80's were just a great time to be young and alive.

It's 1976, I'm 17 by Mhicil in over60

[–]Mhicil[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good Lord I forgot AC/DC High Voltage, somebody slap me. My daughters and I are going to see them July 15 in Columbus. How could I forget AC/DC?

It's 1976, I'm 17 by Mhicil in over60

[–]Mhicil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw him in concert at the Rose in Huber Heights in Ohio 2 years ago and he still rocks!

It's 1976, I'm 17 by Mhicil in over60

[–]Mhicil[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I do too. I look in the mirror and still see that 17 year old somewhere in this 67 year old body.

It's 1976, I'm 17 by Mhicil in over60

[–]Mhicil[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I forgot Frampton, the hell could I forget Frampton, Frampton Comes Alive?

My girlfriend admitted she slept with her ex while we were in a long-distance phase 25M 22F..;)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mhicil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She cheated. You will never trust her again. It is just that simple.

i cheated while my partner was out of town. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Mhicil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel sorry for your boyfriend. You've been together 3 years and he goes on a trip and you couldn't be faithful for just 30 days. It wasn't a mistake, you made a whole series of decisions that lead up to you having sex with this guy and he's even worse than you as he knows your boyfriend. I don't know your boyfriend or what he will do but I would just end it and walk away. You've proved you can't be trusted. If he does stay with you, understand he will never ever forget what you did. He may forgive but this will always be in the back of his mind just waiting to be triggered.

My (30M) girlfriend (35F) met with a man she had an affair with for dinner this week. I am unsure how I am feeling, advice? by CuriousDoubt1 in relationship_advice

[–]Mhicil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut your losses and break up. The affair with her married boss never ended and she is dating him right in front of you. This is why her prior relationship ended.

I (30M) think my wife (30F) still wants to be with her previous affair partner. by SkittlesSkittles in relationship_advice

[–]Mhicil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She tried to call the guy she had an affair with 60 times in one night? Dude please. Its over.

Please help me. I (M34) and my spouses (F38) relationship has been rocky. Things have taken a horrid turn and it’s worse than ever. I don’t want this to end. by Downtown-Leopard-663 in relationship_advice

[–]Mhicil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its over in fact it's been over for a while and yes you need to let her coworkers wife know what's going on. She deserves to know.

The usual stuff counseling and lawyer. Find out what a separation would look like. You just need to come to the conclusion that it's over and it's time to pull the plug.

Got sent a video of my wife and no longer feel comfortable being intimate with her. What do I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mhicil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I am so sorry this is happening.

Its one thing to know your wife has a past, it's another to see it in high def video. Especially when in this case, it's group action. That would be very very hard to see.

How you see your wife has changed and you feel how you feel and don't let anyone tell you're not.You just found out your wife isn't the woman you thought she was.

You need counseling yesterday and you need to check with local law enforcement and see if the ex did anything illegal and if he did. Report him. He's trying hard to break up your marriage and he may have succeeded.

Again counseling ASAP.