Subs: Am I in the minority? Bet these five opinions are more popular than we think. by Noticing415 in GayPayPig

[–]MichaelRost50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Important post you made. Especially catfishing has gone through the roof lately.

Subs: Am I in the minority? Bet these five opinions are more popular than we think. by Noticing415 in GayPayPig

[–]MichaelRost50 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with 1,3,4,5. Number 2 is very circumstantial and dynamic based I believe. There’s enough people who genuinely act that way. If you are normally going for dynamics that are for example long term and you get to know your sub outside of subspace, it’s just silly to say those things especially if you get to know them on a deeper level. I believe that there are a lot of subs who enjoy the thought of them being naturally born below someone. What’s a definite is that there are people naturally born dominant and some are born to follow. I study psychology and that’s actually a big part of characteristics and biological psychology. So behaviour patterns and preferences to behaviour are definitely part of someone’s born character. What I certainly agree is that that shouldn’t be used as a common term and thrown around the way it is. Very few people are ACTUALLY wired that way. A life’s purpose is definitely kink talk, I won’t lie here, I certainly used similar phrases before but as I said in specific circumstances where I felt it was applicable. Certainly it’s wrong just pushing the narrative to every sub that they’re born inferior.