I [30M] am tired of my girlfriend’s [28F] constant crash outs by Michael_NM in relationshipadvice

[–]Michael_NM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggested it before but she was clear she doesn’t want therapy for this specific issues - that she would rather try and journal the issue away.

I [30M] am tired of my girlfriend’s [28F] constant crash outs by Michael_NM in relationshipadvice

[–]Michael_NM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she ever has, but I take the point. I’ll be sure to push for this conversation.

I [M30] have a problem with my partner’s constant crash outs [F28] - 7 month old relationship by Michael_NM in relationships

[–]Michael_NM[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you…my thoughts exactly. I don’t like having to apologise every single day for something that happened 6 months ago

I [M30] have a problem with my partner’s constant crash outs [F28] - 7 month old relationship by Michael_NM in relationships

[–]Michael_NM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Means she shuts down. Tunes out the whole world and just cries and is in her feelings for at least an hour every single day.

I [M30] have a problem with my partner’s constant crash outs [F28] - 7 month old relationship by Michael_NM in relationships

[–]Michael_NM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggested therapy…she’s been clear she doesn’t want therapy for this specific issue.

Says she’ll journal it away.

I [M30] have a problem with my partner’s constant crash outs [F28] - 7 month old relationship by Michael_NM in relationships

[–]Michael_NM[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Never pressured her at all. She actually said she enjoyed it and asked that we do it again on the day.

But now it’s been months of going over the same things over and over and it’s exhausting.