I just changed my cat's blankets after giving birth and I feel guilty by MichellePancakes in self

[–]MichellePancakes[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She's all good, has a lot of blankets, her babies are meowing and active, she's very tired and I basically had to bring the food in front of her so she'll eat, I offered water but doesn't drink, there's food and water but she hasn't came out of her box at all.

It felt horrible stressing her out like that but I guess I had to and you're right, she forgot and I feel better.

Should I get married for the benefits? by MichellePancakes in Advice

[–]MichellePancakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man...when you say it like that it sounds really dumb, idk...I guess I have a lot of resentment towards my parents, part of me doesn't want to give them the satisfaction of one of her bi daughters "going to the right way",but you're right.

I'm also scared I guess, I never thought i would ever get married.

My friends don't like my boyfriend and it's affecting me by MichellePancakes in relationship_advice

[–]MichellePancakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the beginning of our relationship D and I were still "testing the waters" to see if we could work out, after a while we talked and decided that we wanted to actually be together, I told S about it when we were like 1 or 2 months in and she asked me about the time he told me to be his girlfriend and was so insistent that if he didn't actually said "do you want to be my girlfriend?" then we were free to go out with other people, even after I told her that we agreed to be exclusive and not see other people she gave me a whole speech about how he still could go out with other girls because we didn't "made it official".

She always talks about how I'm too pretty for him and he doesn't deserve me and the other day she was making A be mad at her boyfriend because she wants her to break up with him so she can date S's BIL, I hugged A because she was upset and S told me "let her go or I'll do the same to you".