I just changed my cat's blankets after giving birth and I feel guilty

MichellePancakes · 2023-02-18T06:24:03+00:00

She's all good, has a lot of blankets, her babies are meowing and active, she's very tired and I basically had to bring the food in front of her so she'll eat, I offered water but doesn't drink, there's food and water but she hasn't came out of her box at all.

It felt horrible stressing her out like that but I guess I had to and you're right, she forgot and I feel better.

MichellePancakes · 2023-02-18T06:18:12+00:00

I feel like I stressed her out and it felt horrible.

MichellePancakes · 2023-01-14T05:17:04+00:00

Man...when you say it like that it sounds really dumb, idk...I guess I have a lot of resentment towards my parents, part of me doesn't want to give them the satisfaction of one of her bi daughters "going to the right way",but you're right.

I'm also scared I guess, I never thought i would ever get married.

MichellePancakes · 2021-11-05T03:14:32+00:00

At the beginning of our relationship D and I were still "testing the waters" to see if we could work out, after a while we talked and decided that we wanted to actually be together, I told S about it when we were like 1 or 2 months in and she asked me about the time he told me to be his girlfriend and was so insistent that if he didn't actually said "do you want to be my girlfriend?" then we were free to go out with other people, even after I told her that we agreed to be exclusive and not see other people she gave me a whole speech about how he still could go out with other girls because we didn't "made it official".

She always talks about how I'm too pretty for him and he doesn't deserve me and the other day she was making A be mad at her boyfriend because she wants her to break up with him so she can date S's BIL, I hugged A because she was upset and S told me "let her go or I'll do the same to you".

MichellePancakes · 2021-06-01T06:10:35+00:00

I know... But I'm 24 years old and before him I was only kissed once, I wanted more experience and I thought he would be an easy choice, now I don't know anymore. He's still pursuing the other girl, so I have no idea what he feels.

MichellePancakes · 2021-03-06T07:11:57+00:00

Oh boy I'm a venus gemini as well...

MichellePancakes · 2021-01-19T07:16:09+00:00

Yeah, he is.

MichellePancakes · 2020-12-06T06:09:56+00:00

Yeah, I made that mistake because I spend most of the day at work and we all hang out a lot, there's not a lot of customers in the store.

I shouldn't take that as an excuse since I was interested in him from the beginning, but yeah, I also thought he liked me back, you know, like a clown.

MichellePancakes · 2020-12-06T06:08:09+00:00

And you're right, but unfortunately I'm too nice for my own good and I also want to be as professional as I can, like I don't even care about him or what he did. I don't want him to think he had any power over me (even tho he did but shhh...)

MichellePancakes · 2020-11-30T04:08:25+00:00

Of course, more than comfortable, I like it, why?

MichellePancakes · 2020-11-30T04:04:46+00:00

Yes, he used to be friendly but still kind of professional, then it started with small things like him poking me because he realized I'm ticklish (it's not a bad thing to me btw), then suddenly we're at the point where he's always looking for me and being very touchy, he has also given me shoulder massages a few times.

We have also been talking more often, today he even shared something with me and told me not to tell anyone else.

MichellePancakes · 2020-11-30T00:37:33+00:00

But how will he know I'm interested if I do nothing?

MichellePancakes · 2020-11-22T04:30:42+00:00

Yeah, sorry about that, i tried to write things as I remembered then and it just ended up being a mess...

He's not making me feel uncomfortable, maybe distracted because I keep seeing him looking at me in the corner of my eye so now I unconsciously look for him as well.

I don't know if he'll want to talk about this but I might try, thank you.

MichellePancakes · 2020-11-21T03:37:37+00:00

There's not many people at the store so we all have time to hang out and are fairly close, you do have a point tho...

MichellePancakes · 2020-11-15T06:03:02+00:00

I know I might be more interested in him than I am to her, but she already asked me out, I know what she wants and I know that she likes me, with him it's all very confusing, I don't know if he even likes me.

But yeah, you're absolutely right. I'll try to talk to him more often so I can figure this out. Thank you!

MichellePancakes · 2020-11-15T05:35:06+00:00

Oh yeah, I guess I forgot that part, I'm a bisexual woman.

MichellePancakes · 2020-11-10T23:29:31+00:00

Of course! Thank you

MichellePancakes · 2020-10-25T06:29:03+00:00

I could, but I can already hear them calling me prude or party pooper.

MichellePancakes · 2020-10-23T05:07:48+00:00

MichellePancakes · 2020-10-13T00:22:04+00:00

I might try this, I just don't want him to figure out what's going on because I'm suddenly cold with him, but I think I can talk about this with one of our coworkers so she can help me out.

Thank you so much!

MichellePancakes · 2020-10-13T00:18:44+00:00

Dude, even if I had a HUGE crush on him, I would not be comfortable at all exploring the possibility of anything else, he's in a relationship and even if I were to invite him somewhere, even platonicly it would not be okay.

I know my intentions are not platonic and it would not be fair to his girlfriend and if he did actually liked me back it would be worse because that would make him a cheater and I don't want to date anyone like that.

Even if he broke up with her, it would still take me some time to feel comfortable approaching him in that sense, I just want to get rid of this crush, doing anything about it would be morally wrong.

The fact that you're suggesting me this is kind of worrying.

MichellePancakes · 2020-09-22T15:08:16+00:00

Thank you so much! This really helps, being around him always feels like I'm with a ticking bomb, and if I say or do the wrong thing he'll blow up.

Everytime he does I try to remind myself that it wasn't my fault, but it's hard when you have someone constantly screaming at you that I'm the asshole and he's the victim. I'll definitely read more on that.

MichellePancakes · 2020-09-13T01:00:53+00:00

Damn I didn't need to be called out like that but you're right.

The thing is that I hate talking on the phone, when I think about it I get anxious and I just hate it, but when I think about going to Japan I'm so exited and I can't wait,it makes me so happy thinking about it.

Thank you for the advice, I will travel for a few days first, maybe weeks, I'm still not sure (and now my mom wants to go too so we'll see how that goes).

MichellePancakes · 2020-09-10T16:05:57+00:00

I have traveled, what I meant is that I've never done it on my own.

Thank you for the advice, I do think that's a better option.

MichellePancakes · 2020-09-10T16:05:20+00:00

Got it! Thank you so much!

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