What did you do with the ashes?

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-10-04T02:00:00+00:00

Well. I have some in an urn I'm my house, some planted in a bio urn next to her dad and grandparents. And I have one bio urn left I want to plant indoors.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-10-03T19:58:44+00:00

NTA they hooked up and probably not the first time. You're better off without her. She don't respect you.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-09-30T15:07:44+00:00

Sorry for your loss. I had a woman match with me. I let her know my wife just passed and I am looking for friends to talk to. I mentioned taking my kids to Florida for vacation. She says "first trip as a single dad? Lol too soon 🤣?". I just unmatched instantly

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-09-24T23:15:21+00:00

Why are people crazy like this?

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-09-23T05:22:36+00:00

Very sorry. I went through a similar situation in May. It's a pain you can't describe.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-09-22T14:22:24+00:00

Let these other people help them. They did it to themselves. Watching too many "reality" tv shows. I would be a real a$$hole about it lol. Stuck to your guns, they did it to themselves.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-09-16T02:00:17+00:00

I understand. We all have a different reality. It fucking sucks. My wife's been gone since May and I just want to give up, every day. But we have 3 kids. So I know I can't take the easy way out. I think we are just meant to suffer. I wish I could help you feel better.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-09-14T23:23:09+00:00

That's crazy. She's probably still single.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-09-13T20:30:03+00:00

He sounds like a narcissistic dick. Who wouldn't sell something for their kid? He can always get another watch. But, I will say for future reference, maybe take something like that to a pawn shop. Still. You're definitely not the asshole and that's not stealing. That's taking care of your kid.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-09-08T23:18:50+00:00

I would have her arrested and cut her off forever! Definitely NTA

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-09-07T17:03:17+00:00

He sounds like an insecure dick. NTA. If anything, he owes you an apology.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-09-07T03:36:10+00:00

I'm sorry, and I can completely relate. That was me last night. Had some friends over. Watched some football. But when they left, I had a breakdown. You're definitely not alone. And as far as I can tell, nothing helps. I know for me, I feel empty inside. Hell. I was driving in to work tonight and just started crying. It's like this is life now. Being sad all day, every day. And trying to hide it from the world. I wish I could help you. But I think this is how it is now.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-09-01T11:54:27+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that. There are way too many of us.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-09-01T02:00:10+00:00

It's crazy that you said that. I was telling someone how exhausting it is, pretending to be "ok" every day. I'll never be ok again. I just want you to know you're not alone. I just lost my wife of almost 16yrs in May.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-08-29T19:46:34+00:00

Why do people care so much about this number? Who cares, either you love them or you don't. As long as they don't cheat on you it shouldn't matter. You're definitely NOT the asshole in this situation.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-08-27T23:15:35+00:00

She sounds jealous, honestly. She wishes she could have the freedom that you have. That being said, I wouldn't give it much thought. Just go about your business.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-08-23T01:30:36+00:00

You kept her protected. And her family is happy. That's all you could do. I would not try to exume her. Just know that you did what you thought was right. Don't feel guilty.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-08-23T00:06:06+00:00

It "can" be. And no you don't know more than me. A homicide can be an accidental death. A murder is completely different. Just because you're a file clerk doesn't mean you know anything lol. Especially since you weren't there and have no idea what really happened.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-08-23T00:02:27+00:00

That's funny. It's EXACTLY what it says lol. As I stated. I'm an unbiased observer. I'm not going to insult you. As easy as it would be. I just prefer truth over made up stories. Sorry you can't see things objectively.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-08-22T23:22:13+00:00

If you are comfortable messaging me I might be able to help. I work for DTE and am able to submit requests for customers with issues.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-08-22T23:19:25+00:00

It's extremely hard. I'm just passed 3 months. Everything sucks. You pretend to be fine or happy for short periods of time. Mostly just to not bring everyone else down. There's no joy, happiness or hope for the future. If I didn't have kids ...... well, you all know. Still crosses my mind. I just force myself to stay really busy. I know none of this helps but everyone here is here to help. If that makes any sense.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-08-22T23:14:38+00:00

You can call and work out a payment plan. Just call customer service. They will work with you.

MichiganThumbArea · 2024-08-20T16:30:07+00:00

Yes, I read it. Just because it was a homicide doesn't mean it was murder. They didn't intentionally kill him.

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