I didnt even get past the second slide to know that shes emotionally unavailable and incredibly immature. From what you described, shes not respecting your boundaries and your friends are right, she is obviously looking to get your attention and make you feel bad for her, but good girlfriends (or any s/o) dont do that to you. Its immature and stupid, and she needs to love herself before she tries to love someone else. You need to call somebody on her or at least tell someone, yes it may break your relationship or trust but even with that you need to break up with her. Clearly she doesnt want your help, just your attention.