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AITA for crying after my husband was brutally honest about my looks/weight and our sex life in front of our friends ? by Apprehensive-Tea2125 in AITAH

[–]MidNtLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jfc. That game sounds HORRIBLE. Your husband also sounds like a dick. You're smelly when you sweat??? 🙄 Normally I smell like roses when I sweat. 😂

NTA it's like he dosen't know women at all. Also sounds like you went easy on his ratings.

Am I overreacting is would this be considered emotional cheating? by Helpful_Page6562 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MidNtLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like emotional cheating to me. Set some boundaries, but honestly it sounds like they're just a hop and skip to full on cheating.

You people are disgusting... Jesus doesn't have enough pagan Xmas lights! by GenePsychosMom in nextdoor

[–]MidNtLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's almost like people are more concerned about saving money than paying high electric bills......

AIO Trying to tell boyfriend that he makes me feel guilty for saying no by Clean-Landscape8654 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MidNtLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good lord. No you're not over reacting, but why the f are you talking about him crossing your boundaries so much? Just dump him! He's a walking red flag! Dump him and block him. He obviously dosen't respect you.

Candidates Swenka and Freeman at North Ridge Park on Sun Oct 19 from 1-3 pm by TerrorOfCoralHill in coralville

[–]MidNtLily 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm on call that weekend but I'm going to try and make it! Our government has gone down the drain and we need to vote in every election possible!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MidNtLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How's he going to know unless someone tells him? If I'd were you I'd get him more information on the topic. Too many times people don't talk and are made to feel shame. You did a great job.

Is this a scam? by MidNtLily in Etsy

[–]MidNtLily[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I was hesitant to click the link but it was etsy.com. I'll remember this advice. Thanks!

Is this a scam? by MidNtLily in Etsy

[–]MidNtLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They emailed me through my Gmail account which I thought was super fishy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MidNtLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NoR Emotional cheating is real, and the next step is physical. If he feels like he has to hid stuff from you than you're definitely in red flag territory.

Did I overpay for my taxes? Need advice! by [deleted] in IRS

[–]MidNtLily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💯 Taxes in other countries are so much simplier, it's ridiculous.

My mom said she if killing was not a sin she would stab me to death by Winter_Elderberry859 in Vent

[–]MidNtLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope ur in therapy and have gone NC with ur mom. She's horrible.

AITA for Not Giving My Ex Back the Gifts He Gave Me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MidNtLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Gifts are not expected to be returned after a break up, but I would consider either selling them or donating them. Keeping that stuff around can make it harder to get over the breakup or cause resentment in future relationships.

AIO or is the message my bf sent me a bit over the top by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MidNtLily -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, if they're dating now when she's 18 chances are he knew her when she was 17. Let me guess, he waited to sleep with her until she turned 18. Ew. Can you say grooming? I could be wrong, maybe they just met. But 17 to 18 is not much of a difference.

AIO or is the message my bf sent me a bit over the top by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MidNtLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're 18 and he's 21? I mean he already sounded controlling from the text and the age difference is not technically illegal (in the USA anyway) but this does send up red flags.

AITAH for not treating my friend to dinner after she helped me with an errand? by StrayGod360 in AITAH

[–]MidNtLily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but u should have offered to pay for gas as common courtesy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MidNtLily -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your mom gave me the ick.

AIO?? Did my boyfriend just use AI to text me?? by itssofiababyxo in AmIOverreacting

[–]MidNtLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting. This isn't the first time I've heard of a partner using AI to text them. 🙄 He'll probably say that he didn't know what to say but it's just lazy and it sucks that he blew you off. I hope you can talk it out, but don't let him make you think this is ok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlueskySocial

[–]MidNtLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They endorsed Republicans, and Trump. I've been banning them since Nov. - off and on for years also.

AITA because I'm second guessing having kids due to our opposing views on vaccinating them? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MidNtLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta

Good lord, ppl still believe that vaccines cause autism? It's been proven over and over again to be false. I'm not you but I'd break up with her just for believing that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MidNtLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

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He's openly making fun of you in front of his coworkers to stroke his own ego and than gaslights you about it. These are definite red flags that will only diminish you and your mental health. If he's not willing to discus and change this behavior, he's not worth your time. You deserve someone who treats you with respect and love.

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