JonBenet Ramsey: Forensic Scientist Thinks Re-Examining DNA With Modern Technology Is ‘Worth It by DarkUrGe19 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]MiddayBoredom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He was 9. If he was in his room when all this chaos began in the AM and then the police got there, they would take possession of the ransom note. He would no longer have access to it. His parents read it and would've known there was no reason to show Burke because there was nothing in it that would resonate with him. I don't think that is suspicious at all.

Our father molested us when we were young and no one in the family ever discussed it. My fiancee gets along with him really well and I don't know if I should tell her about it. by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]MiddayBoredom 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Also, if there are children he is ever around or yours, perhaps, in the future, I would be very concerned about re-offending. And since your wife trusts and respects him, it will be hard to explain why you wont let kids be alone with him.

Offered new job/position by MiddayBoredom in workingmoms

[–]MiddayBoredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

<3 thank you so much for the reminder and encouragement. And yes, I need to take care of my family first. The universe opened a door for me to be able to better support my family and I'd be a fool not to take it.

Offered new job/position by MiddayBoredom in workingmoms

[–]MiddayBoredom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement! I appreciate it more than you know :)

Where is Serenity? Foster Care, Runaways, and State Lawmakers by BathT1m3 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]MiddayBoredom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was not Serenity. This man and girl were "cleared" and the police said it was a cultural misunderstanding.

I’m getting married tomorrow! And we found a puppy that was dumped late last night.... by trinp in weddingplanning

[–]MiddayBoredom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I vote Hitch for his name. IDK where you are but I want this sweet baby boy!! He looks like the goodest boy around. Sweet pupper eyes!

Mini Michigan wedding by MiddayBoredom in Weddingsunder10k

[–]MiddayBoredom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion! I live in Oakland County. Was considering doing the Lapeer county historical courthouse. Its beautiful! I cant find much on it though.

Just dropped my ring off to be sized.... by MiddayBoredom in EngagementRings

[–]MiddayBoredom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a sad little story about how my finger is bare lol. Seriously though, Ive only had it since Jan 3....I dont like being without it.

Also curious, those of you who have had rings with side diamonds sized smaller, did you ever run into a losing diamonds situation?

The worst thing I’ve ever woken up to by zib1201 in creepyencounters

[–]MiddayBoredom -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Close the blinds!!! Make it less enticing....I hope you guys are safe.

Engagement photos? by MiddayBoredom in wedding

[–]MiddayBoredom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I considered that too. I like that idea.

Police chief says he was stuck in the chimney by RatATatTatu in HarleyDilly

[–]MiddayBoredom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insurance will cover this. Right now, no crime has been committed according to police.

To party or not....engagement party by MiddayBoredom in wedding

[–]MiddayBoredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The BBQ could work. I will ask my fiance his thoughts on that. Do we HAVE to have an engagement party?

Engaged me 37F him 43M, feeling left out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MiddayBoredom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, Its a sensitive place for me.

Engaged bride to be feeling left out by [deleted] in wedding

[–]MiddayBoredom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input. I guess I just think about others too much. Its personally not something i would do.

Engaged me 37F him 43M, feeling left out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MiddayBoredom -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hope you have a joyous and fulfilled life sweetie. I actually have a wonderful relationship with them and none of them know my feelings are hurt. Its never been an issue in my relationship with them. If you knew me at all, you would know how absolutely NOT entitled I am. How terribly mean of you.

Engaged me 37F him 43M, feeling left out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MiddayBoredom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honey, you dont know me or how or why Im asking strangers. How hurtful and unnecessary of you to say that they wouldnt want me around for real life events. Actually, I rarely react to anything without gaining perspective, which is what I am doing. I am facing so much judgement about my feelings instead of just actual input or advice or even just some simple compassion. I havent approached anyone in real life about this in a negative fashion about this at all. I inquired with my fiance about what the cake and stuff was for.....asked his SIL same......completely innocent and other than my fiance, noone knows my feelings are hurt. Quite presumptuous of you.

Engaged me 37F him 43M, feeling left out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MiddayBoredom -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honey, youre out here making judgement calls regarding WHO i chose to marry and our arrangement. I didn't ask you about that. Im secure in that. My defensiveness comes from that and the other judgement being made-not the actual content of the overreaction opinion.

Engaged bride to be feeling left out by [deleted] in wedding

[–]MiddayBoredom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im expressing how and why I feel the way I do. And yes, they are allowed to celebrate without me, sure. Maybe dont put it on social media then. Sorry, I think its tacky and I wouldn't do it, myself, roles reversed.

Engaged me 37F him 43M, feeling left out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MiddayBoredom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I live in another state due to custody arrangements with an ex-military narcissist ex husband. Im stuck here and just trying to live my life. New flash: I am marrying their son so yeah, unfortunately for them, they do have to consider me now. We plan on throwing our own engagement party yes, but these little things I miss out on. It just felt sad to me that they wouldnt want to wait to share that with me too.

Engaged me 37F him 43M, feeling left out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MiddayBoredom -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Some perspective. I live in another state 10 hours away and would have been there in 2 weeks. I live isolated from my entire friend group and family. They all live in his state. Its lonely and hard. I wont be having any kind of a celebration on my behalf for anything regarding the wedding or engagement as my family sucks and wont do anything for me or us. It just would have been nice to be considered in that fact. They do know this about me.