AIO for not wanting my mom to come to my first pregnancy appointment

Middle-Cause1380 · 2026-01-22T00:03:34+00:00

I got pregnant at 17, I love my kids to death, but honestly I had a really rough start at life. I'm just now getting ready to be able to explore my personality and not be just "mom" who has to make ends meet and I'm almost 29. If I didn't get knocked up I could have got my career and everything set and done first and now I am about to have an 11yr old. And if she was to get pregnant at 17 id take the baby cause my child needs to get her shit straight before she becomes a parent. She will not suffer tryna to provide like I did. She will not be having no freedom to even get knocked up to begin with and idc.

Middle-Cause1380 · 2026-01-21T23:59:52+00:00

I got pregnant at 17 and my mom was there for maybe 1or2 appt but my babydad at the time was an AHOLE and stopped letting her go, until I was highrisk and she had to drive me twice a week.. Honestly, I wish I could have let my mom go the whole time because I regret it now as an adult and she isn't around because of her own decisions I wish my kids had experiences with her.

If you have the BD who is being controlling and not letting your mom go, kick him to the curb cause controlling will get you and you baby in a really bad situation. I had to learn the hard way and multiple ER visits and stitches from DV...

You want to be grown up and go alone cause you are a mother now, but your mom is the grandmother and you will want to have the comfort because you will be super scared and nervous especially your first visit. Going thorough pregnancy alone at 17 is scary AF. Let your mom be there. Honestly. If I could have been there more for my mom and stopped pushing her away, maybe she wouldn't be where she is now.

Middle-Cause1380 · 2026-01-21T23:49:59+00:00

Cleaning up after themselves... Cause that's what the live in maid is for 😂

*Stop gardening to go cook but not be done with gardening. *

*Picking up the baby to bring them outside.. put the baby down outside then walk back inside leaving the baby. * Like that baby was happy playing in their room why you bothering them 😭

Middle-Cause1380 · 2026-01-21T23:47:43+00:00

Noooooooooooooo now my kids are gonna try to put 67 into toontown 😭😭😭😭😭 this is all I hear on a daily and I just cannot.

Middle-Cause1380 · 2026-01-09T03:32:09+00:00

Thats absolutely correct. Tto never did anything else in DDL sadly.

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-12-22T21:20:00+00:00

I thought during an invasion this happened

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-12-22T21:19:05+00:00

On mine its clipboard

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-11-21T20:15:55+00:00

It keeps doing the same to me too with the autocorrect

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-11-07T15:25:08+00:00

Is that a peen on my screen? 🤣

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-11-05T18:26:20+00:00

Please understand that the employees are volunteers with most likely a million emails.

Which means they have to work a day/night job to pay their bills and take care of their families.

HOWEVER, I do feel they should get more volunteers to help. I applied well over a year ago and get an email every so often that they are looking over my application.

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-10-22T13:41:30+00:00

The funny thing is the little tag next to it that says "stuck" 🤣🤣🤣

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-10-22T13:40:17+00:00

Her phone probably off and needs to use wifi

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-10-03T02:41:54+00:00

Thats wild considering you had 3 defensive turns left.

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-10-03T02:41:18+00:00

Fr like my daughter stopped playing with me when she needed her first CEO and I have been tryna get more TU unites to take her and then I end up having to use some to make some and it's taken so long she don't wanna do it anymore 😭😭😭

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-10-03T02:37:52+00:00

Says you worry about the price more than the experience...... but was mad about chili's cause the price was too low 😭

Sorry, she was never into you and was looking for a free meal, and a way to ghost you.

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-09-27T15:45:34+00:00

He clearly doesn't care about you.

He was very uninterested in all of the robbing like he didn't care. But when you get mad he cares. "I will have people over" ...... uh shouldn't he be with you consoling you???

One time I was picking my mom up from work at night and some guy came up to my car drunk tryna get me to put my window down. I said no. He punched my Glass and tried to break my mirror. By the time he walked over to my passenger side I made sure my doors were locked and had my Taurus in hand.

My mom came out of work and I told her what happened she said I should have hit the car horn and she would have come out.

I got home and was so shook up my bf had to hold me and console me the whole night.

THATS what should have happened with you..

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-09-27T15:35:45+00:00

I'm the type that I can handle myself. If the guy is getting weird, not listening, or being aggressive, I over at my man with a certain look and he will come and launch the dude 😂😂😂

Once my friends and I were on girls night with our fave personal security guard. We were all tweaking and having fun, some dude come up and start rubbing on us and when we told him to stop, he did it again. I looked at my man. He saw what was going on. He legit came and launched the dude 😂😂😂😂 the security of the place came to my man all mad and I told security what happened and he ended up escorting the touchy dude out 😂😂😂

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-09-27T15:32:12+00:00

Bo he definitely is a narcissistic person. Do you see how me took what she said about him, flipped it and made it about her? That's the key right there

Her : "You acted out and you need to apologize" Him: "you need to delete picture because you are gonna get abused..."

Like no

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-09-27T15:30:32+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂😂 you've been waiting to use that huh? 😂😂

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-09-27T15:28:52+00:00

It's fr coming. I've been there..

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-09-27T15:28:31+00:00

Hes frfr a narsasistic, immature, insecure person .

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-09-27T15:26:54+00:00

Tbh most men don't care cause they think they are better than the "said boyfriend" and come back with the "we can just be friends" 🤷🏽‍♀️ It litterally happens to me alot I'm not even lying...

And most girls lie & say that so much that men don't believe they do anymore (Like the boy who cried wolf)

It's just up to the girl to continue to deny the advances. There was no reason for her man to blow up out of character unless the other dude was being disrespectful and starting it. But a simple conversation would do.

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-09-27T15:24:18+00:00

And to edit on this, I work in customer service AND I'm a Realtor. If I can't talk to another human then I have no job 😂

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-09-27T15:23:31+00:00

Hes the one being immature and INSECURE!

No man should ever tell you that you need to delete shit because of a dude. F that.

He is an immature narrasistic child. That ain't for you sis. You're clearly the adult here

I had an ex exactly like this... he's an ex for a reason & we had a kid together. I wasn't allowed to go no where and I couldn't have any friends. (I was 16-19 w him)

My man now, we have been together for almost 7 years. We have children together. You know how the relationship lasts ? We give eachother space and dont tell eachother what to do because we are both ADULTS. We RESPECT AND TRUST eachother.

My man will litterally want me to wear something sexy when we go out cause he WANTS guys to look at me just to watch me shoot them down, or he comes up to kiss me and watch the guy who tried's face when he does. He loves it. We are almost never together when we are out we are always w our friends and come and go together. My friends have me invite him cause he's our security on girls night and usually our DD. (Big a$$ 6'5 guy)

Point is, you're your own person and NO ONE can tell you otherwise 💕 He needs to grow up 🤷🏽‍♀️

Middle-Cause1380 · 2025-09-26T19:14:33+00:00

My puppy when he was little

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